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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree with u Luv4games and prerna4rishav

that u can definitely bond with your MIL but your MIL can never be your mother. She can never take place of your mother who loves you unconditionally. She can never take that place. A mother will always remain your mother throughout your life and your MIL will be your MIL only. The difference is she can be either a good MIL or a strict MIL, Nagging MIL, chaichaap MIL whatever but she can never become your mother. Not atleast for me. For me nobody can take the place of my mother. She will always have a distinct place.
But that doesn't means that a DIL doesn't respect her MIL. Ofcourse she does. I mean if a girl loves her hubby truly in that case she would never disrespect her MIL and will try to bond with her MIL. I mean you can't give the place that your Mother holds but you certainly can give her another important place in your life. It's the bonding that you share. If you communicate well and try to accept each other's weaknesses i think MIL n DIL too can bond well. Rest if the MIL is too nagging or DIL is mean/disrespectful then i think one of them should avoid making or passing comments to the other.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I can bet Monther-in-law can never become mother. I can tell my mom whatever I want and whenever I want and she never feels bad but not to my MIL. My MIL stayed here in state with me for year and half and I did everything I could while working and taking care of home and baby, but forget appreciating;she would find mistake through out day. I took her out everywhere we go; including dinner me and my hubby go and not once she says not to come with us. I can tell my mom that I want to go out with my husband alone and she would understand but not my MIL.
After everything I do for my MIL, my MIL like her daughter more than me. For my mom i have done nothing after marriage but she still worry about me and love me a lot.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Before I got married I always thought I'll treat my MIL just like my Mom but from day one I got married my MIL has always called me an outsider (begaani). So only a very few MIL treats their DIL like their Daughters or DIL treats their MIL like their mothers, most of them are just Evil.
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