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Hey guys. Im kashish. Actually this is the first time Im posting on this forum. I was a huge fan of Prem Juneja and KDMHMD and then I watched tere liye too and now dharampatni. Now Im here because I have seen a lot of posts regarding Kastur's decision and how she was wrong and how the serial is following the Ekta Style. Now Ekta is the queen of drama and no matter how much you criticise her she knows how to connect with audience and she must be good in order to give such hit serials. Now coming back. I have seen most of Ekta's serials and trust me Dharampatni is NOT going Ekta way. In fact thats what I expected when I saw the promos in the beginning. Now I love the love after marriage concept and thats why I really like Dharampatni and its great cause its not what I expected. Its somewhat even kinda close to reality with Mohan's character. Everyone's getting confused with Mohan. Now just because he's caring and respects his wife does not mean that he loves her. no doubt he will fall in love with her eventually but right now he doesnt. Their friends and thats how you treat friends. with care and respect. Now if Kastur gets hurt or is upset, he doesnt walk out like all the other husbands that are pissed off with their wives in the other serials do and blame her for being a drama queen. Mohan gets awkward like any normal person and tries to do something. Thats what I didnt expect. People are like this in real life. Now just imagine, if you were in Mohan's place and had to get married would you go around being angry or would become friends and move on. Ofcourse you would try to work things out, atleast be friends right? well thats whats happening. And thats what I didnt expect..that Mohan would be so realistic. In the bginning we were told that Kastur would guide Mohan and that Mohan is spoilt immature and unreasonable. But its not that at all. Infact he is quite normal. The CVs however need to strengthen his character a bit though in terms of that sometimes they themselves are unsure about what they want from the character. Sometimes Mohan is completely immature and ambition by mond where he fails in business but then he is sensible by heart . they just dont link. But I like Mohan's character as it is quite different from other serials. Mohan's character has also proved that whilst being in London he still has his family values as if you notice he is quite tuned with the rest of the house
Now to what happened today. Kastur's decision. Can you imagine growing up knowing who was made for you and then loving him all your life andbeing told that he was your god and your mother in law and family like your own family. Well tahst one of the biggest factor in this decision. Saroj was very cunning and got Kastur to say that she would do anything. Now when she asked Kastur to take the blame on herself for the sake of family, how could she say no. One one hand her values, then her desire to be loved by her mother in law and then in order to keep her husband in the house. She fulfilled all her patni dharam. She took on all the promises she made. Yes Mohan does have responsibilities too and he is trying to stand up to it which is now showing. This decision wasnt in order to make Mohan fall for Kastur but was for the true meaning of the show. Its showing what and who a dharampatni is. One of the biggest responsibilities and links of a dharampatni is that they take care of her husband and his family like her own and he decision reflected that. To maintain peace and tradition, kastur took the decision not to make mohan fall for her. Secondly to keep her husband and protect their relationship is another responsibility of a dharampatni which is shown in the Sia track. I just hoped they would have put another name for her cause Sia is another name for Mata Sita who is the ultimate role model for a Dharampatni. She is known as the ideal Dharampatni and all wives pray to her. And unfortunately a girl named Sia is standing against another Dharampatni. Anyways Im glad the show is showing the real essence of a Dharampatni rather than some saas bahu drama which makes it stand out.
Also Kastur's decision, even though not at all practical, was the best she could have done and it just showed Mohan what a diamond wife he has got. It just made Kastur stand out from the crowd and lets not forget it showed the difference between Sia and Kastur. and where Sia actually stands. It has made their marrige bond even more stronger and harder to break. Thats all I have got to say and Im sorry if I have offended anyone but this is just my POV so please no bashing. Take care everyone and keep enjoying DP and if you liked my post please do like or better comment. would love to hear other's views.😃
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