Mitwa...Kahe Dhadkan Hai Tujhse Pyar..Q&A

Mere mann ye bata de tu

kis aur chala hai tu

kya paya nahi tune

kya dhundh raha hai tu

jo hai ankahee jo hai ansuni

woh baat kya hai bata

mitwa, kahe dhadkan hai tujhse pyar

mitwa, yeh khudse toh na tu chhupa😳

Jeevan dagar mein prem nagar mein

aaya nazar mein jab se koi hain

tu sochta hain tu puchata hain

jiski kami thi kya yeh wohi hain

haa yeh wohi hain, haa yeh wohi hain,

tu ek pyasa, aur yeh nadi hain

kaahe nahi isko tu khulke bataye

Teri nigaahen, paa gayi raahein,

par tu yeh soche jaaun na jaaun

yeh zindagi jo hai naachti toh

kyon bediyon mein hai tere paanv

preet ki dhun par naach le paagal

udta agar hai udne de aanchal

kaahe koi apne ko aaise tarsaaye

jo hai ankahee jo hai ansuni

woh baat kya hai bata

I found just the perfect song for Jai, who is swinging like a pendulum between his growing feelings for Bani and the heartache he is still suffering from! Lovely lyrics from the song Mitwa (OST Kabhi Alvida Naa Kehna) which questions the growing love in a person's heart and compels him to not bury it but come out with it!

It was only time that Jai had to fall in love with Bani, not because she is a paragon of all virtues and a superb woman, but simply because, Bani is everything that Jai lacks in his life, primarily selfless love and caring just like Jai is everything that Bani lacks in life, primarily security and stability.

It was good to see that Jai is not affected by Pia anymore, I think the main reason is that living with Bani for the last 3 months have shown him that there are all type of people in the World, and if there is someone selfish enough to jilt him at the altar, there is also someone selfless enough to bear the brunt of his anger and hatred for his sake.

I am not elaborating on how good the episode was, primarily because Anu has given a fantabulous analysis on the same already and secondly, we know that the Park Road Secret is going to come out this week, which might change the dynamics of Jai and Bani's relationship in one go….But yes that shouldn't stop us from gloating about how cute Jai looked getting all so protective about his wife! And yeah, what is with Pia yaar! Something seems to have come over her, chalo let us praise her till she remains in her good form!

Questions for the Day;

Whom do you think is behind getting Bani trapped in the Inferno, from where Pushkar rescued her? Do you think it is Roshni as Jai suspected or is it a third person whom we don't know?

Why do you think Bani called Pushkar for her rescue and not Jai? Is it simply because Pushkar is her best friend and her first instinct was to call him or not the husband with whom she barely converses or was it because of practical reasons that Pushkar was closer to her and it would have taken longer for Jai to come over?

What do you make out of Pia's sudden change of behavior and the note of wisdom that she passed on to Jai when she told him that "Caring and Concern" one day translates into love?

Do you still believe that Jai holds a candle for Pia and given a chance he might slip in favor or her? Or do you firmly think that Jai has completely gotten over his past and Pia is no one more than his wife's sister for him now?

Please elaborate on Jai's mental state when it comes to gauging his emotions for Bani. Why is he so confused over what he feels for Bani, when everything is crystal clear in front of his eyes? Is it his dark past which is holding him back or is it his insecurity for Bani that is constricting his flow of emotions or is it just an overwhelming sense of guilt for making Bani's life miserable that is not enabling him to come out with his innermost thoughts?

Bani's confession to Jai that she is not scared of dying but is scared of losing the one she loves gave any indication to Jai. Did he understand that she was pointing to him and he deliberately chose to overlook it or did he think that she was referring to someone else and hence told her that she has her whole life ahead and will surely find true love in future?

Please comment on the changing dynamics of Jai and Bani's relationship. From a cold aloofness to a growing admiration and professional camaderiship to a forced marriage and a shattered relationship, to growing affection and trust and now an enduring, eternal and deep love. How long have Jai and Bani traveled in the past 5 months since Kasamh Se debuted?

Do you foresee a coming together of Jai Walia and Pushkar in the future or will Jai never be able to forgive Pushkar for what he and Pia did to him? Do you think that Jai coming to know of Bani's feelings for Pushkar will affect his relationship quotient with Bani in anyway and stop him from confessing his love to her?

How much do you think the Park Road secret is going to alter the relationship between Jai and Bani? Do you feel that instead of tearing them apart, it might just lead Jai to finally come to terms with his feelings for Bani?

Do you think that Jai's unequivocal support to Bani when Saahil and Rano elope will wash over any tinge of regret and anger that Bani might have when the Park Road Secret comes out or will Bani refuse to forgive Jai for his past?

Will be awaiting your answers…….

Cheers,

MT

Originally posted by: mistletoe

Questions for the Day;

Whom do you think is behind getting Bani trapped in the Inferno, from where Pushkar rescued her? Do you think it is Roshni as Jai suspected or is it a third person whom we don't know?

-Roshni...or Jigyasya...or Tony (for the comic relief)...or Pia???

Why do you think Bani called Pushkar for her rescue and not Jai? Is it simply because Pushkar is her best friend and her first instinct was to call him or not the husband with whom she barely converses or was it because of practical reasons that Pushkar was closer to her and it would have taken longer for Jai to come over?

-This is the one that has been bothering me because I fear Jai making his own interpretations now...I think she may have tried to call Jai but to no avail...or she figured Puskar is closer so it's logical. Of course who will explain this to Jai.

What do you make out of Pia's sudden change of behavior and the note of wisdom that she passed on to Jai when she told him that "Caring and Concern" one day translates into love?

-Loving it but don't buy it...far too good to be true...or it just means someone else will be replacing Pia's evilness...but I think wat she said does foreshadow.

Do you still believe that Jai holds a candle for Pia and given a chance he might slip in favor or her? Or do you firmly think that Jai has completely gotten over his past and Pia is no one more than his wife's sister for him now?

-I don't think Jai ever really loved Pia...I think he thought he loves her but in fact he never really did. If he were to get together w/her I think it would only be w/him having Bani in mind...maybe to push Bani away from him so that she may marry someone else or something along those lines.

Please elaborate on Jai's mental state when it comes to gauging his emotions for Bani. Why is he so confused over what he feels for Bani, when everything is crystal clear in front of his eyes? Is it his dark past which is holding him back or is it his insecurity for Bani that is constricting his flow of emotions or is it just an overwhelming sense of guilt for making Bani's life miserable that is not enabling him to come out with his innermost thoughts?

-I think it's a guy thing...and also maybe he feels Bani deserves better...lol if only he knew he is the BEST.

Bani's confession to Jai that she is not scared of dying but is scared of losing the one she loves gave any indication to Jai. Did he understand that she was pointing to him and he deliberately chose to overlook it or did he think that she was referring to someone else and hence told her that she has her whole life ahead and will surely find true love in future?

-The thought may have crossed his mind that Bani may have meant that for him-but he brushed it aside...or attempted to anyway. Maybe he wanted to see how she reacted...or this was his way of avoiding the topic altogether.

Please comment on the changing dynamics of Jai and Bani's relationship. From a cold aloofness to a growing admiration and professional camaderiship to a forced marriage and a shattered relationship, to growing affection and trust and now an enduring, eternal and deep love. How long have Jai and Bani traveled in the past 5 months since Kasamh Se debuted?

-The pace of our heartbeats says it all 😳😳😳.

Do you foresee a coming together of Jai Walia and Pushkar in the future or will Jai never be able to forgive Pushkar for what he and Pia did to him? Do you think that Jai coming to know of Bani's feelings for Pushkar will affect his relationship quotient with Bani in anyway and stop him from confessing his love to her?

How much do you think the Park Road secret is going to alter the relationship between Jai and Bani? Do you feel that instead of tearing them apart, it might just lead Jai to finally come to terms with his feelings for Bani?

-I think it can go two ways...either keep them married but in name only where they go back to being how they were before...or they may surprise us and come past it staying together and just as much in love as they are currently. The first one would help drag the story...the latter would be a surprising twist as the viewer would expect Bani to be hurt and upset w/Jai.

Do you think that Jai's unequivocal support to Bani when Saahil and Rano elope will wash over any tinge of regret and anger that Bani might have when the Park Road Secret comes out or will Bani refuse to forgive Jai for his past?

-Not sure abt that but seeing Jai support her against all will be wonderful...the question is wat if he doesnt? I am pretty sure he will but nonetheless the doubt remains.

Originally posted by: mistletoe

Questions for the Day;

Whom do you think is behind getting Bani trapped in the Inferno, from where Pushkar rescued her? Do you think it is Roshni as Jai suspected or is it a third person whom we don't know?

I think it may have been a third person, not Roshni or Tony or Jigs

Why do you think Bani called Pushkar for her rescue and not Jai? Is it simply because Pushkar is her best friend and her first instinct was to call him or not the husband with whom she barely converses or was it because of practical reasons that Pushkar was closer to her and it would have taken longer for Jai to come over?

It could be simply 'cos since Pushkar was expecting to see her anytime and was waiting for her, it was only logical that she called him to say that she was running late, or had come across danger, especially since she had not told anyone at home that she is going out to meet Pushkar..

What do you make out of Pia's sudden change of behavior and the note of wisdom that she passed on to Jai when she told him that "Caring and Concern" one day translates into love?

Well, maybe Pia is really truly in love with Pushkar, and has indeed changed (except about the money priorities), i.e. emotionally, and now wants her sister to be happy and secure in the Walia house..One thing that they've been stressing on KS is the undying and selfless love, care and concern that the 3 sisters have for each other..

Do you still believe that Jai holds a candle for Pia and given a chance he might slip in favor or her? Or do you firmly think that Jai has completely gotten over his past and Pia is no one more than his wife's sister for him now?

I honestly do not think that Jai has any sort of feelings for Pia..and with time, I feel he may even realise that he never really had any strong feelings for her, that it was just an attraction towards her attitude and confidence..

Please elaborate on Jai's mental state when it comes to gauging his emotions for Bani. Why is he so confused over what he feels for Bani, when everything is crystal clear in front of his eyes? Is it his dark past which is holding him back or is it his insecurity for Bani that is constricting his flow of emotions or is it just an overwhelming sense of guilt for making Bani's life miserable that is not enabling him to come out with his innermost thoughts?

Well MT, you have sort of answered your own question here, part of the reason for that is that his dark past is holding him back from admitting abt his feelings for her to himself..Also, whatever Pia said on 19th night is still lingering on his head, that Bani had to marry him against her wish due to the "majboori"/circumstances, and that she has never considered this as a real marriage in her heart, so he is kind of insecure about her feelings because of that..Also, he has absolutely no trust in his own luck in the love matter, as we all saw on the 26th episode when he ponders over the subject after Pia's talks, so he is too afraid to admit even to himself the slightest possibility of him having fallen head over heels for Bani, or even importantly, someone being totally and selflessly in love with him..

Bani's confession to Jai that she is not scared of dying but is scared of losing the one she loves gave any indication to Jai. Did he understand that she was pointing to him and he deliberately chose to overlook it or did he think that she was referring to someone else and hence told her that she has her whole life ahead and will surely find true love in future?

Jai, by his expressions, seemed to have understood that Bani maybe pointing towards him when she said that, but like I said before, he is too afraid to admit anything to even himself, and so he just wishes well for Bani saying that she is very young and that she will be loved a lot in her life..his exact words were "I wish ke tumhe apni zindagi mein bohot saara pyaar mile"..he doesnt refer to anybody in specific, if u notice..

Please comment on the changing dynamics of Jai and Bani's relationship. From a cold aloofness to a growing admiration and professional camaderiship to a forced marriage and a shattered relationship, to growing affection and trust and now an enduring, eternal and deep love. How long have Jai and Bani traveled in the past 5 months since Kasamh Se debuted?

Their whole journey beginning from that rainy evening when they first met, when she proves that even though they r in dire need of help, she is a very self-respecting person and does not take favours, by mentioning abt paying the rent..and then she proves her efficiency and sincerity in the workplace..upto the point when Pia elopes with Pushkar, Jai had high regards for Bani, which kind of got buried somewhere deep under only because of Pia's mistakes, due to which he had raw anger in his mind and face whenever he saw Bani, mainly because at that point he was only seeing her as Pia's sister, who had ditched him for his own godson..then with time and Bani's patience he started seeing Bani for what she was, and started to respect her again..as the saying goes, time heals all wounds...so the hurt that was caused to Jai by Pia's eloping healed and got reduced with each passing day..and in his loneliness he slowly started seeing Bani as the only ray of comfort..

Do you foresee a coming together of Jai Walia and Pushkar in the future or will Jai never be able to forgive Pushkar for what he and Pia did to him? Do you think that Jai coming to know of Bani's feelings for Pushkar will affect his relationship quotient with Bani in anyway and stop him from confessing his love to her?

I don't think that Bani's infatuation towards Pushkar in the past would overshadow the strong feelings between Jai and Bani, bcos it was well in the past, and it was just an infatuation and nothing more..And moreover once J&B get together, their bond will be so strong that these things won't matter anymore..I also feel that Jai may forgive Pushkar over time, though I could'nt imagine when..(while on that subject, I feel that it would have been appropriate for Jai to say a simple "thank you" to Pushkar today (26th episode) for saving his beloved Bani from the fire..but all he did was glare at him)..

How much do you think the Park Road secret is going to alter the relationship between Jai and Bani? Do you feel that instead of tearing them apart, it might just lead Jai to finally come to terms with his feelings for Bani?

I feel the Park Road secret will definitely create a rift between Jai and Bani..since the secret is shown to be a huge one, Bani will surely get affected upon hearing the truth (whatever that is), and if there is a separation in the process, then that may make Jai realise how much he loves and misses Bani and that he cannot live without her..

Do you think that Jai's unequivocal support to Bani when Saahil and Rano elope will wash over any tinge of regret and anger that Bani might have when the Park Road Secret comes out or will Bani refuse to forgive Jai for his past?

Park Road incident may be a deeper and more serious one, and not to be compared with the more lighter "marriage/love issue" of Sahil-Rano-Raashi..what I mean to say is that the support Jai lends to Bani on the elope issue might not affect the Park Road impact on Bani according to me..

That was my 2 cents, MT !! 😊😊

Wow MT, one more session of Q&A. Loved yest episode like anything. Jai was just and just cute. ok for the answers now.

Whom do you think is behind getting Bani trapped in the Inferno, from where Pushkar rescued her? Do you think it is Roshni as Jai suspected or is it a third person whom we don't know?

I feel it is Roshni and her brother together who are trying to frighten off Bani and trying to give jhatkas to Jai. It can also be Ranveer but I am not so sure of that.

Why do you think Bani called Pushkar for her rescue and not Jai? Is it simply because Pushkar is her best friend and her first instinct was to call him or not the husband with whom she barely converses or was it because of practical reasons that Pushkar was closer to her and it would have taken longer for Jai to come over?

Actually Bani was supposed to meet Pushkar at a restaurant and she was on her way to meet him. They also showed Pushky in a restaurant. Another thing is that she is more familiar with Pushkar, whereas with Jai her feelings have just started to develop, and she was not sure of Jai's response. He would've boxed her ears for attempting to go to that lonely house in the first place😆 .

What do you make out of Pia's sudden change of behavior and the note of wisdom that she passed on to Jai when she told him that "Caring and Concern" one day translates into love?

I was just happy, chalo yeh sudhar toh gayi and to top it all she even opened Jai's eyes to the fact that his concern and care for Bani will one day turn into love. Hats off to you Pia, you did your work. Now don't ever leave Pushky and come and disturb your di and jiju in the middle of the night.

Do you still believe that Jai holds a candle for Pia and given a chance he might slip in favor or her? Or do you firmly think that Jai has completely gotten over his past and Pia is no one more than his wife's sister for him now?

Yeah Jai has got over Pia. That one thing is clear. He has no feelings left for her. She is only one of his saalis now, bas that's all. Uske zindagi mein bas ab sirf aur sirf Bani ke liye jagah hai, (just hope he comes out with his feelings soon enough).

Please elaborate on Jai's mental state when it comes to gauging his emotions for Bani. Why is he so confused over what he feels for Bani, when everything is crystal clear in front of his eyes? Is it his dark past which is holding him back or is it his insecurity for Bani that is constricting his flow of emotions or is it just an overwhelming sense of guilt for making Bani's life miserable that is not enabling him to come out with his innermost thoughts?

As Jai said yest, from his experience with love, he has only encountered deceit and lies. Love for him is synonymous with deception. But he is confused with what he is feeling towards Bani. He thinks it is maybe because they are staying under the same roof for so many months, that he is concerned about her. Then again he thinks, he should let Bani free so that she can live life according to her wishes. He doesn't want to hurt her. All this shows that he loves her as he wants her happiness, but kaun bataye ise? MT yeh kaam tumhara hai. kisi bhi tarah use samjhao ki his happiness is with Bani and her happiness is with him😆😉

Bani's confession to Jai that she is not scared of dying but is scared of losing the one she loves gave any indication to Jai. Did he understand that she was pointing to him and he deliberately chose to overlook it or did he think that she was referring to someone else and hence told her that she has her whole life ahead and will surely find true love in future?

Bani bechaari is giving such lovelorn looks to Jai from the day of their consummation, but he is only sidestepping the issue. For her it is only her Mr. Walia, lekin yeh dumbo samjhe na😡. Poor baby, so lovingly she told him she was only worried about losing her loved one. Couldn't he take the hint that she was mentioning him only. But it should get into that thickheaded skull of his na? He is trying to think like Bani and telling her she will find true love with whom she will be happy. (Hey Mr. Walia, she is telling you she has found her love already, and she was worried about losing it).

Please comment on the changing dynamics of Jai and Bani's relationship. From a cold aloofness to a growing admiration and professional camaderiship to a forced marriage and a shattered relationship, to growing affection and trust and now an enduring, eternal and deep love. How long have Jai and Bani traveled in the past 5 months since Kasamh Se debuted?

The change as such came with the arrival of Massi. Till then toh he was like just waiting to pounce on Bani for any small thing. Couldn't stand the sight of her. They were like the Tom & Jerry jodi😆. Massi aayi aur sab kuch badal gaya. It is just love now, only they have to come out in the open with their feelings.

Do you foresee a coming together of Jai Walia and Pushkar in the future or will Jai never be able to forgive Pushkar for what he and Pia did to him? Do you think that Jai coming to know of Bani's feelings for Pushkar will affect his relationship quotient with Bani in anyway and stop him from confessing his love to her?

That would be just great if Pushky got back with his Jai sir. I think Jai is not angry anymore with the both of them but he will never forget what they both did to him. No I don't think Bani's feelings for Pushkar will be given any further footage as that chapter is closed for her. So Jai will never come to know about it.

How much do you think the Park Road secret is going to alter the relationship between Jai and Bani? Do you feel that instead of tearing them apart, it might just lead Jai to finally come to terms with his feelings for Bani?

Well, god alone knows what this secret is? The way they keep saying in the promos "Bani ki zindagi badlegi June 29th se" only leads to two things. Either they will separate or their relationship will be stronger than before. Let us just hope for the best. And because in one of the previous articles of MM, it was mentioned that Jai will stand by Bani's decision regarding Rano and Saahil, then it must mean they will be together even after the 29th as the elopement has yet to take place. But who knows they may just fast forward everything in today's and tomm episodes and then on 29th the split. Lets wait and watch.

Do you think that Jai's unequivocal support to Bani when Saahil and Rano elope will wash over any tinge of regret and anger that Bani might have when the Park Road Secret comes out or will Bani refuse to forgive Jai for his past?

MT tere mooh mein ghee shakar agar aisa hua toh. If Jai supports Bani through the elopement episode then she should also forgive her hubby for whatever that mistake is regarding the Park Road.

Whew!!!!!!!!!! , (believe me, maine apne exams ke liye bhi itna serious hoke answer nahin kiya tha)

Whom do you think is behind getting Bani trapped in the Inferno, from where Pushkar rescued her? Do you think it is Roshni as Jai suspected or is it a third person whom we don't know?

Roshni would be too obvious. I am going to say it is either Ranvijay Cobra or some third person whom we do not know.

Why do you think Bani called Pushkar for her rescue and not Jai? Is it simply because Pushkar is her best friend and her first instinct was to call him or not the husband with whom she barely converses or was it because of practical reasons that Pushkar was closer to her and it would have taken longer for Jai to come over?

OK I am going to be down to earth and practical here. Bani was inhaling smoke and coughing. Pushkar is the last person she talked to when she told him she was coming to meet him. She must have just hit that last number called as it was an emergency. i am sure she did not stop to debate whom to call. Also, Pushkar was very near to where she was because when Aditya is talking to maasi from the hospital he tells her they would be reaching home in 1 hour. So my guess is it would have taken Jai very long to reach her.

What do you make out of Pia's sudden change of behavior and the note of wisdom that she passed on to Jai when she told him that "Caring and Concern" one day translates into love?

Something of what Roshni and Rano told her may have sunk into her brain that she has no shame. Plus even though she barged into his house (bedroom would be more appropriate) in the middle of the night, Jai has yet not said one word to her. Plus her own observation of the JB relationship - she must have seen that there was no hatred or bitterness anymore.

Do you still believe that Jai holds a candle for Pia and given a chance he might slip in favor or her? Or do you firmly think that Jai has completely gotten over his past and Pia is no one more than his wife's sister for him now?

I don't think so - he has gotten over his infatuation with Pia. His ego had been hurt badly which has been repaired by Bani. I think Pia is just his wife's sister and nothing more.

Please elaborate on Jai's mental state when it comes to gauging his emotions for Bani. Why is he so confused over what he feels for Bani, when everything is crystal clear in front of his eyes? Is it his dark past which is holding him back or is it his insecurity for Bani that is constricting his flow of emotions or is it just an overwhelming sense of guilt for making Bani's life miserable that is not enabling him to come out with his innermost thoughts?

I think it is a muddle of all the things mentioned above plus his experiences in what he thinks as 'love' from the past. He is too thick headed to realize that he had made poor choices in the women he 'loved'. His feeling for Bani are there, he is just refusing to lift the barrier that he has erected inside of him.

Bani's confession to Jai that she is not scared of dying but is scared of losing the one she loves gave any indication to Jai. Did he understand that she was pointing to him and he deliberately chose to overlook it or did he think that she was referring to someone else and hence told her that she has her whole life ahead and will surely find true love in future?

I think he understood completely - at least that is what I interepreted from the expression on his face. It was very clearly written all over Bani's face and it was shining through her eyes. And Jai is a person who can read people very well and know what is going on. (Yes he can be a duffer sometimes.) But in this instance I think he deliberately chose to overlook it. This way he did not have to delve inside his heart and face his own feelings and emotions. I wish he contemplates on her words when he is alone.

Please comment on the changing dynamics of Jai and Bani's relationship. From a cold aloofness to a growing admiration and professional camaderiship to a forced marriage and a shattered relationship, to growing affection and trust and now an enduring, eternal and deep love. How long have Jai and Bani traveled in the past 5 months since Kasamh Se debuted?

A long, long way and it is this journey that they have undertaken together that will bind them together forever. They have experience every emotion possible between the two of them and still are by each other's side. That in itself says a lot.

Do you foresee a coming together of Jai Walia and Pushkar in the future or will Jai never be able to forgive Pushkar for what he and Pia did to him? Do you think that Jai coming to know of Bani's feelings for Pushkar will affect his relationship quotient with Bani in anyway and stop him from confessing his love to her?

Maybe. Because Jai knows that it will mean a lot to Bani. Also if Bani forgives him for the Park Road incident Jai may realize that what he has to forgive and forget in return is nothing in comparison.

How much do you think the Park Road secret is going to alter the relationship between Jai and Bani? Do you feel that instead of tearing them apart, it might just lead Jai to finally come to terms with his feelings for Bani?

This really depends on what the secret is. Who was really involved and how much. Did it have criminal implications? The viewers for the longest time were led to believe only Jai and Bani knew what happened and now everyday there is one new person being added to the list. This is a tough one.

Do you think that Jai's unequivocal support to Bani when Saahil and Rano elope will wash over any tinge of regret and anger that Bani might have when the Park Road Secret comes out or will Bani refuse to forgive Jai for his past?

Again a lot will depend on the seriousness of the secret. If it turns out to be an honest to goodness accident because of bad weather and Jai's only 'crime' was to hide the facts from Bani then yes it will wash away all regret and anger that Bani might have. I really hope that it is Jai who tells Bani about the Park Road incident and other details. That in itself would make a lot of difference in how their relationship holds. Because, as a person Bani is very forgiving and she has to forgive Jai who is her whole life.

I am digressing - this is not part of the Q & A - but I will be very upset with Sahil, not for eloping with Rano but for leading Raashi on and giving her false high hopes. Will feel really sorry for Raashi.😭

OK - I have put in my two cents. Would really love to read your views on these questions too MT. 😊