Tread carefully...Arnav's vilification - Page 2

Originally posted by: Hessa85

Hi, I think your missing the reason people are so upset by arnavs behaviour. we are thinking about what arnav is doing NOW. right NOW he is stepping on khushi, using her and crushing the life and reputation of a very very YOUNG girl. he isnt JUST using her, he plans to toss her aside 6 months after, this is the girl he supposedly loves, YET he did not even for a second pause to speak to khushi, to hear her side of the story. This oh so clever business tycoon couldnt piece the pieces together and even come close to the finding out the TRUTH but is all set to dole out the punishment. How can you justify his later finding out the truth and saying ''oops, slight error there'' with the humiliation he is putting khushi through at this point?? realising the truth when your slapped with it in the face means nothing after youve already ripped out someones heart in your blindness.

and i think your clealry jumping to conclusions about people 'loving shyaam.' if someone commits an act that is wrong, it is WRONG. it doesnt matter whether the person making mistake is shyaam or arnav. we all know how low shyaam is. but how does that make arnavs behaviour right???

Originally posted by: JuS**LameAHolic

i am not saying it's right, all i am tryna say is that why hatee on him when clearly it's shyam's fault? he plans to toass her aside - which obvo is NOT gonna happen and we all know that..and right NOW is also the arnav part that's hurting him..he putting up the ASR facade, but clearly he's hurting himself by hurting khushi..and the shyam lover thing was supposed to be sarcastic, you know? and why are people so hung up on how arnav can't find out the truth? i mean then the serial would just end, unles you wanna see repeated mamiji's naatak?

Originally posted by: Hessa85

who hates arnav,, at the end of the day this is a show and we should be open to comments whether critical or not. your interpreting it as people '''hating on'' arnav becausepeople are so critical of his behaviour. but again, if something is wrong, it IS wrong and SHOULD be criticised. whether its the cv's or the character people vent about what difference does it make. this is what media and tv is about. you create a show for the viewers so they have EVERY right to criticize or praise.

the ASR facade...so what if he is hurting himself? he is allowed to hurt himself. i am allowed to hurt myself if i want too. but that does not give me the right to hurt others in the process. same with asr,,,why take everyone else down to the shits with you. yes he has his own psychological issues, he has his own flaws, his past makes him damaged goods. but plenty of people have issues in their past, including khushi. that doesnt mean they treat everyone else like dirt.

people are hung up about arnav not seeing the truth because his shortsight has lead to this whole thing. i dont agree that the serial should just end,,, i think thats the job of the cv's to create siomething people enjoy and actually sells. ironically i guess that is part of the problem, in the south asian cmmunity there seems to be some obsession with females leads that are repeatedly humiliated. These female leads have to PROVE themselves (their loyalty, innocence or worthiness) to their men...the male lead. when the male lead realises what a mistake he has made then all his mistakes,, the way he humiliatiated his wife is forgiven and forgotton. not only that both the heroine is given the ultimate reward for patient...that man who did all the humiliating. hence we have gopi vahi and sandya paving the way as a shining example in tellyworld.

Originally posted by: JuS**LameAHolic

you know what, i am not even gonna argue anymore! coz it's like world war on here! just one thing though, i watch saathiya sometimes, but totally HATE gopi's character..shining example? she's always crying and we don't wantt khushi like that..since you all want her to stand up for herself, gopi is a really bad example!