Ahem and love: keeping things separate

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Amongst the hurricane of words from Koki, the expectant guest and the plotting of Rashi within the Modi household were two Gohem scenes, where Ahem was able to keep his pent up feelings to himself.
He is an admirable character who can see where the problem is and can separate and treat individuals accordingly. For him he believes through his mum's reasoning that he has erred his mum by not honouring his meeting with his client and he pays the price of it.
His pent up feelings are at bursting point but he was good at keeping it to himself in those two scenes when he was in Gopi's presence.
His upward look at Gopi when she held in her hand the home made remedy was telling how angry he was with his mum but appreciated his wife's efforts for lovingly caring for him. His voice was soft and gentle when he told her to leave him alone. He walked away from her knowing that she would stand there looking on at him stunned as he was not willing to tell her anything yet. He has realised that his wife will be by his side through thick and thin and support him, at the same time he has to ease her mind too. The occasion arose with his mum intervening when Gopi told that she will do the ironing. He told her calmly and gently in Gopi-style what has happened through her enquiring him.
He does know that he is pushing her away even though his talk was soft and gentle. He is walking on a tight rope with his mum but knews fully well that he had to keep the peace with his wife. How long will his pent up feelings last?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Brilliant post Swasthi.😃

Im sure i speak on behalf of 99.9% of the forum when i say thank you so much for highlighting Gohem's relationship even when the episodes are taking the mick.😡

Gohem were cute today, I loved how Gopi cared about Ahem today, Really sweet to watch, Poor thing, She felt so powerless!😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Lovely post swasthi , I really thought he would remove his anger on gopi . but he was so gentle when he spoke to her and maintained his cool. When she asked him if every thing was fine between him and mom , he dint push the topic aside but answered her and shared with her the situation .
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Great analysis swasthi , ahem so hurt and angry but can't figure this problem out . The two woman in his life one harsh punishing him by giving him household chores , not interested in his explanations the other caring ,gentle ,hurting for him ,wanting to do his work and cautiously questioning him , he sees the difference in these woman as much as he can look koki in the eye and talk ,he avoids look at gopi gentle sweet countenance, does he feel if he does let her in he will breakdown and she will see his pain .is that the reason he doesn't want to be in her company but he doesn't want to hurt her either so after sensing the concern in her voice when he got burnt he doesn't want her near him, he is afraid of reaching out to her so he said 'pls leave me alone' .it was sad seeing him punished , in the days to come will this lead to tension between gohem.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Swasthi very well written and lovely analysis...

lovely gohem relation... this is what keeps me hooking to SNS... the way he answered all her questions without looking at her ... felt so bad for Ahemji...

and he was quite in control with his pent up anger... when it came to gopi...

when she was about to take the blame...he was quick enough to stop her from taking it on her...

he shared his inner most feelings without a speck of hesitation...when he said...i have hurt mom...mom is very hurt because of me...i don't want to hurt mom again and i will only do the pressing of clothes... these were some lines which he could not have shared with anyone in the world except his wife...

he would have shared it with his mom...but the tiff being with mom,..he needed someone who he could share his pain with ...and she was there for him...

earlier he shared his room, his dresser, his closet, gave her his bed now today he shared his inner most pain with her,,,,

thank you swasti... feeling good in your thread... this is for you 🤗 somehow i was emotional watching Ahemji in a distress,,,,but now i am feeling better as these two are there for each other👏
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Great post Swasthi. The guys gotta blow soon. But until then the tension is going to build. There will be a casualty and I fear it will be Gopi. Sacrificing herself.😔
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Posted: 13 years ago
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great analysis swasthi...much needed during this phase of sns...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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nice analysis Swasthi, agree Ahem is able to keep things sepaarte and doesnt mix them. I couldnt dare to watch all that Koki told him..too much for my ears..but I think he didnt blame Gopi. And initiatlly when he said leave me alone, I was wondering if he will tell her anything and further was surprised that he went to the bathroom and not out of the room to be left alone (which was a good thing I think).
And he took the irnoning business in the room, so didnt mean to hide things from Gopi which was good and loved how he told Gopi almost the entire reason (he skipped the Rashi part..not sure if on purpose). But glad to hear him tell her everything completely..So nice episode to an extent..😛
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: CHIKA784

Brilliant post Swasthi.😃


Im sure i speak on behalf of 99.9% of the forum when i say thank you so much for highlighting Gohem's relationship even when the episodes are taking the mick.😡

Gohem were cute today, I loved how Gopi cared about Ahem today, Really sweet to watch, Poor thing, She felt so powerless!😆

You are welcome Chika.
These were oasis amongst mayhem.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: sweetsugar

Lovely post swasthi , I really thought he would remove his anger on gopi . but he was so gentle when he spoke to her and maintained his cool. When she asked him if every thing was fine between him and mom , he dint push the topic aside but answered her and shared with her the situation .

My pleasure Saba ... his readiness to talk about his situation had shown the pain he is going through. He wanted her to understand why he was going through this and did not want her to worry.

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