Tujko hai Salaam Jindgi-NIDHI WOMAN POWER - Page 3

Originally posted by: niniborn2rule

Standing in the 21st century where we speak of equality of sexes where we r taught that a girl is equivalent to a boy ...i dont find any reason as to y a girl cannot take her own decisions...but sadly enuf in our country even today they cant...according to me this is sheer disrespect to womanhood itself...celebrating woman's day every year wont solve the purpose until and unless people learn to respect a woman and her decisions rather than forcing her to do something...one shld remember that after all its her life and she is the person who is going to lead the life so the decisions shld also b her own and not someone else's.

Originally posted by: NeelimaSJ

Some parents think that giving freedom to their daughters is a way of making them independent and strong. Some parents think that being strict will keep their daughters safe and morally sound. It is not easy being a woman. A woman has to work ten times harder than a man to get appreciation for her work.

I don't think going against your parents wish and getting married is a bright idea. At thebeginningit may sound simple. But the truth is that at some point in life you do need your parents support.. Financially maybe not, but mentally yes.

Originally posted by: shalini.malik72

I think every girl has a right to make her choice,if you love someone then you should be strong enough to face the world.

Originally posted by: mysticlover

well this is a situation where the women had to answer the question whether they are ready to fight the world and mostly their family to have the right to take their own decisions! mostly girls fear the society and their own family which deems a girl taking their own decision as someone who is a outcast. the values that a girl gets while growing up hinders this breaking away.. girls are always expected to follow a code or timeline. finishing studies by the age of 24 and getting married in 2 years and it may not be true for some of the girls but it's true for many out there. actually it's the girl who needs to decide whether she wants the freedom or just to tag along.. i don't know whether it's appropriate to say it here but regarding one of the ads of a particular tea brand it could always be seen that it's the women who left their dreams for family and it's them who tries to get it back after drinking the tea. i am not saying it's wrong but what i am trying to say is that why is it always the women sacrificing their goals for family? why can't the family step back and let the girl take her decision? i think i am talking in loops.. all i wanted to say was that in the end it rests on the girl whether she isreadyto fight for herself or not? and as far as i amconsideredi won't put my dreams on hold for anything.. it may seem harsh but i won't sacrifice my dreams..