Shocked about the shagun for arti

I am absolutely shocked about the difference in the shagun package...gayatri is the one who chose arti for yash then why the difference...it is not as if shoba came first and asked for yash's hand for arti...vidhi and gaytri approached them...

hey attitide towards ansh toh chalo theek hai.. and to that extent even her atttiude towards aarti cud be explained - becuz she is i think shown as a gray character... but to see her differentiating b/w her own sons was way shocking :| i thought she loved yash just as much, or even more than, prateeek..and she'd been after his mariage since such a long time, toh she wud be happy abt it! :O

^ Sidra ji we were just talking about it😲

Anyway lemme copy and paste what I said about this because I'm too lazy to retype😆

She's being weird. Before she was all like Yash ki shaadi etc. and now all of the sudden she's like Prateek ki pehli shaadi? :s Where did this farak come from? I would've understood a bit more if she said she wanted it to be simple cuz of the circumstances. I mean, they don't want a bahu. Well at least Yash doesn't. He just wants a mom for his kids and to him other then that there wont be a relationship between them. If she said something about the circumstances the wedding's happening in then MAYBE I would've been like oh ok but this is kinda weird :s

Originally posted by: Alamelu

I am absolutely shocked about the difference in the shagun package...gayatri is the one who chose arti for yash then why the difference...it is not as if shoba came first and asked for yash's hand for arti...vidhi and gaytri approached them...

Am wondering how Yash would react when he hears about it...wou;d he not feel bad...how can gayatri do this ...wonder how she will be when they get married...hopefully she will not disrespect arti and mistreat ansh...hope yash stands up for them...

hope vidhi did give a new dress to ansh and not vidhan's please...

gayatri is so mean...how can she act so differently...she is not ready to accept ansh...in future after marriage hope she wont create problem to ansh...ugly gayatri has advised to send her grand son clothes as sagun to ansh...stupid lady hate her to core...

Originally posted by: narangi_77

Gayatri is a terribly petty and mean-minded woman. Really very very nasty...

Poor Ansh. He's going to suffer from this, as is Aarti. Yash can't be there 24/7 - and I'm sure Aarti won't run complaining to him each time something happens. It's small and petty things that can really hurt a child. But I think Ansh will be surrounded by many people to love him - Prateek and Paridi for instance.

I was thinking about the scene outside the mall when Yash was buying balloons. I was surprised that he didn't buy them for Ansh too until he saw his disappointment...If you're with a group of children you can't single out your own when you buy small things like ice-cream or balloons or whatever...

BUT, in the case of Yash, he's a naturally kind man and corrected his mistake quickly. He has to learn to be aware of Ansh and then learn to count him among his children. That might come more naturally to Aarti (don't want to generalize on the basis of gender, but given the whole combing payal's hair at the mall...i think it will be easier for her).

As for Yash, right now, he behaves like an automaton...even with his own children. He will slowly open up...after all, who can resist Ansh? I can't wait to see him show more affection toward him - ruffling his hair, conspiratorial winks, all things fathers and sons do...

i feel the same. as i also mentioned it in one of my post

like they say anyone else can differentiate between their children but not a mom...it might be a second marriage, but still does she not want her son's happiness, especially since she is the one who decided on the marriage and the girl not Yash or Arti...