POTD - Betrayal vs Self betrayal

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Whose betrayal was worse?

271043

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Posted: 13 years ago

POLL OF THE DAY - Betrayals

Since we're all discussing about betrayals (and one more to come?) here's a quick poll to see whose betrayal is worse : TA's mother, Lavanya, Josepeh or self betrayal?

Cast your votes and share your thoughts.

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Shammu

@Shemmo

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Posted: 13 years ago

Nice Poll Anna😃

Actually, i cant choose any of them. But i voted for Lavanya, as i had no other choice, but i think everyone betrayal is worse. Yenna the betrayal, shouldnt be done, so cheat panravanga ellarumee same than and it doesnt matter whether its the mom, sister or friends. Let me say what i think about the followin betrayals:

@Lavanya: She was the reason for T&T love and she knows Thulas very well. I dont understand why she has to show so much hater towards Thulasi. She is selfish to the core, wants to spoil her brother life, who is her own blood😡

@GW. She had haters towards Thulasi from the beginning because of Padma, so from that day on she fails to understand how nice Thulasi is. Even she knows Thulasi is good, but her money aasai is not letting her to accept Thulasi. She also knows that TA loves her to death, still she wants to betray her own son.😡

@Jos: He was a good friend of TA, but for money he is ready to cheat his friend. There are good and bad friends and Jos deserve the bad friend title. I think still he is not changed, illathi any friend will tell the truth to his friend, but still he didnt said, even guilty feelings iruntha kooda, he should have told TA, if he cares for TA life😡

@Charu: I dont know what to say about her . She is mentaly disturbed, but still if she was normal, she would have been the same i would say. She has inferity complex, so to hide that she will do anything😕 She is cheating TA on the name of Friendship. Friendship is something which takes us our lifelong and athula cheating ellam is worsee😡

I dont understand what you mean with Selfbetrayal?😕

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karthika

@KarthiN90

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Posted: 13 years ago

Thanks for the poll sri.

I selected none other GW only.Mother is more than god.Ta'smother is completely opposite to this.she is spoling her son's life for the sake of money.keta ellam pasanga nalathukam.

like shammu, i also dont understand Ta self betrayal.

athuvum two members vote panni irunkanga.

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271043

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Posted: 13 years ago

Self betrayal .. still believing his mother (over Thuls) after knowing about her true intentions/ character (--> courtroom drama). So he's betraying himself by choosing to believe his mother .. it's like he's torn between listening to his head or heart .. by choosing heart, he's betraying head. 😆 .. something like that .

btw, naan self betrayal oru vote poten .. the other 2 justification thanthaa nalla irukkum. 😎

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Mahadevan Venkitaraman

@maha2us

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

I select TA and what TA does is self-betrayal.

Shammu and Karthi: The first thing anyone has to cultivate is love towards oneself and if not the person is going to find not only troubling himself/herself but also spouse and TA shows that. Of course, if Thulasi had the means to handle him properly, he would have escaped. But he hasn't. Many times, we have commented he behaved like a child. Is T able to mother him? He knew, he was burning himself by going to loan sharks. Even before what was the need for him to spend four lakhs on Laav's marriage? We are told that sacrificing oneself is a betrayal. How does help him blaming Thulasi for whatever he did? His actions affect his wife and not vice-versa. Even J told him, he is going to suffer going to loan sharks. he knew his mom and sis betrayed him and T suffered for that. why was he still naive? And is he still learning? We don't know.

what he has to do is cool-headedly try to see why he is behaving in a certain way and whether whatever he does is beneficial for himself and how can he help himself and then extend the same to his wife. His wife also can think in these lines so that both of them build love for each other.

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jinju

@jinju

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Posted: 13 years ago

It gotta be a tie between GW and Jr.GW. 🤢 But I voted for self betrayal too. Ideally if this guy is practical and not a sucker for emotion his life would be so much better. Like for this azhagi thangachi he went out of his way and hit mohan and got himself into trouble. 😡 He should learn to be composed like Puvi. 😉 Puvi actually happened to see Mohan on the spot but did he do anything? If it was TA just imagine the plight of Mohan. He would have probably beaten Mohan to death.🤢

At least GW is a illiterate(it cannot be a excuse). But Lav being a educated gal shouldn't stoop this low. She can never justify the drogam she did to her brother and SIL. What harm did T do to her? If she thinks her marriage got dropped because of her. It was because of T that she had to do thiruttu kalyanam. It is so lame. As T didn't knew VR was behind it when she caught hold of the stabber. T enna room pottu yosichu iva kalyanatha niruthanumnu niruthinala? Theriyama pannathukku ethana naal oru SIL ku kovam irukkum? No logic at all. Also T helped VR to come out of the case. She should have forgotten everything. Say Lav was in her place Nitheesh got stabbed would she let go of the stabber? Will she forgive VR? She should appreciate the magnanimity of TA & T and be forever grateful to them. Avanga rendu perum potta pitcha dhaan ivaloda vaazhkai. Adhala unmaiyana reasone illa. she too got greedy like Deepa said that's the fact. Why she directed the police to T's house? The silent killer should never be excused.

I wish Lav gets few more tight slaps from Deepa.😆

TA should say unakkum enakkum ulla annan thangachingra uravu inniyoda arundhu pochu when he comes to know the truth like in tamil cinema. :P

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Arizes.

@Arizes.

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Posted: 13 years ago

I go for All 😃

Any kind of betrayal is wrong and unforgivable - whoever does to whom - All mean the same.

I cant differentiate the betrayal by GW/Lav/Joseph/Charu(friendship) .

Any kind of betrayal is breaking the trust one has on the person.

A person can never expect a betrayal from a mom, This is the worst case. But to the current scenario - TA right from the begining, one of his best and positive attitude - Trust on somone - be it his family, friends anyone for the matter - is his biggest strength and attitude. Only bcos of this attitude he got Thulasi. Be it a the losers, they try to betray TA by cheating him and breaking his trust - they will be the losers finally..Actually they are doing good for him, making him learn that everyone are not like him.

Second good attitude of TA - He sees others problem as his own- he once felt bad for a boy who stole his manager's bike and understood what is his problem and got him a job and everytime when he helps others he see that as his own. He once reasoned out Puvi/Sudha building their own house too. This attitude is what made him trust C. He sees things from C's POV. But what they are giving back to him is a pitiable one.

Self betrayal in case of TA is bcos of others taking over advantage over his good attitudes which makes him look like a loser. He fails to think about the consequence of his near and dear when he goes to help for others.

On the whole, the losers are losers - Even after knowing what they are doing is wrong, if they continue to keep planning, time will give them the due things rightly and their own plans would backfire on them at some point of time. Showing anger can be acceptable, but betrayal and planning like a loser is deftly unforgivable. GW is uneducated, but Lav, Joseph and C??..Education does not matter for such cases. Its only the attitude.

Though TA looks like a loser now, his trust has gained Thulz for which he would be happy that these losers are going to make him understand more about Thulasi. But this is a lesson for TA too.

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Jan50

@Jan50

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

I agree with Shubba. Though I voted for self betrayal. That is because no matters what others try to do, if one is vigilant and not an emotional sucker he/she could overcome the betrayal. I would rank Chaaru and Joseph's the least. Because Chaaru is not herself. Joseph not a strong character and only a so called friend. But La and Gw are the worst. These two think it is their birth right to have a luxurious life even if it is at the cost of others. They don't mind harming their own flesh and blood.

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Mahadevan Venkitaraman

@maha2us

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

Very true, Jan Akka. What I learn is, self-betrayal is the worst and a self-betraying person will be attracted to those persons who betray him/her. Definitely those with whom a person interacts are mirrors of him. That way T is also a mirror of TA considering his golden heart. Yesterday GP stooped trying to conquer Laav (though he has only 50% chance to win), but TA behaved with false pride betraying himself and burned himself and Thulasi.

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Smiles-20

@Smiles-20

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Posted: 13 years ago

#10

Any type of betrayal is bad but the hardest is TA self betrayal and when you get betrayed by your family because you trust them more than your friends.

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