Kokila on 19th december 2011 made a statement in front of chirag and hetal "As i long as i am there gopi vahu will not miss her parents or rather I will not let that happen..." chirag says "thats right gopi has always seen you as a mother" will get back to this statement later.
When Ahem and Gopi were married they did go through the formalities of the marriage but they never were a husband and wife...Now it is in the hands of koki to make her son as a husband to her DIL and to make her DIL as a wife to her son...
Koki saw the relationship changing for Ahem and Gopi...
When koki said ahem to cancel gopi's name from school...(she could have done the cancellation ) but she let Ahem do it...we all know how much Ahem hates uneducated people...the same night gopi for the first put across her wish to get educated in front of Ahem..Now he has to make decision for his wife...went against his mom...took the responsibility of teaching her on his shoulders as a husband...
koki saw Ahem holding his wife when she hit her knee to the table and stumbled.. he supported her asked her to be careful...
Koki saw Ahem getting a shirt to wash and giving it to gopi in front of family members again she is the witness to the changing relation
She time and again wanted Ahem to make decisions for gopi '.On 30th Nov 2011... she said she would not approve gopi going to rajpal nagar...but if you wish you can take her... Ahem again made the decision for his wife going against his mom...
He said ok for gopi to go to the goons with money and said that he will be her shadow... koki felt proud of her son...
Saw her son's pain and sorrow in the hospital
when she is herself witness to the change in their relation ,
what is that irks her and made the two of them apart
1. On 24th August 2011, Ahem comes down late ...she asks why are u late... before he could answer gopi says he is late because he was teaching her...koki glares and says... i told you to mind your business.. in short do not disturb your work schedule
from all the 3 points... she means '.your work schedule should not be disturbed even if you educate your wife, you play with your wife or you care for your wife (some of us think that she does not want a them to be together... it's not right she wants them together as long as it does not interfere with his schedule) in all the 3 examples ...there is no meeting missed ...it's only getting late to work...which irked her...
she did not like the fact that Ahem's schedule is being disturbed by helping his own wife... then how on earth is she going to let his work affected
1. by helping rashi - the girl who koki thinks and we think does not deserve this
2. missed an important meeting and to add to her fume jigar did extremely well
Conclusion:
According to her and us... her vahu and dikra are very naive and they do not have the capacity judge the other person's intentions...which is very true
When she is there she is protecting them... when she is not there... anyone can take undue advantage of their naivety... to put some sense into the couple she is going through the hard way...as her vahu is too sweet she needs the lesson hard...
she also felt that they are helping RaJi but these guys relation is not going anywhere...
1. by not sending him to work and making him do the house work... she wanted Ahem to realize the importance of office work...to make him desperate to go and work...
2. by asking gopi vahu not to go to Ahem or obstructing her from attending to Ahem...she is again making both of them realize the importance of each other..making them desperate and eager to be with one another she is doing this with her statement ...now go to the very very first line of the post...
(no need to go there... i copied it here hehehe😆)
Kokila on 19th december 2011 made a statement in front of chirag and hetal "As i long as i am there gopi vahu will not miss her parents or rather I will not let that happen..." chirag says"thats right gopi has always seen you as a mother" will get back to this statement later.
yes she has donned the cap of a strict mother to both of them...to set them straight,,,