What would YOU do ? :P

Hey.. Just got done with the epi 😃 It was as usual overall nice epi except the overacting of Raavi-Rashi in the starting part 😕

Anyways.. Was wondering, in that whole situation with the dress, I dont think it was anybody's fault.. MIL definitely got Sweety Ji that dress out of her love and not jz show off 😳 And Sweety Ji knew she aint gonna wear tht, hence she donated it.. Well, she didnt have 'Exchange' offer.. So why to let it be a waste.. Rather she gave it to her maid/dhobain .. Dont we all do that 😳

I was jz getting confused what I would have done in such situation.. 😕 If somebody gifts me something, and I dont use it, but I know that somebody needs it, I would help the needy for sure.. But if I see my friends/family giving my gifts to others, I would deffo feel bad 😒

So what should have Sweety Ji done ? Too confused

P.S - I guess MIL overdid a bit in the dining table.. 😃 She taunted Sweety Ji tht she got butter at home but aint using it.. 😕 But she forgot to appreciate her effort when Ginny told her that Sweety Ji made it just for her.. 😊 These small small stuffs make a LOT of difference.. And that's why I think Sweety Ji can't connect to her MIL.. 😊

Originally posted by: Luv4games

I think the reason they cant connect is because they both dont wanna make the effort and there is lack of communication...sweety ji says bebe is like her mom but she doesnt believe that at all...but she is not malicious towards bebe either...same with bebe she does stuff out of love..she wants her kids to eat tasty food..she doesnt do anything in a malicious way to harm sweety...it is actually very real like MIL-DIL relationship...

now coming to the dress situation...even if i didnt like it i would keep it because there was love behind it...if someone i knew needed a dress badly then i would give her one of my own dresses but not the dress that my MIL of my loving husband like lucky ji brought for me...And the most important thing that made me realize is that what if my bro's wife or hubby ever reject one of my moms gifts like that and give it to someone else...i know i would be upset and same with my mom...it is just a dress not the end of the world...sometimes you have to do little things to make someone happy...sweety should also have thought of how lucky ji would feel after she showed such disrespect to his mom's taste and gift...maybe if she didnt like it she could wear it once and tell bebe that she doenst like the fit or design and get her something different next time...i actually had a similar experience once...my friend gave me a poster of some hrithik roshan and i wasnt a fan of him...but i knew another friend who liked him so i gave it to her...unfortunately the friend that i gave the poster to was excited and told the one who gave to look at what i gave her...it was an awkward situation and i know my friend was really hurt and didnt talk to me for days...after that i realized to always respect someone's gift and keep it because it is not about the "thing" it is about the love and feelings associated with it...there have been times that i got gifts i didnt like but i kept them and now looking at them reminds me of all the memories i had with those people and how much they loved me...

so i learned one thing watching this episode and the last two to always treat my MIL the way i would want my hubby to treat my mother...yes we might not have a mother-daughter relationship...but one thing i know is i would never ask my hubby not to listen to her or not allow her cook for her son or get him something she likes like sweety ji does...and i hope that seeing that my future mil would also treat me with respect and not feel threatened of losing her son

i hope sweety ji startes appreciating the gifts her MIL gets her and maybe wear the dress for this time and let her cook for lucky ji once in a while...and that would open up room for bebe to also get close to sweety ji and appreciate the stuff she does for her...

And u will make an amazing DIL😳

Well yes.. I agree with you.. We should not give away gifts 😳.. Sweety Ji really did a dumb thing.. And I bet if Papaji gives Lucky something, n Lucky gives it to someone else, Sweety will feel bad.. But at the same time, MIL shouldnt have made this a big deal 😭

This feeling of 'not-liking-each-other' is mutual .. But here I dont agree with the red lines.. Well it's not something Sweety ji does willingly .. If Lucky ji is having cholestrol problem, Sweety ji only has to take care of tht.. U cant spoil ur kids health by doing 'laad'😳 .. But it's nt bebe's fault too.. it's generation gap.. So yeah.. 😊

@Luv4games: too good analysis and i second u

Originally posted by: prerna4rishav

And u will make an amazing DIL😳

Well yes.. I agree with you.. We should not give away gifts 😳.. Sweety Ji really did a dumb thing.. And I bet if Papaji gives Lucky something, n Lucky gives it to someone else, Sweety will feel bad.. But at the same time, MIL shouldnt have made this a big deal 😭

This feeling of 'not-liking-each-other' is mutual .. But here I dont agree with the red lines.. Well it's not something Sweety ji does willingly .. If Lucky ji is having cholestrol problem, Sweety ji only has to take care of tht.. U cant spoil ur kids health by doing 'laad'😳 .. But it's nt bebe's fault too.. it's generation gap.. So yeah.. 😊

It is so easy for us to get carried away and it is human nature that we dont want anybody else interfering in our lives...so i guess that is why it is hard to have a good relationship between DIL-MIL...so for me the best way to make decision is just thinking how would i feel if my SIL's treat my mom like that...because if we dont want our own mom to be treated a certain way then we should also try to be nice and treat someone elses mother right...

about the food thing...if bebe makes unhealthy food every single day for lucky ji then sweety ji should stop her but for a few days it is really not big deal...coz we have seen that lucky ji eats unhealthy food from outside too so if he sometimes does that at home where at least everything is clean and alittle healthier...it is all about little compromises ...and if bebe keeps giving him oily food everyday then the best way is if sweety ji just takes her to lucky ji's doctor and ask him to explain to her that if lucky ji keeps eating bad food then he could die..no mother would want to harm her child and bebe would understand that too..

one thing is that they dont hate each other or anything...it is just little problems that could be fixed by communication and spending time together..they both need to keep an open mind...


I cannot believe how much i love this show and every single track

Originally posted by: Luv4games

It is so easy for us to get carried away and it is human nature that we dont want anybody else interfering in our lives...so i guess that is why it is hard to have a good relationship between DIL-MIL...so for me the best way to make decision is just thinking how would i feel if my SIL's treat my mom like that...because if we dont want our own mom to be treated a certain way then we should also try to be nice and treat someone elses mother right...

about the food thing...if bebe makes unhealthy food every single day for lucky ji then sweety ji should stop her but for a few days it is really not big deal...coz we have seen that lucky ji eats unhealthy food from outside too so if he sometimes does that at home where at least everything is clean and alittle healthier...it is all about little compromises ...and if bebe keeps giving him oily food everyday then the best way is if sweety ji just takes her to lucky ji's doctor and ask him to explain to her that if lucky ji keeps eating bad food then he could die..no mother would want to harm her child and bebe would understand that too..

one thing is that they dont hate each other or anything...it is just little problems that could be fixed by communication and spending time together..they both need to keep an open mind...


I cannot believe how much i love this show and every single track

@ red - And I love your replies 😊👍🏼

@ pink - SO true.. and this applies to MIL's too.. While treating their DILs, one thing they should always remember that even their daughters might be treated like that in her in-law's house 😃 I agree.. These issues are SO common and yet so nicely shown in this show 😳 Lets see how this story unfolds.. we are yet to see if Bebe really changes their daily routines or not 😆