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sonya begum

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Posted: 13 years ago

#61

Originally posted by: CunningLinguist

sure, but receiving vibes and going by feelings alone still cannot prove a person's intention... cause they can be wrong, sure she went with her feelings, because that's all she has... but does that prove that Amar had wrong intentions?, no... intention is something that's in the mind.

Indeed. But should amar stop based upon how they feel or based upon his intentions? I think the former, therefore that becomes the defining line on whether someone should seaze from doing something to the person involved: irrespective of right or wrong.

However, amar being right or wrong, will always be open to debate as long as he denies he had ill intentions, and as long as there remains two sides of the argument. As for me, I believe shonali's concerns against amar, while I have my reservations about sunny's.

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Posted: 13 years ago

#62

Originally posted by: sonya85

Indeed. But should amar stop based upon how they feel or based upon his intentions? I think the former, therefore that becomes the defining line on whether someone should seaze from doing something to the person involved: irrespective of right or wrong.

However, amar being right or wrong, will always be open to debate as long as he denies he had ill intentions, and as long as there remains two sides of the argument. As for me, I believe shonali's concerns against amar, while I have my reservations about sunny's.

These are two slightly different issues, one concerns his character, the other concerns his actions, people are tarnishing his character by trying to portray him as some creep with wrong intentions, whilst the latter is to do with his actions.. you are right that he should stop once a girl says no, however, for him to stop, the girl needs to make it clear to him, which Shonali didn't do... how is a guy supposed to know that the girl is uncomfortable with certain things?

Personally, I don't think he had any wrong intentions, he got slightly carried away in the task with the intent to win, the task was such that physical interaction was required. As for Sunny's case, she's making a mountain out of a molehill, she had no problems with Amar prior to nominations, but overnight she became uncomfortable with him, not a coincidence. I'll end it here, we've both said what we wanted.

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DespicableMe

@DespicableMe

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Posted: 13 years ago

#63

skys answer 2 caller of d week started with 'my mother is a woman'...haha...
wat a big declaration...its news 2 us...
so is every1 elses, u moron...

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sonya begum

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Posted: 13 years ago

#64

Originally posted by: CunningLinguist

These are two slightly different issues, one concerns his character, the other concerns his actions, people are tarnishing his character by trying to portray him as some creep with wrong intentions, whilst the latter is to do with his actions.. you are right that he should stop once a girl says no, however, for him to stop, the girl needs to make it clear to him, which Shonali didn't do... how is a guy supposed to know that the girl is uncomfortable with certain things?

Personally, I don't think he had any wrong intentions, he got slightly carried away in the task with the intent to win, the task was such that physical interaction was required. As for Sunny's case, she's making a mountain out of a molehill, she had no problems with Amar prior to nominations, but overnight she became uncomfortable with him, not a coincidence. I'll end it here, we've both said what we wanted.

I think we are kind of reiterating similar things, and going in circles a bit lol. But my point from my original post to now is this: if they don't like amar's behaviour around them, regardless of how irrelevant the allegation may be, he should stop. Also it doesn't mean they are automatically making it up if they are comfortable around one guy (sky), but not with the behaviour of the other (amar). That's basically my point...

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aztecarcher

@aztecarcher

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Posted: 13 years ago

#65

My 2 cents,

Amar picked up Sunny during the rain dance BEFORE Shonali's fuss.

Then and there Sunny did not go up to him and tell him he was wrong, she only complained to Juhi.

After Shonali's fuss about Amar's behaviour, Sunny forgot all about that rain dance issue only to complain about Shonali instead..because the rest of her group were doing so.

Now when she is nominated, the rain dance issue is being brought forward and broadcast over and over from her mouth. And Juhi and Sky are giving support. I thinjk its a bit too late to make a mountain out of a molehill. Either complain and stand up in the beginning or just leave it.

Yes, Amar kissed her hand..so did Sky. If Sunny is uncomfortable with men kissing her hand then she should show all men the limits not only the ones she doesnt like.

Yes Amar was too touch feely for the song, but he toned it down after juhi talked to him about it. If he didnt respect for their comfort then the would not bother.

Sunny has changed her most disliked person so fast. She used to hate Sid and sadid she would not talk to him...now she is talking to him just to get in bad words about Amar.

Maybe Amar thinks that because of her job nature, Sunny can handle playacting sensous filmi styles. But since Sunny seems to be playing the sati savitri strong woman groupie with her own mind it won't work.

And the women really make me think of two strong independent females..not. Gossiping behind the back but not directly saying to Amar UNTIL Sky steps in to interfere then throwing ammo from behind him.

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Karan

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Posted: 13 years ago

#66

Originally posted by: sonya85
Well if amar makes the girls feel creeped out, how is that sky's fault?! 😆Point is if they don't want amar to touch them, then he shouldn't touch them. Period. If they don't mind sky doing so, then they don't mind. Period. It's their choice na 😊. Also, some of the more serious allegations about amar haven't been made about sky, so it is different.

then they shouldn't cry about being married women, and don't want to be touched by strange man. to everyone's knowledge Sky met Sunny first time,. so how is he any different. Period. Everyone steps on Amar, to get footage, since Amar doesn't get personal and say things to others family. THey all know that if they say something to SKY or SID they will go all out.