Totally Absurd ... - Page 3

Originally posted by: FIZK6

^^ Even if Gaurav was here,he wouldnt have done anything anyway.

😆 but the creatives take viewers for granted. they couldn't renew contract with Daksh, so shipped his character overseas 🤪
n so the only solution they show to Indian gays is that you have to run away as Indian society won't let you live?

Originally posted by: Luv4games

i agree with you guy a liberal woman will make her own decisions and are independent...of course that doesnt mean they should all abort their child but that is their decision...when uttara was giving reasons to priya that she cant have the baby priya kept saying i totally understand what you are going through...but that is so not true..priya will never know what uttara is going through...they should all have supported and respected uttara's decision...

and i am totally with adi in this issue...it is one thing knowing your aunt and father had an affair but having a child out of that is way harder and looking at that little brother or sister will always remind him of the affair...

absolutely! n Uttara's decisions were so valid, her age, the relation(?) due to which the baby has come up and the awkwardness that'll be there coz of the baby.. Uttara isn't a kid that everyone is trying to force her into having the baby 😡

even if everyone, including Adi wants the baby, if Uttara wants abortion then rest of the people should learn to respect her decision!
first it was Brahma forcing his wishes on others, now the women of the family are doing this.

wasn't Priya allowed to take her decision to leave the house? uff.. I so wanted Priya when she reached the hospital to tell Uttara that she understood Uttara and let her decide..

but no, we have adults slapping scenes n Devyani acting oh-so-mahaan 🥱
I hope SJ knocks some sense in them!

Originally posted by: _dkmystery_

absolutely! n Uttara's decisions were so valid, her age, the relation(?) due to which the baby has come up and the awkwardness that'll be there coz of the baby.. Uttara isn't a kid that everyone is trying to force her into having the baby 😡

even if everyone, including Adi wants the baby, if Uttara wants abortion then rest of the people should learn to respect her decision!
first it was Brahma forcing his wishes on others, now the women of the family are doing this.

wasn't Priya allowed to take her decision to leave the house? uff.. I so wanted Priya when she reached the hospital to tell Uttara that she understood Uttara and let her decide..

but no, we have adults slapping scenes n Devyani acting oh-so-mahaan 🥱
I hope SJ knocks some sense in them!

agree they are all worried about a fetus but not actual person's wishes...she is saying no but nobody listens...also did anybody even once think of tara...first her dad dies, then she finds out her dad was evil, then her mom had an affair and now she is having a baby...that kid has already seen so much change she doenst need more...maybe one of them could actually think of the child who already is in the world...uttara gave very practical reasons...plus to be honest it is not like uttara was a great mother to tara that now she should have another child...during the whole affair she didnt even once think of tara...instead of spending time with her daughter she was busy lusting after her brother in law...just because she said sorry does not change the stuff she did...and exactly how is she going to support two children... brama is in jail so he cant provide for her...she doesnt have a job...how long will she live off devyani...at the end only tara, uttara and the unborn baby are going to suffer and not anyone else...vidya will have her own life and same with everyone else...and priya should have understood and told everyone to let uttara make her decision because she also left her hubby and didnt listen to anyone...I am not sure how long SB can be there to make them understand

Originally posted by: Luv4games

agree they are all worried about a fetus but not actual person's wishes...she is saying no but nobody listens...also did anybody even once think of tara...first her dad dies, then she finds out her dad was evil, then her mom had an affair and now she is having a baby...that kid has already seen so much change she doenst need more...maybe one of them could actually think of the child who already is in the world...uttara gave very practical reasons...plus to be honest it is not like uttara was a great mother to tara that now she should have another child...during the whole affair she didnt even once think of tara...instead of spending time with her daughter she was busy lusting after her brother in law...just because she said sorry does not change the stuff she did...and exactly how is she going to support two children... brama is in jail so he cant provide for her...she doesnt have a job...how long will she live off devyani...at the end only tara, uttara and the unborn baby are going to suffer and not anyone else...vidya will have her own life and same with everyone else...and priya should have understood and told everyone to let uttara make her decision because she also left her hubby and didnt listen to anyone...I am not sure how long SB can be there to make them understand

so true mate! no one is thinking about Tara who is in existence, but busy ordering Uttara what to do. I hope no one takes inspiration from the present track in real life!!!

you listed everything so well 👏 I don't think u left anything for me to add 😡 😆 😆

I'm like WOW, if the show hadn't got an extension, maybe the women would have taken the right decision 😆

Originally posted by: _dkmystery_

bang on! just to show that the women gang in the show are progressive n bold doesn't mean they go about ordering Uttara...
legit or not, keeping the baby should be her decision.

n the production team could have re-cast Gaurav, coz right now it shows tht he doesn't care what's going on with his family, whether Vidya is pursuing studies/working or lecturing people on whether they should give birth or not 🥱

it is not the unborn's mistake but at times such decisions need to be taken.. this isn't a case of aborting coz it's a girl!

Originally posted by: kgh212121

i find it absurd that people think they are being liberal and transcending the issue by claiming that keeping a baby that you hate shows real courage.

that's ridiculous. that isn't healthy for the child nor for the mother, nor for the family--and ultimately for society.

it's the woman's choice. abortion or not, it is the woman's choice. she needs to think about what's is right for her and her child. and naturally when we make big decisions, we think about our loved ones as well. this is not to say that we should fall under pressure.

real courage will be moving on and trying to live a normal life. whether this baby comes in the picture or not. but trying to mend the valued relationships, raising her daughter the right way, and finding her Self and her purpose. THAT will be were courage is tested.

i'm sorry, but i hold any extreme in opinion to be baseless. who are we to give our opinion? who are we to say what someone should do or not. let that person make a decision and then live by it honorably.

Originally posted by: Neerjaa

One side you are making a progressive show with bold theme ...Why shhould Uttra keep the child who will be carrying the stigma his/her whole life ...The child of that person who manipulated you , abused you and you want the reminder of all the past with you ...why not to abort the baby , why Vidya should be burdened with the child ...Let her go for studies , get some professional course so that she does not have to be depended on anyone ...She can start her life afresh later on ...

Seems Vidya does not have inclination for studies. That is just a bahana to stay in that house full of interesting happenings.

Originally posted by: rightnow

Seems Vidya does not have inclination for studies. That is just a bahana to stay in that house full of interesting happenings.

totally agree with you..she keeps saying she wants to study and help woman but how and when??? she needs to start working on it and let uttara make her own decisions...

Uttara having a baby at this age and circumstances is selfish and a bad decision...she is not a good mother so instead of having a child just try to be a good mom to the one that is already alive and not a fetus

Originally posted by: lilmzsunshine

If real courage would be to move on with or without the child, then wouldn't the opposite be to not have the child, or have the child, due to the shame and ridicule the society will subject one to? Any decision made to escape the shame, ridicule, pressure, etc ANYONE would put on the said person doesn't really show courage does it? If Uttara chose to have an abortion for the sake of Devyani, or to protect that child from a terrible, shameful life, sure - that would be a wise decision. But my understanding is that she was mostly doing that to save face, for her and for the family, to escape embarrassment and , yet again, from facing the music of her actions. And to be able to ACTUALLY face the music, would show courage. Be it be aborting or keeping the baby. As Priya said - why punish the child for a crime she committed.

As for keeping a baby you hate - if ANYONE hates a baby before he/she is born, then they're not in their right mind to have a baby at all, and should get counselling. At that point, I'm sure the doctor will prolly recommend an abortion, or adoption, based on the patient's mental state. Hate is a very extreme emotion, and very unhealthy, specially if you feel it for your own blood. So I think that may be a whole different equation.

Very possibly, that'll be the next track - Uttara hating that child, but Devyani acting as a quasi mother to it ...

-S

then why are they punishing tara by keeping the baby...that girl has been through enough and this is the time that her mom should give all her attention to her and be a good mother to her because all her childhood she was away from her mom...but instead uttara is going turn her world upside down by bringing a new baby...they are all worried about a fetus but not a real person and child who is in this world...they never thought of how this will affect her...uttara made the mistake and then only she should suffer and not tara or the unborn baby who will come to a world where his/her mom has no love for them, will be taunted and bullied by everyone, has brama as a father...that baby is better off by not coming to this world...also uttara is old and medically it is not safe for her to have a baby at this age...what if something happens to her during the pregnancy what will happen to tara...or what if she dies during labor what will happen to both her kids then...uttara was being practical and thinking about the future when she made her decision but everyone else was just being emotional...and to be honest if uttara has a child only tara and her will suffer not anybody else because they will all move on...priya made devyani divorce brama and everything and what happened she left her and moved out because that was necessary for her life...vdya will also leave one day...even dev might leave and start a new life so who has to take care of the baby, uttara and tara...there are not going to life as a big happy family forever...but they didnt think of all this...