Hetal never considers Bedi's as family.
Mona is not considered family in the Gandhi household...in fact they walk all over her.
Bharti all of a sudden is not family in fact the children also put her out of their lives even for a moment.
And Bharti also does not stop abuses hurled right in front of her at the Bedis' for no fault of theirs - first by her daughter and then her sister.
on the other hand ...Karan is asked to leave to accommodate Parmeet.
Aditya is given first class treatment even though he is only a paying guest.
i think in-laws are simply that way!