Jai and Brains...Incompatible!!!!

Ok...today's episode finally convinced me....Jai's basically bonkers....And I like bani am a nutcase to waste my time over him....

Today, I feel furious with him...not because he felt guilty about his actions...In a sense, that awkwardness is forgivable because he has no clue of how Bani feels about it...so his misgiving that he imposed his will on her is understandable when he knows that she was drunk...Silly I suppose from a woman's point of view, because as Bani put it, it was both physical and emotional surrender for her....And not smthing that cannot be talked out of..But then he's a guy after all...so I forgive him for that...

But this doubt about Pia...aargh!!!!....He still feels unsure about what he feels about her???....After having had the advantage of living with a person like Bani, sharing his life with her...seeing how her dignity, grace and poise compares favourably with Pia's follies at every turn, he still is wondering why he feels drawn towards her...Giving her intense looks the breakfast table....Jai..Jai...u need to be banged on ur head!!!....

If nothing, yesterday nite's episode should have shown him the contrast between what he was lucky enuf to lose and what he was even luckier to get in his life....A girl who eloped on the day of the marriage with him, who never gave him any reason to believe that she loved him, a girl who still regrets losing him not for anything else but for the luxury he might have provided...and whats more a girl who bounces into his bedroom in the middle of the nite and audaciously announces all this...Jai, you are still wondering about HER???.......And I am wondering about you????...Are you the same Jai who told off Roshni the other day??...

Today's episode just proves that however worldly-wise Jai might be in his other affairs, when it comes to affairs of the heart and in particular Bani, he takes complete leave of all his senses...After the most spectacular moments in his life, he ends up confused and misguided as ever...How ironical...in a relationship where the girl is almost half the age of the guy, the guy has all the growing up to do!!!

Rarely have I empathised so much with a female character, and that too on television than I did with Bani today...The heartbreak that showed in her eyes when Jai told her it was all a mistake left me with an ache....Poor Bani...u dont deserve this fate....you are just too good for htis man....Jai...go and roast in hell with Roshni and Pia...till Bani...(and me) are ready to forgive and retrieve you from there

Ok...feel a lot better after that letting out all that steam...:)..Does anyone feel as I do today???

Rupy

Completely agree with you here. Really did not expect Jai to be such a jerk. 😡 He always breaks are darling sweet Banis heart, 😭 first for Roshni & now her own "*****" of a sister Pia. 😡 How can he not see what a gem of a woman he is married too instead of liking a cheap rock!!!!! 😡 I really feel like going over there and hitting him hard on his head. 😡

I didn't read him having doubts about Pia, I thought it was his feelings towards Bani he was questioning. I haven't seen the episode so I can't say but if he is questioning his feelings towards Pia, yes it is wrong, but since he has got what he always wanted in terms of spoiling Pia and Pushkar's life. I guess that is what he is questioning, now that Pia is away from Pushkar, and it is in a way coming to terms with his feelings for Bani. He has to be completely over Pia in terms of love and hate...because passionate hate feelings sometimes tends to be stronger than passionate love feelings, then only can he move forward with Bani because otherwise there will always be that niggling in his mind. It's not in terms of interactions, but in terms of having any feelings towards Pia whatsoever, be it hate.
Anyways that's how I view the situation, if it makes sense...

Originally posted by: Wafah

I didn't read him having doubts about Pia, I thought it was his feelings towards Bani he was questioning. I haven't seen the episode so I can't say but if he is questioning his feelings towards Pia, yes it is wrong, but since he has got what he always wanted in terms of spoiling Pia and Pushkar's life. I guess that is what he is questioning, now that Pia is away from Pushkar, and it is in a way coming to terms with his feelings for Bani. He has to be completely over Pia in terms of love and hate...because passionate hate feelings sometimes tends to be stronger than passionate love feelings, then only can he move forward with Bani because otherwise there will always be that niggling in his mind. It's not in terms of interactions, but in terms of having any feelings towards Pia whatsoever, be it hate.
Anyways that's how I view the situation, if it makes sense...

He was wondering what he felt when Pia said that she regretted not marrying him...It was like why did he feel a pang...Coming on top of that wonderful nite he shared with Bani, felt like shaking him for that....

Rup........after reading this post of yours ........ i just admire you more for you gave words to my feelings for jai that stupid khadoos dukhichand walia!!!!!!!!!!!!

Jai's basically bonkers.... exactly he is so confused man !!!!!!!!!

Today, I feel furious with him...not because he felt guilty about his actions...In a sense, that awkwardness is forgivable because he has no clue of how Bani feels about it...so his misgiving that he imposed his will on her is understandable when he knows that she was drunk...Silly I suppose from a woman's point of view, because as Bani put it, it was both physical and emotional surrender for her....And not smthing that cannot be talked out of..But then he's a guy after all...so I forgive him for that... what forgive he is a toddler or what for not to understand whats right whats not........ when a woman surrenders herself physically n emotionally it means the world for her, n he did notice bani after he woke up that night she didnt give him a "ye aapne kya kiya mere saath"😭 kinda look

But this doubt about Pia...aargh!!!!....He still feels unsure about what he feels about her???....After having had the advantage of living with a person like Bani, sharing his life with her...seeing how her dignity, grace and poise compares favourably with Pia's follies at every turn, he still is wondering why he feels drawn towards her...Giving her intense looks the breakfast table....Jai..Jai...u need to be banged on ur head!!!....his head.......his blank head should be thrashed and then filled with lil brains . he still thinks for pia n not bani ..disgusting !!!!

If nothing, yesterday nite's episode should have shown him the contrast between what he was lucky enuf to lose and what he was even luckier to get in his life....A girl who eloped on the day of the marriage with him, who never gave him any reason to believe that she loved him, a girl who still regrets losing him not for anything else but for the luxury he might have provided...and whats more a girl who bounces into his bedroom in the middle of the nite and audaciously announces all this...Jai, you are still wondering about HER???.......And I am wondering about you????...Are you the same Jai who told off Roshni the other day??...all of us are wondering !!!!!!!!!! how could he still think for pia n make bani cry !!!!!

AMEN to everything all of u said.. cuz i agree.. i hate pia and roshni. and jai's just sigh.. he betta realize soon that he luvs bani cuz bani has realized it and said it.. just not to him but at least she knows

👏 Wow u spoke ma mind! Everyone in the forums seems to be going after Pia but noone lifted even one finger over Jai. PIA seemz to be an easy target these days. 😆 But wat about Jai he really behaved like a two faced guy today! Raat ko kuch aur subha kuch aur! I sooo did not expect Jai to do this to Bani. 🤢