Stalking : Ever expierienced it?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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This happened to me recently. Memories of that episode still covers me with chills and shivers when I think of it.

It was the night of Holi, I was at a friend's for a party. I ended up staying in late, and it got nearly 8.30 P.M. when I finally walked out. As I walked, I found the roads and streets were mostly deserted except for a few buses and private vehicles rushing ahead. I started walking towards the bridge auto-stand, only to find it empty. No sign of any auto around. I got worried because it was getting swell late, and mom would get mad at me for staying out so late on a holiday night. I started walking ahead, when I noticed a man standing a few feet away, smoking . I thought nothing of it. As I went closer, he turned around and looked at me. There was something in his eye that disconcerted me. When I was beside him, he leaned in and took a "closer look". I was a trifle weird-ed out, but kept walking anyway. I'd just gone a few steps when I realized he was following me. I ignored it and increased my speed. At a point he stopped a few steps behind me. I was getting creeped out for some reason. I hurried to a corner of the street where I saw three-four people waiting for the bus. I decided to take a bus and get the hell out of there, instead of waiting for an auto. A little later, a bus turned up. As I went near it, the man appeared beside me, as if magically. As I waited for some of the people to get out of the crowded bus, I noticed him staring at me. It was a fixed, cold, stare. I can't describe it...it almost seemed he was putting me under a X-ray.

I got up the bus, and prayed for it to drive away soon. People were still coming in, but the man stood right there, his gaze fixated on me. I was feeling chills by this time. Finally, the bus took off. Then, something happened which made my heart skip a beat. After the people had all finished climbing aboard and there was absolutely NO SPACE left on the bus, the moment it started moving, that man, took catch of a handle and CALMLY latched onto the bus. I was startled. I was certain that he had boarded it for me. I could tell from the way he STILL kept gazing at me with that cold, conspiratorial look. The bus stopped at two places on the way, that man got off at both stops, and climbed back in when it started moving. It seemed...not right.


I was perspiring by this time. I prayed silently that the stop where I'd be getting off not be deserted. Please...I fervently started asking some of the people on bus if they'd be getting off at my Stop. Then my stop came, and I was SUPER-RELIEVED to see it was still lighted with few people around. I got down, and, without glancing behind, walked straight to the Rickshaw stand. I almost jumped on a rickshaw, mentioned my Housing Society, and asked the puller to drive away FAST. Through the corner of my eye, I could see the man standing a few feet away, still staring at me and muttering something. I knew he couldn't follow me anymore. I was still shivering and my teeth borderline chattering, by the time I reached home. The gaze of the man still haunts me. From that day on, I've vowed to steer clear of staying out late on Public Holidays.



Have any of you experienced such an incident?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Should I move this to the chat thread (since you're just sharing a life event) or would you like to start some kind of serious discussion?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Yes a bad personal experience. There are cyber stalkers too.

But I am surprised that there are no police officers around too at night. Lately read about the danger in some towns in India.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I started this thread to discuss stalking. I was actually going to name it: Why do people stalk? I'm interested in knowing the experiences and insights of others on this issue.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: sayali_babes

I started this thread to discuss stalking. I was actually going to name it: Why do people stalk? I'm interested in knowing the experiences and insights of others on this issue.

Most stalkers are potential rapists or kidnappers.
Unless they are hired private eyes.
It is quite a major problem in some countries.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Have you experienced cyber-stalking, Summer ji?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Stalking is such a strong word!!!!!!!! But ya I know some ppl call it love or investigating or researching ..😃

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Originally posted by: sayali_babes

Have you experienced cyber-stalking, Summer ji?

I would not say stalking but there are always people who want to get to know us. Strangers from another world, trolls and weirdos.😆
I think happens to everyone.
Worst are those that try to sell "Get rich Schemes" or letters asking us to collect free gifts etc.
Posted: 13 years ago
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I was stalked by my ex-husband a few times. Not a fun experience if I may say so.
This happened last year. I was on my way to pick up daughter from her school and as it is so near I always walk. He knew when the school finishes and when I got out of my house he followed me in his car for a few meters and then left. It happened a few more times but there was one incident that scared the living day light out of me. One day he followed me upto my daughter's school and waited. I picked up my daughter and literally ran to my uncle's house. I stayed there until it was safe again and then my uncle dropped me off. I was hell mad for what my ex did; not only because it frightened me but it frightened my daughter. After that I contacted the police and now he isn't allowed to come anywhere near me or my daughter.
Just to clear one thing my daughter isn't his, she's from my previous marriage but her father was no better as he used me.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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you shout have bought a gun and shot his ba$$$ off. :D

Such people should be put away permanently.

Thankfully, noone has stalked me, considering I'm not a lady in her 20's 😆, rather a boy in his early 20's :P But my mom was stalked by some guy when she was in her early twenties. Whenever she got onto a bus, some fellow used to come onto the same bus and say "tsk tsk tsk" with his lips. That freaked her out. Creepy bas#$@$@!!! 😡

I can only say that they are mentally quite ill, or obsessed. Gives me the creeps :P

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