To know your priorities in life

This is not about BM,Rano,Alok or even Ishaan. This is about Suhana and her decision to work in a serial. Everyone comes across a point in life where your own priorities need to be analyzed and then decision needs to be made about them. Suhana decided to act not because it was her dream to act or because she really wanted to work outside.She was discovered and just took the serial job without giving too much thought in to it because she was supported by BM.

Originally posted by: svpg

What if Ishaan was working in a serial and he came home at 2:00 am?Then Suhana also would have complained about it right?It is not about Bahu or Beta.It is about an individual getting married and how every act of yours affects your partner and at the same time your own dreams,your own aspirations also have to be fulfilled.

wonderful topic and I agree with you👏
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at the top. I think that is what they will ultimately show. Ishan supports Suhana at this point because she is happy working in a serial and that is something she is good at. Ishan is putting Suhana's happiness before his own which is amazing

I totally agree that if Suhana does want to quit it should be on her own terms and not because Rano is upset or not. Call me a feminist or whatever but why the hell should she quit her job just because her husband is "unhappy" (according to her mother in law) I find that completely absurd

@ abhi: I think if family is supportive than it's not so difficult for a woman to juggle in her personal & private life... & there is very less burden in joint family as the other members share the responsibilities of home but in nuclear family it often creates a rift between hubby & wife over the responsibilities of home & children. In SGP the entire family except rano is supporting suhaana that's why it's easier for both ishaan & suhaana...

great post topic-maker👍🏼

Originally posted by: Tani91

wonderful topic and I agree with you👏
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at the top. I think that is what they will ultimately show. Ishan supports Suhana at this point because she is happy working in a serial and that is something she is good at. Ishan is putting Suhana's happiness before his own which is amazing

I totally agree that if Suhana does want to quit it should be on her own terms and not because Rano is upset or not. Call me a feminist or whatever but why the hell should she quit her job just because her husband is "unhappy" (according to her mother in law) I find that completely absurd

Originally posted by: 1988nani

rano is right...

^I completely agree with that...Rano's sentiments and reasoning is completely justified but not the way she is enacting them. Rano first of all said that Ishan was lonley which he said he didnt have a problem with it and secondly she taunts them by saying that they will not have children (which I felt was completely absurd and uncalled for) and then also what work does Suhana do. I mean if Suhana doesnt do housework then atleast let her focus on her career, it shows that she is better at acting than she is at cooking/cleaning right

Sometimes , our mothers have super sense of our thinking , which neither we want to admit or we want to show .

Ishan is giving mix signals . When he is with suhana , he is saying he is right . While Rano told him private , he said " main bhi toh mana kiya than naa. Meri kaun sunta hain . Aab kuch nahi ho sakta , maana karna thaa toh taab karna thaa " if he has no problem then this sentenses speaks volums . It is also important to understand the underlinning problems too . He still has problem but he is not willing to accept it . Other wise that day he would have said , maa I don't have problem but We'll talk more on the subject later or let go talk in my room as we need work things out with suhana too . Which didn't happen .

Rano did see ishan waitiing alone for suhana at night , at staires etc . If this was other way around then rano had asked ishan to come home sooner too . May b rano is right , may b not . But I do know one thing Suhana is wrong . She needs to work things out in different perspective . She needs to see that no decisions should b made in haste .

If we think Rano only cares for mohalla wala then We r wrong . The way rano jump to defend suhana regarding actor talk makes me believe she cares. Samaj is part of us , we are part of that samaj . Just the same way KK too has to make choice of ignoring the samaj or not soon .

Here too problem is 2 sided . Suhana doesnot think beyond what she wants to do and Rano can't present her point in constructive manner . Ishan too is not helping by giving his honest opinion what he wants . Suhana - rano likes it or not . As for accusation of suhana not doing any house work , well does she ? It is not accusation since suhana is not doing anything . Li,e someone said in other thread . Can she not make tea or something since she had PM shift .

Many times Rajni too tells Disha that raheno do I'll do it . So disha leaves like that ? No she sticks around to help . If she can . Suhana too needs to help around specially when she can . Problem is they gave too much time to suhana to understand what is expected of her which she has not learned yet . Suhana doesn't need to do cook n clean all the time but when she can . Not just show up for breakfast , lunch dinner .

Rano has said in the past that she wants to give love to suhana n never want her to do household chores . Rano along with BM wants suhana to help around house , but does she ?

End of the day its suhana who needs to work out her priorities .