Can your MIL be your mother ever?

Well i have come up with another discussion topic😆 So what do u think guys can MIL ever become your mother? I would like to hear this from the married ones😉I would love to read unmarried gals views too(like me😆). And also Guys your views too matter . From SweetyG's POV i feel she respects her MIL and respects her but if she says she considers her as her mother I won't agree. But she does respects her else she won't be doing all those cleaning stuff n achar daalna for sasuma so yes she respects her but loves her as her own mother? Well I dont think so! Because if she did she won't have given that dress which her MIL brought for her to a dhobin😲I mean it's okay that u dont wear suits like that but atleast don't give that away to a dhobin. You can wear if for your sasuma whever she comes to visit you. I mean what's the deal if she wears it for once.

Well said. A MIL can never be a mother, tht's coz a mother-daughter bonding is der frm d day d daughter is born nd is moulded over a period of time. Whereas in mil-dil case, both hv their own personality which hv developed by d environ tht dey hv been in. Hving said tht I should say tht every individual relationship is different. Actually in a mil-dil relationship, both hv expectations frm one another tht r quite unreasonable nd dat tends 2 lead 2 conflict. But once both hv figured out d other one, den it becomes easier coz then dey know how d other is.

MIL can't be a mom...however sweet and caring she might be,mother cant be substitued by an MIL 😔

I am not married yet but will say a mil can never be a mother...or at least in my case..I will never be her daughter because nobody is going to take my moms place ever no matter how nice and loving they are...a mother has their own place and mil has her own place..ur mom gives birth to u and raises u for all those years...how can somebody else just take her place because she is nice to u...the bond that a mother and kid have is unique and special...how is the relationship or niceness of a mil compare to the midnight feeds that ur mom did or the times she woke up at night when u got scared or chnaged ur diapers or worry sick abt u every second u were out the house...nobodys niceness is going to compare to that...a mil might love u but her son or daughter will always come first...if sweety had to pick pinky or her mil she would pick her sis and same with mil she would always pick lucky ji over sweety because that is her child...

I read the comments and I can only say that your MIL is your spouse's mother. If you expect your husband/ wife to treat you nice and if you expect your spouse to treat your parents as their own why should you not do the same from your own end? I only think that it is height of selfishness to expect something from one person and not behave in the same way. All these people saying that MIL cannot be the same as mother, just think for a second if you would treat or say the same thing to your own mom and if you did how would she react? And would you like your brother's wife doing the same thing to your mom?

It takes two to tango !!! If you think mentally she is my MIL not mother your actions will reflect the same.Yes some MILs want to dominate as she suffered the same dil mil when in those days actually mils were MILS!!! If you consider her as your mother and give her the same respect ,love why should she behave with you in an different way-Yes if she has a daughter she will always favour that daughter over you its natural-but dont make issue for small things-remenber if u had a bhabhi & she did the same wid you /ur mom wud u like it-no-Small adjustments are needed unfortunately people's homes and also hearts are becoming smaller day by day!!!!

Very nice question Choco I mean Sweety Ji 😳😆