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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nafisa_blossoms

The whole Kokila/Jigar issue can be explained that Aham was helping Rashi for Jigar to reconcile with Rashi again, also she didn't like that Aham who was the hard working one is now homely and Jigar is the hardworking one, she was enjoying it when Aham was taunting Jigar and herself would make sly pot shots at Jigar, so all of a sudden Jigar is shown as competent to present information to a client and win business, she just couldn't handle it, because in her mind, Aham should always be better then Jigar in the workplace.


According to her, she expects Gopi to be more like her, and you are right, Gopi is not like Kokila and would never be, Kokila is satisfied doing house chores and speaking to her husband rarely, except to taunt him once in a while, Gopi on the other hand wants to share her thoughts and worries with her husband...so many times she is worried about one thing or the other, and she felt good that she and Aham were now close enough that she could unburden herself and he in turn would tell her not to worry as he would deal with it, thinking his got Jigar to handle the work at the office whilst he deals with Gopi's worries, so perhaps Gopi is too needy perhaps? As nothing was stopping her from speaking to Aham today, speak to him nicely like before but just don't unburden her problems on him and expect him to handle things for her.

After all Kokila is around for her to approach with any problems and it will work similarly to Aham just with Kokila what Gopi wants will not happen, it's what Kokila thinks is right will happen, in most cases Kokila will tell her to stop worrying as Rashi can handle herself, or put her hand out in front of her face to silence her.



👏 Very well said.. That is a very good take on what is happening.
- Koki is competitive. We have heard how she had to fight from her childhood and she hates to come second in anything and the same applies to Ahem who she has her hopes on. Hence her anger when Jigar did something that Ahem missed (which was unfortunate...)
- Koki wants Gopi to be independent and take smart decisions without emotionally getting involved. She is yet to realize that Gopi will never separate the emotion from the problem.
- Gopi needs to stand up a little bit more.. If she had made her point that day about not hiding from Koki, they could have avoided this situation. Gopi is too soft and supple to everyone's demands..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@nafisa, @harini...

very well said about kokila's attitude ...

in short
does she want to see herself in Gopi vahu @home
and want to see Chirag kaaka in Ahem @work

let me know if i am thinking right or not
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I am still tiked off that rashi has not been punished enough. I feel bad for gopi , ahem and jigar... they were all victims of rshi...

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