Marriage - Makes some and Breaks some - Page 2

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

@Munni..
Fabulous👏 You have added on to the post with so much more details.. Hats off⭐️

Yes. It is true. A husband's fate lies in the wife he gets. She is the anchor to any relationship. Aham was fortunate in that instance. Jigar was not..
But again, a husband can still make it work if he decides to do it. Like Aham did.. Gopi understood Aham and she did her part without expectations.
Aham first did not accept what fate had given him. But slowly he decided he would give it a chance. He took what destiny presented him and worked to understand his wife. It is always a two way route..
Jigar and Rashi on the other hand, I cannot understand. Jigar has accepted and is living with what fate gave him happily. Rashi cribs and cries about her fate.. Maybe that is what is making their marriage a no-no😕

Originally posted by: 5cents

Neha, is not the surprise entry we were waiting for...she is just a random girl, but the actual girl will make her enert soon😳

Harini, lovely wonderful sensible and a very sensitive post 👏. You and MUNNI 👍🏼have handle the subject wonderfully well ⭐️.

I loved the last line it says it all...Our happiness lies in how we approach our relationship. I believe that, in a good relationship, partners change and grow together. There goes Gopi & Ahem...they are on the path of discovering each other and hence are growing the bond of love and togetherness.

Gopi approached it in her simple way without any tricks and gimmicks and found real happiness eventually and a loving , caring partner in Ahem. Rashi, and her million one tricks are not letting her enjoy ,marital bliss which she has in hand. She is always worried abt the future, money, how Gopi is getting more powerful than her so all these are deterrents and stopping her from seeing what a gem of a hubby she has in her hand.

We shd always treat the symptoms rather than causes. Gopi never went into why Ahem is not happy with me, she just wanted to please him, care for him, as he is her hubby. She took care of the symptom and that was UNHAPPINESS/displeasure.

If we're dissatisfied with our partner, we should look not at his or her faults, but at how he or she fits into our expectations. Rashi is not doing that. She has abs different expectations from marriage and Jigar abs different. I'm not getting into who is wrong or right and why and what? The simple answer is Jigar & rashi have abs different expectations there is no compatibility as their expectations are not compatible. We can always see their underlying lack of coordination.

There is no fixed solution for this love-marriage problem, like chemistry everyone has to find their own solutions.Everyone has to understand on their own, what they want & how they are going to handle it. Gopi & Ahem completely understand it but unfortunately Rashi does not get it so poor Jiggy has to suffer.

Neha is not the person.. It is very clear now.. Gopi knows Neha.. 😲
That was a fabulous take Tina.. and how true👏
Gopi's approach was the best under the circumstances. If she had confronted Aham to make his prejudices go, it would never have worked.. Her patience and her small steps to gain his trust paved the way to her happiness.
At one point, Aham realised Gopi's hardwork. He saw that he had to make it work from his side too and he is doing just that. He schooled his expectations to Gopi as she schooled hers to him. That is exactly what Baa said..
Rashi and Jigar's expectations from life is very different. That one and their lack of proper understanding will always stand in the way of their marital bliss😕

@harini and Munni...loved both analysis!!amazingly well put!!gopi deserves all the love and comfort in the world.

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Neha is not the person.. It is very clear now.. Gopi knows Neha.. 😲
That was a fabulous take Tina.. and how true👏
Gopi's approach was the best under the circumstances. If she had confronted Aham to make his prejudices go, it would never have worked.. Her patience and her small steps to gain his trust paved the way to her happiness.
At one point, Aham realised Gopi's hardwork. He saw that he had to make it work from his side too and he is doing just that. He schooled his expectations to Gopi as she schooled hers to him. That is exactly what Baa said..
Rashi and Jigar's expectations from life is very different. That one and their lack of proper understanding will always stand in the way of their marital bliss😕

Aww you guys @Tina and @ Munni.. You make these posts so much more thoughtful..👏 Hats off to you guys⭐️

@Tina Absolutely agree.. It is the perspective that needs to change in order see the situation differently.. Until we do that we remain in the same pond with nowhere to go😕

@Munni.. - No words.. I accept.. It is because of her actions that Aham decided to work on the relationship.. 😛 Gopi indeed deserves all praise😛

Originally posted by: Nihira-fan

@harini and Munni...loved both analysis!!amazingly well put!!gopi deserves all the love and comfort in the world.

Thanks Nihira.. I am glad you liked the analysis.. Gopi deserves love, comfort and more.. Lets hope today was just the start😃

Extremely apt analysis. And an equally great post!👏

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Thanks Nihira.. I am glad you liked the analysis.. Gopi deserves love, comfort and more.. Lets hope today was just the start😃

@Munnihydrebad and @justlikethat - explained beautifully :)

Originally posted by: ~*sunshine*~

@Munnihydrebad and @justlikethat - explained beautifully :)