First time I saw a Daughter Like hetal - Page 3

Originally posted by: rayadallie

Bharti maybe wrong as some of us see it but it was a sacrifice which she made in order for hetal, anukalp and sejal to be here. I dont see anything wrong in it as it was her belief and she did what she think was right and it shows that because of that she got three other children. Had she not done that then maybe she would not have had any other children today to doubt her.

At least she did not throw him away with a stranger or she did not kill him as sacrifice. She is a mother and bore that child, she would have suffered the most by giving that child up to someone else to bring him up. she would have had to live with that pain all by herself for all those years as she had to keep it a secret from the entire family.

I dont see bharti as being in the wrong. she simply made a huge sacrifice base on her belief

she made a sacrifice,i agree but she ditched her hubby and inlaws,now tell me honestly will u be okay if htal does the same tell bedi that her baby is dead so tht she dont want give it to sweety and keep it with bijal,even she wants to save her kid from sweety-parmeet.but its not right,mother has the most right on kid but that doesnt mean father are just for timepass,but on 2nd thoughts fathers like karan r for time pass.i agree hetal jst needs to speak up,it goes same for amabji even she needed to tke her family under consideration,when u r married decisions cant be made alone especially about kids.28 years is a big time,kalpesh is feeling cheated which is not wrong.she beared all pain allalone,but she wnted to do that,it wasnt her mannat she will hided it from her family,ulta she lied to her family

I don't know if Bharti was right or wrong. However Hetal destroyed her realationship with Bharti.

why is aditya not kalpesh's khoon if he raises a hand to elders but hetal his khoon can question her mother's character? is ambaji not an elder to hetal? she just prooved that aditya is their son! cvs can not even keep the last frame's dialogues in mind when writing this stuff? sad really! I would have liked to see babuji step up and shut hetal up but elders are just there for the pound of flesh.

I honestly think that whatever Hetal has done thus far is much worse than what Aditya did. Aditya controlled himself by not letting his hand come down to hit Baa. And Aditya was responding to someone who has insulted not only the person he has known to be a mother figure since young (Ketki) but his natural mother as well.

Why does someone not tape her mouth from spilling garbage or get Gabbar Singh to kidnap her

Originally posted by: sri11

Yeah, in many houses i saw DIL of the house facing fights from her saas, sasur,pati and even son..and when mother is facing these kind of situation,I always saw daughters supporting her.Though her mother did any mistake or not,its secondary.but She will also become mother and in case if she gives away her kid to sweety and after growing up, if he questions the same ...then she will understand..atleast Anukalp supported ..good sign.

live in ur dreams of hetal giving her baby to sweety
hetal wll never do that

Originally posted by: sherma

she made a sacrifice,i agree but she ditched her hubby and inlaws,now tell me honestly will u be okay if htal does the same tell bedi that her baby is dead so tht she dont want give it to sweety and keep it with bijal,even she wants to save her kid from sweety-parmeet.but its not right,mother has the most right on kid but that doesnt mean father are just for timepass,but on 2nd thoughts fathers like karan r for time pass.i agree hetal jst needs to speak up,it goes same for amabji even she needed to tke her family under consideration,when u r married decisions cant be made alone especially about kids.28 years is a big time,kalpesh is feeling cheated which is not wrong.she beared all pain allalone,but she wnted to do that,it wasnt her mannat she will hided it from her family,ulta she lied to her family

and y people see only mother pain,dont fathers have emotion,dont grandparents have feelings,what if amabji still wldnt be able to conceive aftr declaring aditya is dead,what wld have she done.

Hetal's situation is different from ambaji's. so I would not compare

Ambaji hid the whole thing from kalpesh and his family beacuse she felt at that time they would not have believed her and thus she would have had the result that she has today. Had kalpesh not supported her then maybe they both would not have any children today not even aditya. So she just decide not to throw caution to the wind so that she can have kids.