Ahem and love: keeping things separate - Page 2

Originally posted by: taniks

Great analysis swasthi , ahem so hurt and angry but can't figure this problem out . The two woman in his life one harsh punishing him by giving him household chores , not interested in his explanations the other caring ,gentle ,hurting for him ,wanting to do his work and cautiously questioning him , he sees the difference in these woman as much as he can look koki in the eye and talk ,he avoids look at gopi gentle sweet countenance, does he feel if he does let her in he will breakdown and she will see his pain .is that the reason he doesn't want to be in her company but he doesn't want to hurt her either so after sensing the concern in her voice when he got burnt he doesn't want her near him, he is afraid of reaching out to her so he said 'pls leave me alone' .it was sad seeing him punished , in the days to come will this lead to tension between gohem.

amazingly well written analysis!!!your posts always brings a smile to my face,even when i don't think i can smile.we all were very upset to see koki's irrational behaviour.poor ahem ji,he was willing to do the housework just see his mother happy.thanks for your lovely posts!!

Originally posted by: munnihyderabad

Swasthi very well written and lovely analysis...

lovely gohem relation... this is what keeps me hooking to SNS... the way he answered all her questions without looking at her ... felt so bad for Ahemji...

and he was quite in control with his pent up anger... when it came to gopi...

when she was about to take the blame...he was quick enough to stop her from taking it on her...

he shared his inner most feelings without a speck of hesitation...when he said...i have hurt mom...mom is very hurt because of me...i don't want to hurt mom again and i will only do the pressing of clothes... these were some lines which he could not have shared with anyone in the world except his wife...

he would have shared it with his mom...but the tiff being with mom,..he needed someone who he could share his pain with ...and she was there for him...

earlier he shared his room, his dresser, his closet, gave her his bed now today he shared his inner most pain with her,,,,

thank you swasti... feeling good in your thread... this is for you 🤗 somehow i was emotional watching Ahemji in a distress,,,,but now i am feeling better as these two are there for each other👏

Originally posted by: Xarina

Great post Swasthi. The guys gotta blow soon. But until then the tension is going to build. There will be a casualty and I fear it will be Gopi. Sacrificing herself.😔

Originally posted by: varshu27

great analysis swasthi...much needed during this phase of sns...

A wonderful analysis Swasthi. Your posts are soothing balms to our anger and frustrations.

I am so glad Ahem didn't yell at Gopi and at the same time not once show anger for his mom for making him do minimal tasks. He has learned to balance between the two. In the past if Koki yelled at him for any reason and if it had anything to do with Gopi, he would scold and insult her but not today.

He did not let her feel guilty or take the blame and told her to just forget it and let him do his work.

I hope things get better for him and Gopi soon.

Thanks so much for always showing us the positive sides of thing.👏

@Swathi, @ Shilpa.. Beautiful analysis both of you.. I wait eagerly to read both your views everyday.. And today was a huge silver lining.. I hoped against hope that Ahem not take his anger out on Gopi. He did better to protect her from feeling guilty..
The next few episodes are naturally going to be a roller coaster again and we will be able to see what is in store for us soon.. I hope..

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

@Swathi, @ Shilpa.. Beautiful analysis both of you.. I wait eagerly to read both your views everyday.. And today was a huge silver lining.. I hoped against hope that Ahem not take his anger out on Gopi. He did better to protect her from feeling guilty..
The next few episodes are naturally going to be a roller coaster again and we will be able to see what is in store for us soon.. I hope..

Thanks so much Harini, truthfully my heart hasn't been in it this whole week. I feel like I am floating along. Koki broke my heart today, I so loved her character, but today I hated her so much.

Originally posted by: sbp1971

Thanks so much Harini, truthfully my heart hasn't been in it this whole week. I feel like I am floating along. Koki broke my heart today, I so loved her character, but today I hated her so much.

Shilpa.. As Tina said, I guess we need to take the good along with the bad. The past week has been pretty hard.. The problem is I cannot bring myself to hate her..Even today I kinda of understood her. The pettiness, the childishness.. It reminds me of someone I know..
But if she continues in the same vein (I think she will for some more days to come..) I will start to find it difficult myself to give any excuses for her.
But I am glad about one thing, whatever Gopi and Koki do, Ahem is now in a place from where he will fight for them both equally. He may love/not love Gopi. I still don't know but he respects her now and understands her.. So there is hope yet..

Great post , yes ahem was very nice to gopi... Tomorrow will tell if everything will hit gopi , coz I have a feeling she is going to take all the blame.