Gauri's Attitude and blame on Singh's

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Gauri was yelling today on Bhairav that they spoiled her life and in return gave her money for studies. Not even a single person replied her that if they spoiled her life so is her parents. They also agreed for child marriage and took money from dadisa. Also, Bhairav at least helped her for his Masa's fault but her own parents threw her in badi haveli when she was a kid. Her parents are equally responsible for spoiling her life. If anyone remember when Dadisa approached Gauri's family, she clearly stated that Jagya is married but still they accepted the offer.

If she is blaming Singh's for spoiling her life, then in return Bhairav made her life too by sponsoring her education. But her parents are always cursing Singh's even after knowing this truth that Bhairav sponsored her education.


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Posted: 13 years ago
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she is so self obsessed person that beside her own self she knows nothing as she is selfish fruit of a selfsh mother god knows which fruit both ate tha they just want others to die and live life at ease on others beekh and curse them only truly one sample piece to create ruckus in singh family 😈😈
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Posted: 13 years ago
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bravo👏, even i wanted to start the same sort of thread had signed in today 4 same reason but I'm very happy to see ur post here.😃,
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Yes, perhaps they are turning G negative and no rational thinking might be expected from her now onwards, but still trying to analyze her acts from the perspective of a rational girl that she once was.

On two counts, Gauri's purported injury to her self-respect, crumbles quickly into an unadulterated ingratitude; 1) Bhairav's consistent stand to stay an incognito donor right till the end. Even at the time of a gravest provocation from the recipient, he didn't reveal or throw his generosity on her face- he stood grimly tight lipped. That alone should lead to a better evaluation from Gauri. But even keeping aside that perchance clash, her flouted rectitude should have made her recognize the substance in this altruism, all these years discharged as an atonement for someone else's mischief- his mother- and not directly for his own wrong doing. Irony is the indictment of donor by recipients, over a presumed slur on their integrity whereas; an honest 'integrity' could easily have perceived and recognized the motive and pointers behind the original silence.

2) Her discounts on Bade Papa's integrity or motives, in that, that he is insinuated as an 'indifferent' helper/accomplice to someone (bhairav) who is surreptitiously lightening on his 'guilt'. And in the process, BP permitted a cheating on her right to refuse a donation on self- dignity grounds- thus wracking a humiliation on her. She surely owes him much more than such reckless evaluation. Of a person; who had no personal stack involved, who had showed only a compassionate humanity initially and later on a benevolent emotional attachment only. Why would he subject her to any mala fide- or even a careless- humiliation? In fact, could it not be that precisely a humiliation is what he was trying to shield/spare them from, with his collaborative silence? She fails to see this blatantly in fit of self-righteousness.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: sheenug

Gauri was yelling today on Bhairav that they spoiled her life and in return gave her money for studies. Not even a single person replied her that if they spoiled her life so is her parents. They also agreed for child marriage and took money from dadisa. Also, Bhairav at least helped her for his Masa's fault but her own parents threw her in badi haveli when she was a kid. Her parents are equally responsible for spoiling her life. If anyone remember when Dadisa approached Gauri's family, she clearly stated that Jagya is married but still they accepted the offer.


If she is blaming Singh's for spoiling her life, then in return Bhairav made her life too by sponsoring her education. But her parents are always cursing Singh's even after knowing this truth that Bhairav sponsored her education.


mein agree hoon aapke saath aur aapka yeh point bhi gouri, uske maabaap aur jagya ke saamne aane hi chahiye.lekin aaj ke episode ke baad mein baar baar yahi soch rahi hoon ki Gori ka vishwas jitega ki sumitra ka vishwas jitega?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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When Gauri threw her attitude on Singhs, why didnt any of them enlighten her that, "If Singh family had accepted Gauri also as their son's wife, then she also would have been struggling like Anandi today! and if Bhairav had not sponsored her studies, then she would not have got Jagya in her life or rather would have got sold to another rich family may be as a second wife or on natha !!! ". Anything is possible with these selfish parents of Gauri !!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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And on top of that she claimed if Bhairo really wanted to help her, he should have accepted the marriage.
I wonder even if Bhairo forcefully accepted the marriage, what status would gauri get.
Second wife to jagya, because then jagya knowingly would have not accepted her at all.
she would be in a situation worse than this.
At least she is educated now with a status and respect, then she would be nothing and nowhere.
Has she lost her brains to realize this...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: arti12345

And on top of that she claimed if Bhairo really wanted to help her, he should have accepted the marriage.

I wonder even if Bhairo forcefully accepted the marriage, what status would gauri get.
Second wife to jagya, because then jagya knowingly would have not accepted her at all.
she would be in a situation worse than this.
At least she is educated now with a status and respect, then she would be nothing and nowhere.
Has she lost her brains to realize this...

i agree!! @bold but theres a quesn that does G has any brains 2 realize it??😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: arti12345

And on top of that she claimed if Bhairo really wanted to help her, he should have accepted the marriage.

I wonder even if Bhairo forcefully accepted the marriage, what status would gauri get.
Second wife to jagya, because then jagya knowingly would have not accepted her at all.
she would be in a situation worse than this.
At least she is educated now with a status and respect, then she would be nothing and nowhere.
Has she lost her brains to realize this...



Really! If only she stops to think objectively...and to gain that objectivity she has to stop wallowing in self pity. Nothing is as detrimental to a person's progress as self-pity can be...coz they just don't want to take control of the situation...they enjoy being the 'victim'. And that is what is happening with gauri. She is not happy unless she finds some reason to push off her misery & blame to Singhs.

She was really not in her senses yesterday...does she really think she would have been better off as the rejected, unwanted 2nd wife of Jagya? Now at least Jagya has chosen her over Anandi & she should find solace in that

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I am not sure why everyone is lamenting Gauri's sudden transformation into a villain! Gauri has done nothing new in yesterday's episode, rather she has acted in the precise same way as she has been doing after her marriage. There was nothing new or shocking in her behavior.

1. She has always nurtured an immense hatred for the Singhs and blamed them for ruining her life.That's what she did yesterday too, her hatred for the Singhs blinds her of all sense of logic and rational thinking.

2. She has always claimed that her life was ruined after her child marriage with Jagya was broken. No amount of education, success, status as a doctor, a city life, new freedoms, newly found love------nothing, absolutely nothing could make up for the loss of being rejected the title of a Singh balika vadhu!! Didn't she say the same thing yesterday---"aapke bete ke saath meri shaadi kyun tudwa diya bapusa"!!! Misiing out on the balika vadhu status is what Gauri has always lamented, and she did lament it this time too.

3. She has never been thankful to anyone in her life. She wallows in self pity and portrays herself as the biggest victim of all---never, never counting the blessings of her life. She is equally shameless and no amount of sermonizing --------by the Singh family, the villagers, Anandi's parents, phooli, Kaunda Tai, Shivaniji, Bade Papa------no one, absolutely no one can make her see the true picture. So yesterday was no surprise!


4. Her intense hatred and jealousy for Anandi knows no bound. Yesterday was no exception.

5. She has always expressed disapproval at the Singh family giving them bheekh, but never ever does anything to stop or repay the bheekh. When she found out about Anandi's sponsorship, all she did was scream her lungs out at Anandi, but never really took a solid action to stop the funding she so hated. The same case was yesterday. All she did was insult and attack Bhairon, but she did not mention a word about repaying the money she soo hated to take!! Apparently she had traveled all the way from Mumbai just to show the Singh family their "asli chehra", and do nothing else!!

6. She has always had this penchant for scrapping off the Singh family's masks. Yesterday was no exception.

7. She has never been respectful to elders. Yesterday was no exception.

8. Challenging the Singh family regarding Jagya is again nothing new. When dadisa had refused to bless Jagya on his birthday, Gauri had thrown a similar challenge saying she will make sure Jagya never misses his family.

So there was really nothing to get shocked about Gauri's behavior. This is exactly how her character is and yet she has been supported several times in spite of these very character traits. This is how Gauri is and always has been---what is new about her?!!!!

In fact the only things new in yesterday's episode was Bhairon's silence and Anandi's new found voice against Gauri, when it's usually the other way round!



Edited by woman11 - 13 years ago

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