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Posted: 13 years ago
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Kokila - Ahem - Gopi

Kokila on 19th december 2011 made a statement in front of chirag and hetal "As i long as i am there gopi vahu will not miss her parents or rather I will not let that happen..." chirag says "thats right gopi has always seen you as a mother" will get back to this statement later.

When Ahem and Gopi were married they did go through the formalities of the marriage but they never were a husband and wife...Now it is in the hands of koki to make her son as a husband to her DIL and to make her DIL as a wife to her son...


Koki saw the relationship changing for Ahem and Gopi...

When koki said ahem to cancel gopi's name from school...(she could have done the cancellation ) but she let Ahem do it...we all know how much Ahem hates uneducated people...the same night gopi for the first put across her wish to get educated in front of Ahem..Now he has to make decision for his wife...went against his mom...took the responsibility of teaching her on his shoulders as a husband...

koki saw Ahem holding his wife when she hit her knee to the table and stumbled.. he supported her asked her to be careful...

Koki saw Ahem getting a shirt to wash and giving it to gopi in front of family members again she is the witness to the changing relation

She time and again wanted Ahem to make decisions for gopi '.On 30th Nov 2011... she said she would not approve gopi going to rajpal nagar...but if you wish you can take her... Ahem again made the decision for his wife going against his mom...

He said ok for gopi to go to the goons with money and said that he will be her shadow... koki felt proud of her son...

Saw her son's pain and sorrow in the hospital


when she is herself witness to the change in their relation ,
what is that irks her and made the two of them apart

1. On 24th August 2011, Ahem comes down late ...she asks why are u late... before he could answer gopi says he is late because he was teaching her...koki glares and says... i told you to mind your business.. in short do not disturb your work schedule

2.On 19th december 2011, After the ludo game ...she again asks him ahem you and late ...there is an important meeting in the office...he says he slept late as they played ludo...she did not like it a bit, in short do not disturb your work schedule

3. On 26th december 2011, Ahem was about to massage her, she says she will massage you go and sleep as you have to go to work...but he says he never minds getting late once in a while..again a glare she did not like this attitude...

from all the 3 points... she means '.your work schedule should not be disturbed even if you educate your wife, you play with your wife or you care for your wife (some of us think that she does not want a them to be together... it's not right she wants them together as long as it does not interfere with his schedule) in all the 3 examples ...there is no meeting missed ...it's only getting late to work...which irked her...

she did not like the fact that Ahem's schedule is being disturbed by helping his own wife... then how on earth is she going to let his work affected
1. by helping rashi - the girl who koki thinks and we think does not deserve this
2. missed an important meeting and to add to her fume jigar did extremely well


Conclusion:

According to her and us... her vahu and dikra are very naive and they do not have the capacity judge the other person's intentions...which is very true

When she is there she is protecting them... when she is not there... anyone can take undue advantage of their naivety... to put some sense into the couple she is going through the hard way...as her vahu is too sweet she needs the lesson hard...

she also felt that they are helping RaJi but these guys relation is not going anywhere...

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its' a matter of 1 shot 2 birds

1. by not sending him to work and making him do the house work... she wanted Ahem to realize the importance of office work...to make him desperate to go and work...

2. by asking gopi vahu not to go to Ahem or obstructing her from attending to Ahem...she is again making both of them realize the importance of each other..making them desperate and eager to be with one another she is doing this with her statement ...now go to the very very first line of the post...

(no need to go there... i copied it here hehehe😆)


Kokila on 19th december 2011 made a statement in front of chirag and hetal "As i long as i am there gopi vahu will not miss her parents or rather I will not let that happen..." chirag says"thats right gopi has always seen you as a mother" will get back to this statement later.

yes she has donned the cap of a strict mother to both of them...to set them straight,,,
she is mom to gopi vahu and ahem dikra,..,

my little analysis sorry sorry long analysis 😆of koki the mom... please leave comments...😉
Edited by munnihyderabad - 13 years ago

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Thank god atleast some one is on. I was going to log off when i saw this post. Great post munni! You have written about koki and not kagdi. I like it!! But am not going to praise her till she is shown in a good light by our cvs. Koki was always strict but this time she crossed a line . Even ironing clothes punishment is digestable but not the leave from office. A mom has to realize somewhere that her son has grown up and has a wife who should be given equal importance.ideally gopi and koki should be treated at par.
Edited by vibz88 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I think your right maybe koki is doing that because ahem can understand his feelings for gopi and shouldnt get into helping rashi
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ever

I think your right maybe koki is doing that because ahem can understand his feelings for gopi and shouldnt get into helping rashi


koki just wants to make sure that they are together without any inhibitions and compulsions from each of them and look and work on their own relation... rather than helping others help yourself...
Edited by munnihyderabad - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Great OP munni! 👍🏼

Koki is defo teaching her kids a valuable lesson. Pity not everyone is seeing it like that.

The one thing to remember is that GoHam are the future of the MM family and empire. And they need to be able to handle that task. And getting taken in by Rashi, putting Jigar in an even worse position, and Aham's work suffering is not the way to go about it.

No mother will stand by and watch her kids do the wrong thing and Koki is first and foremost a mother! 😎

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Posted: 13 years ago
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fantastic munni... atlast i found someone who thinks Koki is a MOM and not a barrier for Gohem relationship...
and for that here five stars from my side for your wonderful analysis⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️
all I can say is Koki is one amoung the most important character for making SNS lovable and all she needs is that Ahem doesnt take work for granted... She was and will never be a hurdle for their love relationship... she is different in her approach thats all...
Sorry guys I am a die-hard fan of Koki and couldnt control myself 😳
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ShaunSA

Great OP munni! 👍🏼


Koki is defo teaching her kids a valuable lesson. Pity not everyone is seeing it like that.

The one thing to remember is that GoHam are the future of the MM family and empire. And they need to be able to handle that task. And getting taken in by Rashi, putting Jigar in an even worse position, and Aham's work suffering is not the way to go about it.

No mother will stand by and watch her kids do the wrong thing and Koki is first and foremost a mother! 😎


thanks shaun...

the statement she made that she will not let gopi miss her parents...had been ringing in my for quite a few days...

Gopi and Ahem have no acumen to judge people ... they are naive... so they need to be taught the lessons of the world and life... by a strict mom😃

Edited by munnihyderabad - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Reading both the difference i somehow felt u were right in analysing koki...She always want Gohem relationship foundation should be strong n not unstable..Important thing i felt in her to be strict that she want (especially r Ahemji) to balance work n personal life which anyway she is right...Gohem being naive by nature she doesnt want them to be hurt in future or overcomed by Raji...i know Jigar will never hurt Gohem but cant say about rashi...n about punishing Ahem regarding work then i would say if he succeed in life by also balancing his personal life the person who would be the most happiest would be none other than koki
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I ve to make another point if koki thinks gopi has her own daughter then she should ve understood how pathetic gopi will feel when she punished ahem. On the other hand heh daughter Kinjal keeps insulting her husband while koki takes dhaval kumar s side
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Originally posted by: vibz88

Thank god atleast some one is on. I was going to log off when i saw this post. Great post munni! You have written about koki and not kagdi. I like it!! But am not going to praise her till she is shown in a good light by our cvs. Koki was always strict but this time she crossed a line . Even ironing clothes punishment is digestable but not the leave from office. A mom has to realize somewhere that her son has grown up and has a wife who should be given equal importance.ideally gopi and koki should be treated at par.


vibzz at the end of the day a mom is a mom...she can never think bad for them specially someone like koki ,,,,,

it's way past mid night will answer ur other post tomorrow...got to catch up on some sleep😃

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