Indu's emphasis on Sanchi's name! - Page 2

Originally posted by: Asha004

Haha I liked your post and honestly I would agree--if this was real life and I was Sanchi, it would be pretty creepy I'll give you that 😉

Lol, well I'm glad I wasn't lynched.. Yet.. 😆

Yeah, I guess my argument is keeping in mind that this IS real life. That lets for a moment pretend that this guy isn't a fictional anti hero.. But that he is a real person in a real school and that he really acts this way.. That he beats up people when he gets angry, that he is entitled, that he is arrogant and that he goes so far as to throw unconscious bodies off of roofs - and all the while he can claim to be affected by "loveria".. So if this were real life, would his hooligan acts really be a testament of "love"? And would that really be something that we'd look for in a guy? Personally, I'd be more than a bit creeped out.. 😆 And here, does Indu really even have any reason to "love" her? I mean he can be intrigued by her amazing wits, he can maybe be spellbound by (what I think is) her average beauty.. But can he really love her knowing as little as he does about her..? And even if he can, is this guy going to be worth her time or appreciation being the way that he is right now! Now if he changes and goes through a complete and I mean a COMPLETE personality change - and that he gets traits like respect, charm and wits added to his character.. That maybe at that time I could possibly think of even considering the guy as relationship material for some girl. But the way he is now and the way he acts, all he is to me a hooligan who is intrigued by a girl while trying to get the upper hand in his political career.. He is not cute to me and his shenanigans are not endearing to me. They are just funny and careless - they crack me up and they entertain me.. But he doesn't come close to being in the vicinity of cute, innocent, loveable or endearing for me.. 😕😆

But again that's just me.. 😆

Originally posted by: -Fivr-

I've just recently started watching this show and it seems to me that I will probably be the odd one out in this forum.. 😳 😆 Because in all honesty, I see nothing charming or cute about Indu Singh or his behavior in the presence or absence of Sanchi.. In her absence, he's a total thug - as is his character - and he cracks me up.. And in her presence, he graduated into being a totally unabashed thug.. Which is fine too.. Because that's really his character! But is it really that cute and innocent off him to ogle at a girl? I mean, sure we can argue that he fell in "love" with her at first sight or whatever.. But is that really the RESPECTFUL way to look at or treat a girl? *shrugs* I don't know.. Again, this is just my personal opinion.. But I really don't feel that Indu's behavior is anything to write home about. In fact it's precisely how a two bit thug acts.. Because it really seems that his character is supposed to be one of a thug.. 😆

Originally posted by: survi035

It is always nice to hear a different perspective and you should give ur self a pat on the back for having the courage to give a totally different opinion.

In response to your post, i think...

We find him cute because he automatically changes the way he is when hes infront of Sanchi. He becomes this alil cute puppy before her


..."Is it really a respectful way to treat or look at a girl"??

have u even seen the epi where he first meets her??? Wow i have a total different viewpoint on this particular part of ur post. I mean, offcourse hes respectful..hes never tried to get really close to her or try and be all touchy touchy. Like in last weeks epi...he chose to stand away and admire her rather than be all creepy creepy and stand behind her or beside her and hope that someone will push and shove so he can land on top of her. Nor has he spoken to her in a way that can be considered not respectful...NOR HAS HE SPOKEN ABOUT SANCHI (ji) IN A DISRESPECTFUL WAY TO HIS FRIENDS (like saying she has this or that feature about her body which he really likes... so he anit a perv either)

I think Indu's character shows us that despite how a person seems or is or appears...they can be good and genuine. He isnt really a rapist or a creep. Hes a nice guy. And he does respect Sanchi. I hope you come to realise these aspects about Indu Singh in the near future :-)

@blue: Does he really? Does he really change in front of her? I mean sure he doesn't go around PHYSICALLY harassing her but the way he looks at her..? Lol.. I'm sorry but I've lived a little and there is NOTHING respectful about the way he looks at her, at least in my opinion. He is severely intrigued by her, I'll give you that. Because here's a girl who for the first time isn't scared of him or his people, but rather she holds her own. So she pecks at his curiosity. But chanting her name in a shower, waiting to stalk/stare her from roof tops and using her as bait in his political ploy is not all respectful or puppy-ish at all.. 😕 I mean, his thuggish behavior is especially evident in one of the recent episodes when him AND his possy decide to barricade her the parking spot where she and her friend are parked - all just to talk to her. Now wasn't that a display of grandeur and "power" by him? Of thuggish superiority? Because had he been a real gentleman, he could just as easily have walked alone to her and spoken to her. And he could just as easily not have used her a ploy to increase his popularity with the female voters. I'll give you this much - he hasn't harassed her and I'll give him that. But JUST that doesn't make him desirable, because in all fairness he isn't SUPPOSED to harass her! And if being a remotely civil human being by not molesting women, would make someone cute.. then wouldn't everyone in this world be "cute" simply because they treated women with an iota of the respect that they DESERVE? He calls her Sanchi ji, but is that SUCH a respectful thing? Because it seems to me that I'm the only one who hears his almost obsessive undertone with Sanchi.. 😕

Pata nahi, but in my opinion, Indu hasn't done any favors. He isn't a catch simply because HE is interested. Is tarhan toh Abhimanyu would be equally "cute" and "loveable" because at least he has spearheaded less atrocities than Indu in the political arena. But as far as I am concerned, being the way that they are right now - NONE of them deserve any love or adulation. They are two bit thugs. 😕 Who just happen to see a girl and think it's their birth right to now insert themselves in her life. There is so much that needs to be fixed in their behavior and personalities before they become marriage material. Or maybe that's just me.. Lol! Maybe it's getting easier for us as the days go by, to let men off the hook for being hooligans so long as they look at us and give us attention. *shrugs* 😆 Oh well..

@purple: And you're telling me that that "admiration" of his wasn't creepy in itself?! That they way he kept ogling at her and then lurking close to her wasn't PRECISELY what entitled hooligans do? 🤔😆 I have no problems with Indu - his character the way it is right now is pretty okay given that THAT is how it's supposed to be. But it amazes me how quickly we're letting Indu off the hook for beating and bullying people and for being extremely disrespectful to everyone apart from his own entity, SIMPLY because he chooses not to molest Sanchi. And it amazes me even more considering that not molesting Sanchi isn't a "favor" he's bestowing on her but it's how it SHOULD be anyways, with ANY girl..

*shrugs* I guess this is where we can agree to disagree.. 😆

In real life this kind of behaviour is definitely not going to go down well. Even random staring gets really annoying in real life if there is no reciprocation. I know girls who get stared at and I'm also very well acquainted with the boys who do the staring. Not a happy mix.

Guys this show is just 3 weeks in and u cant expect Indu to change his personality this soon can you now. He stares at her not in pervert sort of way but in admiration of her. He will change for Saanchi but not this soon as the show just started. In the coming months changes will happen within Indu's mindset where u will see another side to Indu. Yes staring at a girl in real life doesnt go down well as it makes the girl uncomfortable and I hope wat happens is he becomes friends with her first as that way he will be in her good books.

Originally posted by: Mahabhootni

In real life this kind of behaviour is definitely not going to go down well. Even random staring gets really annoying in real life if there is no reciprocation. I know girls who get stared at and I'm also very well acquainted with the boys who do the staring. Not a happy mix.

I think Saanchi is definitely not going to be to too happy either. She's a naive sort of girl unlike her friend who doesn't think about boys in any shape or form. She isn't totally unworldly but when it comes to herself I think she's not too aware. Her friend is probably going to be the one who notices the staring and tries to convince her about it.

I expect there will be an evolution eventually from just staring. He'll take the obsessiveness up a notch but to gain access to Saanchi the way he wants he will need to change how he looks at her.

I agree with you about Saanchi being a bit oblivious to her surroundings when it comes to guys.. Or maybe she just likes to PRETEND to be so.. Sort of like pretending that if she doesn't acknowledge that it's happening, that maybe some how it means that it isn't happening! I mean at least that's what I felt when I saw her interact with Abhimanyu on Friday. That she knew just how he was trying to get an angle on her and she was reinforcing her "bhaiya" jap as a result.. 😆

@bold: Thank you! That's exactly what I'm trying to say.. That he is a bit obsessive and he will take it up when it comes to Saanchi, eventually. But if he wants her to "love" him and truly respect him, he hasn't earned it yet being the way that he is at the moment.. Just like he hasn't earned mine.. 😆

Originally posted by: Mo710

Guys this show is just 3 weeks in and u cant expect Indu to change his personality this soon can you now. He stares at her not in pervert sort of way but in admiration of her. He will change for Saanchi but not this soon as the show just started. In the coming months changes will happen within Indu's mindset where u will see another side to Indu. Yes staring at a girl in real life doesnt go down well as it makes the girl uncomfortable and I hope wat happens is he becomes friends with her first as that way he will be in her good books.

However, I dont feel that he is obsessed with her as that sounds very wrong to me as I feel that he is smitten by her thats all. Also, he wont do anything to get into her bad books so i dont feel he will do anything. If he was obssesed with her, he wud have already made plans to make her his girl and gone to any lengths to make that happen. Yet he isnt and at the moment he wants nothing from her or does he want to 'haasil' her as all he is doing is admiring her for now.

Abhimanyu on the other hand, judging by todays episode, he is going to go to any lengths to get Saanchi to be his before Indu has a chance to be with her. He wants Sanchi alot and is obsessed in having her now so no one else can have her. Abhi's mindset is the one getting obsessed with Sanchi and is surely going to do something in the upcoming episodes to make sure Sanchi is his and only his.

Difference between Indu and Abhi at the moment is that Indu is prepared to wait for the right time for Sanchi whereas Abhi wants Sanchi now, no matter what and at all costs. Abhi's actions on getting Sanchi to be his is going to be something to watch and see what Saanchi's reaction to it all is.

Yet dont dont expect indu to change completley as he will still have the bad boy in him as that is the essence of his character where he is cool and strong leader of his gang. Indu in the future will have the softness about him that Sanchi will and does bring out but he will still hold that strong and powerful leader character traits in him too as thats wat his character is about.

@bold: I don't think anyone ever suggested that Indu should have had a change in personality already.. I'm not sure where you got that. 😆 All I'm saying is that the way he is right now - three weeks into the show - the character that I see on screen at the moment is NOT worthy of my loyalty yet. He hasn't convinced me to go "Indu-Saanchi are so cute!!!!" just yet because I don't even think that currently the way that his character is, that there is ANY scope of there being an "Indu-Saanchi" at all. So I guess while we can't say that he should have a personality change in three weeks, I am hoping that it isn't wrong when I say that thinking that he DESERVES any love or that he is a "catch" for Saanchi already is too soon. It's been three weeks and he has done nothing more than demonstrate his gundagardi.. WHAT is so appealing about that? 😕😆

@blue: He may be smitten by her, but he isn't admiring her, in my opinion. Simply because he doesn't KNOW her well enough to admire her.. I mean he can be intrigued by her, even be in awe of her presence and be smitten by her. But WHAT is so "admirable" about a girl sitting in a fruit stall (given that that's when he saw her first and started his Sanchi-ji jap)?!?! So I'll give you smitten, but I am not sold on the "admiration" part at all.

And sure he isn't all out obsessed with her. YET. I mean there is such a strong undertone to his behavior that this relationship will turn obsessive eventually if his character stays the way it is for the most part. He is entitled - he has already laid claim on Saanchi even though he KNEW that Abhimanyu was trying to get in with her before hand (I mean isn't that why he met Saanchi in the first place? Because his people told him about Abhimanyu socializing with the "W-wali"?!).. He thinks she's HIS simply because HE wants her to be. She is his to hit on or think of.. And that's as far as his obsession has gone, but it HAS started. Now Saanchi hasn't given him any reason to accelerate his behavior yet - he has no reason to try and "haasil" her.. But that is also a matter of time. If situations were to change and things were to get even a little bit different, I have no doubts that his ego and arrogance won't permit him to step back. That he WILL make it a matter of prestige to "have" her by his side, her will in the matter not withstanding.

Abhimanyu isn't any better though and I am in no way advocating him. I agree with you that Abhimanyu will be getting obsessive in his own right, but we see his obsession because he has HAD that change in situation. Initially he was happy just being around Saanchi and getting to periodically hit on her. But once Indu came in the picture and literally side stepped him - THAT changed the game and now Abhimanyu wants to have her because now it's a matter of prestige for him. Plus you can always see a power play between Abhimanyu and Indu - Indu is superior when it comes to the political career.. But it seems that Indu thinks that that makes him superior and entitled in every other aspect too and I'm sure that that doesn't sit will with Abhimanyu. So yeah, this obsession of his will now be stoked by the fact that Indu told him he can't have it..

This doesn't mean either of the guys deserve her at the moment or that either of them are "hero" material. They are both college thugs who are being driven by their "I get what I want because I'm me" attitude.. There is nothing admirable or cute about either of them, at the moment.. In my opinon. 😊😆

@red: Err.. Lol! Indu's waiting..? Since when.. 😆 He isn't waiting for anything - there is no right time.. Currently he sees no THREAT to his claim so he is going at his pace as he seems fit. The minute ANYONE tells him that he can't have her, he'll be ever too happy to show them that he CAN and quick.. 🤔😆

FIVR: you asked me this..

Does he really? Does he really change in front of her?

^^ I guess if PHYSICAL molestation is the only kind we recognize these days then I'm probably entirely in the wrong here and I shouldn't even bother trying to explain otherwise. I guess you're welcome to adore Indu and his antics and I'll just go on being "harsh" on him, as you state. Because we can either love him or just hate him? There is no grey area I suppose. No way we can like a character but be critical of him. 😆

My apologies. 😊

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