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Posted: 13 years ago
#31
a simple fact, Uttara doesn't want the baby, the baby will remind her n everyone what happened between Uttara n that creep, having the baby just to show the society that she is brave, is so wrong!

It should be Uttara's decision whether or not she wants the child. Right now, Tara should be her first priority and no one should poke their nose in her 'affairs' 😛
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Raadhni

I agree with everyone's pov and I hold Uttara entirely responsible for the situation she is in. When hooking up and lusting with BJ didn't she not realise that i] he was her jija and her sister's hubby,ii] she was a widow iii] she had a teenage daughter who had just bonded with her and what effects her actions will have on the psychologically development of the child. iv] she was too old to bear a child and the society's outcomev] it is possible for her to get pregnant

vi] BJ is unfaithful to his own wife of 30yrs and he could ditch her anytime.
vii] in the society she would be ridiculed and outcast if she remarried and had a child that too from her jija
viii] if she did had any relation then she should take any precautions.
NO !!!!!! she was acting like a newly young crazy lover who had just met someone who had been able to satisfy her fully and make her feel like a woman. Devyani's and Priya's advices feel on deaf ears.
This awkward situation arose just because of her own actions and she should face the consequences herself. She should not be saying that it is the ' paap ki nishaani' 'cos she was the willing partner to that heinous crime. BJ never threatened her or raped her though he used dirty tactics to have Uttara in bed. Uttara used to allow him to come into her bedroom stealthily.
It is now a question of what is right and what is wrong. What fault is of that unborn fetus? He / She did not ask to be brought into this world. Then why let the poor one suffer at the cost of others' heinous act. If you had the guts to go the extend of usting with a married man then you have to have the guts of bringing up the child or go on with the abortion and do another 'maha paap'.



Excuse me??? 😕

Abortion ain't...AIN'T a sin. No matter what those cheesy campaigns would love to have you believe. People abort out of practical problems, and not for fun.

Do you really, really think it would be healthy for Uttara to have this baby? Would it bore well for all those involved---Uttara's daughter, Devyani and her family, and also the child ITSELF? What kind of an existence would the baby lead? Would it be fair to him/her?

I really don't understand the "Emotional Attyachaar" of pro-lifers.
Edited by sayali_babes - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: sayali_babes



Excuse me??? 😕

Abortion ain't...AIN'T a sin. No matter what those cheesy campaigns would love to have you believe. People abort out of practical problems, and not for fun.

Do you really, really think it would be healthy for Uttara to have this baby? Would it bore well for all those involved---Uttara's daughter, Devyani and her family, and also the child ITSELF? What kind of an existence would the baby lead? Would it be fair to him/her?

I really don't understand the "Emotional Attyachaar" of pro-lifers.


You should have a kid when you are prepared for it and take care of the baby ...Its not olden times when people have children thinking of Gods gift and could not take care of them ...Now its very difficult even to raise one kid if you want to give best to Him/her ...So these decision are taken with practicality not with emotions ...Specially in Uttra,s case , she has her responsibility towards her teenage daughter ...Why to bring an innocent life in the world where he has to bear the stigma of her mother,s deeds ..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: sayali_babes



Excuse me??? 😕

Abortion ain't...AIN'T a sin. No matter what those cheesy campaigns would love to have you believe. People abort out of practical problems, and not for fun.

Do you really, really think it would be healthy for Uttara to have this baby? Would it bore well for all those involved---Uttara's daughter, Devyani and her family, and also the child ITSELF? What kind of an existence would the baby lead? Would it be fair to him/her?

I really don't understand the "Emotional Attyachaar" of pro-lifers.



I couldnt agree with you more...there are so many people who have kids and dont abort because it is a sin and then they cant take care of that kid and who suffers at the end it is that baby...sometimes you see homeless people with 5 kids and pregnant and all you can think is that why the hell did you have so many and still keep bringing more when you cant gave them a proper life...or they gave up their kid for adoption and that baby has to deal with attachment issues and what not...all these people (the family) are being selfish and thinking about their values but not about the unborn child and tara...just giving birth to a child is not the whole thing...it is what comes that is more important...people should have kids when they can support them and are emotionally prepared...uttara hates the baby but why should the baby suffer...


I support abortion and dont think it is a sin...instead of bringing a baby in to this world and letting them suffer it is better if they are in peace...

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