its another face of love

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Posted: 20 years ago
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sometimes love makes u do wierd things....

its quiet possible that u hurt ur estranged lover deliberately to evoke certain feelings in that person...

its also that when all is lost just the realisation that ur acts still affect the other person can give hope ...and some kind of pleasure that u still have some effect on the other person.

this is very sadistic face of love .....but the last thread that hold two people together.....

and as we know we are most hurt by only those whom we love a beyond measures ...coz they mean so much

on a sub concious level angad knows that he still can hurt kripa ...he still has some effect on her andhe still can bring her to tears ....that is what keeps him sane ...gives him hope.......thats why he hurts her so much...

i know its lil complicated ....and many wont agree ....but i know this happens to many...

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Posted: 20 years ago
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I wholly agree with both of you....love can both be a balm and a thorn in your heart....Angad is burning and he ain't ready to spare Kripa either.
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Posted: 20 years ago
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If it would have been Prithvi in place of Angad, he would have just let go of Kripa and moved on with his life with a broken heart and a few unshed tears............but Angad reacts like a mad-man, destroying himself and Kripa for what she has apparently done to him................but then, this is probably part of his charm!

He does remind me a lot of Shekhar from Parineeta😳 The same possessive streak, the losing sight of reason, the stubborn rage, the warmth and passion in eyes, the impulsive gestures from wrapping Kripa forcibly in his arms to throwing her carelessly on the floor...............

I guess if Angad was sane and normal and pleasant tempered, there would have been no difference between Prithvi and him!

Chilly

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Posted: 20 years ago
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Originally posted by: dinky21

true...infact when a person in love ishurt he probably cant think n wants to hurt the person even more...it gives s sense of satisfaction that one still makes s difference to the other....
angads pain sibsides a little when he hurts kripa co zthe man himself is devastated...twasnt prithvi who aggravated things..twas the money n kripa with prithvi just confirmed it...i dont blame angad..tomo even i wud lose my cool at the site of such a person... 😃

well said dinky.........infact i will do the same thing i guess

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Posted: 20 years ago
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well said all u guys...totally agreee with u..
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Posted: 20 years ago
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i agree to it completely.....
angad is hurt and still thinks of her and cant see her wid anybody else...issiliyeh he throws all those nasty looks and words at her.....😭
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Posted: 20 years ago
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yep agreed..a man in love is capable of nethng! angad in love is capable of everythng!!!!
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Posted: 20 years ago
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Lashing out at Kripa is what is soothing Angad at the moment, but what he doesnt realise is that hurting someone, most importantly the one you love, is never the key to soothe your heart. It just makes your wounds fester more and more.

Maybe Angad is too volatile to realise that now..he will later, when its too late to make amends.

Any woman subject to such public humiliation and indignity has every right to just go and throw his love back on his face.

Kripa cant and wont do that, but I wish she has the mind sometimes to...

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Posted: 20 years ago
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And Chilly, I never found a similarity between Angad and Shekhar.

Shekhar subconsciously always considered Lolita to be his, they had grown up together, and he was totally dependent on her in every which way. In fact, he never cultivated the possibility that Lolita could ever be away for him, though he never thought about it. It was just simply there in his mind. Same with Lolita, she never thought of being with anyone but Shekhar. They had an unspoken right on each other.

Which stemmed from being together since childhood. Making love was as natural for them in the end, as growing up together.

Angad -Kripa love has a totally different foundation. And Angad is a totally different individual from Shekhar. I cant compare A-K to Shekhar and Lolita. No way.

Thats what my perception of the movie was. I cant compare it to KYPH on any ground.

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Posted: 20 years ago
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Originally posted by: NANNU

i agree to it completely.....
angad is hurt and still thinks of her and cant see her wid anybody else...issiliyeh he throws all those nasty looks and words at her.....😭

very true nannu....

~sweta~

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