Something V. Important: Do Read - Page 3

Originally posted by: bhavya

Thanks for opening the thread .
Hi Bhavya...
first of thanks for acknowledging and appreciating my efforts of writing this thread and it feels gr8 when people around forum appreciates such tiny efforts by me. Thanks again. and below I tried my best to clarify ur doubts:

Its highly needed the person who is claimed to be bashed should understand why they are constantly being bashed, because they themselves are creating the scenario to being bashed by others .
i agree with ur point that everyone should have a sense of self realization to understand the reason why such things happening specifically to them and not to anyone else and its for everyone. but do u think its just a one sided matter.
I m not sure if u heard a hindi saying
Hindi: "Taali Ek Haath se Nahi bajti hai"
English: "One hand alone cannot make the clap sound."
Meaning : "It takes two to quarrel"
so even if someone is creating the situation of being bashed others are also responsible for making the situation worse by giving importance such things.


And the persons who are bashing should stop giving importance to that person who is giving us reason to bash.
well said...u just read my mind. One should be intelligent enough to sort these things out like what thing should be given importance and what thing should not. And that understanding can make anyone Most Intelligent person as they know where to use their energy rather than wasting on something useless.

When the person gives opportunity for others to bash her what we can do.
This cant be considered as A Justified answer to hide wt one does or to prove themselves innocent. One should have a self control and a knowledge of right n wrong so that other person cant force them to do something which is Ethically not right.
just tell me one thing...if someone forced u to start smoking...will u do it just cozz that person is forcing u enough to do so..? I m sure u wont...coz u know this is WRONG. so y here at forum people cant differentiate between RIGHT n WRONG and waste their time and energy in useless stuffs ???

Hope that person understands why she is being bashed .
m also hoping for it but at the same time m hoping that who all were contribute in all those bashing threads (Ir-respective who bashed whom) should get a sense of right and wrong and these sort of things will not be repeated on the forum again.

And if u go through the threads created by that person u will actually find out who is being bashed by whom.
again i'll say the same Who so ever bashed who so ever...it will not be justified just coz u were forced to do so. one should know what's right to do and wts not.

After doing everything if a person claims that i am innocent and everyone else is bashing me without any reason.
obviously everyone has rights to claim them self innocent even when they know better what they did wrong. Have u ever heard that a criminal confesses saying "yes I did a crime so punish me". Nope...never...until there are enough proofs against him A Criminal will try to prove his innocence. So its always the proofs that makes someone innocent or guilty. Why u should be worried abt someone else claiming them self innocent until u were there in the picture ? were u ?

So its a request we dont even want any info from anyone we are happy with current track of sns. And please dont give any importance to anyone rather than sns.
@bold...if this would have been followed by everyone here then I would have not opened this thread but *sigh* i never happened.