Update: Thurs. Feb 9 2012- Anticlimax - Page 10

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MaryAnne23 thumbnail
Posted: 13 years ago
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C is really a loser who wants to win all the time in anything she does. She thinks she can own people the way she owns material things. She keeps talking about her undying love for TA and her desire to marry him, and justifies everything she did by laying claim to 'owning' TA. It's true that the fact that she became psychotic was triggered by her 'failure' to 'own' TA legally by marriage. ut she never ever stops to think that he is a person with feelings and he chose someone else-plain and easy. Ok, the way he did it, by marrying T without explaining to C before it happened was not the best way and it was indeed circumstantial. However, I believe that even if TA had explained to her that he simply DOES NOT have feelings for her, she will still not get it into her thick skull because she only thinks of things from her point of view, and in terms of what she wants, and what she needs. He's just a commodity she needs to possess like everything else in her life.

Even in this episode, when it's plain clear that he does not harbour the same feelings for her, she still pretends and shuts out reality. She even gets 'shocked' that he would deny that she is his wife. She tells TA that she did everything she did for his happiness. She shuts out the reality that his happiness is T.
I believe that her parents are also to be blamed. Her mother claims that they gave her everything in life and even brought her up properly. But maybe thats just what's wrong. They gave her too much. So much so that she treats pple like comodity..to buy and sell to do her bidding. Remember that episode with C and T at C's house, where C shows T her photo album from her childhood, her unhealthy competitive nature was obvious in that episode and T even mentioned that she started competing since young.
So I really don't think that her psychotic condition now , that everyone wants to cure her of, is something that can be cured. Perhaps her reactions and the tendency to hurt herself and others can be rectified to a certain extent, but her character is there to stay. She is a possesive, manipulative, attention-seeking,arrogant, narcisistic person. Full stop! She really thinks of herself as a good catch, and she cannot bear to imagine that someone does not reciprocate the same feelings.
Her so-called suicide is really an anti-climax. It was good of the director to show her vulnerability in this episode, so we as viewers can see where she's coming from. But her jumpig off the legde is way too much. I hope they don't turn this into a pity-party for her.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#92
@ Gunz and shubba,
I am sorry but I have a different take here...
Pei has herself told that there is nothing wrong even in a failed marriage..then how can she blame TA for a failed engagement...
Exactly! Totally agree! She has double standards and her justifications are warped.She asked GP why T who marries a guy who was engaged to come someone else is a good person, and TA who 'ditches' her to marry someone else after being engaged to her is a good person, but she is a bad person for wanting to be married to the guy whom she was engaged to and whom she believes is her husband.
Well, even here, she does not care that he does not have feeings for her or even considered that perhaps if he had married her anyway, that he wd not be doing justice to her because he does not love her. She doesnt care about what he feels. She cares about her love for him..and that's all tht matters.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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MaryAnne23, welcome to the forum. Great analysis. 😊

[quote]Remember that episode with C and T at C's house, where C shows T her photo album from her childhood, her unhealthy competitive nature was obvious in that episode[/quote]

TA should have made it very clear to her in yesterday's episode that there was no question of competition and he had no place for C in his heart and no matter how desperately she tried, it would have been impossible for her to capture T's position . It was the biggest flaw yesterday.

It may have changed her notion on T.
Edited by jinju - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Vishnu38

Good for producers and directors to keep things up as it is.. ratings up and by going by what is said here, everyone loves it. I've read all the posts here and majority are clapping in glee with the slap. So best I leave..

PS: Doctors can't say if someone will def commit suicide or not. They can give risk analysis and going by her behaviour, a reasonable person would look out for such tendencies.


I totally agree with you. Slapping is not the way to go. We see that in abundance in Tamil serials, and that saddens me. The mass is being brainwashed to think this is the right approach. They think male chauvinism should be celebrated.

But I think the first slap was more in self defense on behalf of Thulasi. I don't deny it could be handled with a different approach. Tamil could have told Charu, he thinks of her as a friend and there is no love for her and she can't be his wife. That would have given us a different ending. But sadly, Tamil being Tamil lost his mind as usual... And the second slap was just too disgusting

Hope people learn from this negative episode, that this is not the way to go...

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