Arushi's next step?

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elle45

@elle45

Voyager

Posted: 14 years ago

Hey all! First, HAPPY HOLIDAYS to everyone 😊 Now the topic:

So, Tamtam has just been getting ruder and ruder. He is downright insulting and manipulative. And nothing that Arushi is doing seems to be working, and we can see that she did try to explain everything to him, on several occasions.

Today also, he crossed his limits. He accused Arushi of infidelity, he's getting more and more suspicious day by day and there are signs that he is starting to become violent. No telling that he might start beating her up in a day or two. I think it's a horrible situation when something like this happens in a girl's life. To me, this is the worst sort of guy to be with, morbid jealously is no laughing matter.

In this situation, what should Arushi do? Or what should any woman do? Should she continue to bear his taunts and threats because after all, he is her husband? Should she demand for a divorce or at least separate from Tanmay till he realizes that he's wrong? Should she throw him out of the house to fend on his own, and try to continue with her life? Or should she go back to KN and demand that he come out with the whole truth and nothing else? Do tell me here, and try to forget for a while that you don't like the two as actors, you don't like their track etc. Just what should Arushi do?

Or simply, what would you do in a situation like Arushis?

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Muskaan

@Muskaan92

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 14 years ago

Very nice topic to discuss upon. Firstly, as you said, its very difficult for any girl to be in such a worst situation.

An educated girl like Arushi or any other educated girl should NEVER tolerate such a non sense. One can positively clear the misunderstanding upto a certain limit but provided the other person is patient and co-operative. Not like Tanmay who has now crossed all the limits..

Arushi should kick this tanmay out and take care of her father who is a widower and needs a daughter as it seems Adarsh, his son doesnt even care about him as MOST of the sons do..

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VISH

@Vish1435

Voyager

+ 5

Posted: 14 years ago

A very good topic. I reckon Arushi should just throw him out and live an independent life caring for her grandma and dad. Then shame on Tanmay who after four years of marriage is still doubting his wife and alleging her of infidelity. He should be ashamed of not progressing at work place and being a ghar jamai... arre atma saman naam ka bhi koi cheez hai. Shaadi kiya , na pyaar pr izzat de saka na sar par chhat - bada gatiya insaan hai. Aisa insaan ko koi bhi ladki/aurat ko saath nibhana namumkeen hai. Come on Arushi be bold fight for your rights. Where there is no trust and faith in the relationship then there is no point in staying in that relationship. Just divorce him and throw him out of the house. Let him go and rent and cook else where. He is just a free rider. Na usme swabhimaan hai na woh gairathmand hai --tabhi tho Komal ki tanne sunkar bhi ghar jamai ban kar abhi tak baita hai.

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Simmi

@simmi.friends03

Dazzler

Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: Raadhni
A very good topic. I reckon Arushi should just throw him out and live an independent life caring for her grandma and dad. Then shame on Tanmay who after four years of marriage is still doubting his wife and alleging her of infidelity. He should be ashamed of not progressing at work place and being a ghar jamai... arre atma saman naam ka bhi koi cheez hai. Shaadi kiya , na pyaar pr izzat de saka na sar par chhat - bada gatiya insaan hai. Aisa insaan ko koi bhi ladki/aurat ko saath nibhana namumkeen hai. Come on Arushi be bold fight for your rights. Where there is no trust and faith in the relationship then there is no point in staying in that relationship. Just divorce him and throw him out of the house. Let him go and rent and cook else where. He is just a free rider. Na usme swabhimaan hai na woh gairathmand hai --tabhi tho Komal ki tanne sunkar bhi ghar jamai ban kar abhi tak baita hai.

supereb...👏...very true jab use ghar se nikala jayega na tabhi use samjh aayega.

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sanitha

@sanitha7

Voyager

Posted: 14 years ago

Nice Post, I would like to pt out like everyone is talking about 4 yrs of marriage

& tanmay showing adark side / or two face personality , this is can be during any yrs of marriage, life

my colleague is thru 20 yrs of marriage & lately going thru verbal torture practically everyday.

Arushi is very strong character they should show her getting herself financially independent or

talk to her father who is always supportive towards their children or take a strong action.

Anway i really her love character she is strong & should take firm step

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babithaj

@babithaj

Sparkler

Posted: 14 years ago

I wud want Arushi to come n expose his double face in front of everyone n then decideds to divorce him... i want her to be independant... n no more mancrossing her life frm there on...atleast till this guy turns gud, thoroughly... he cannot be trusted anymore acc to me...

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maya sethi

@Mayavi-26

Sparkler

Posted: 14 years ago

I dont understand the main reason for tantam anger he very well know abt arushi past she hasnt hide anything frm him. and personally feel bad for prof tht man falls for this T false charm and decide him as a correct campanion for his daughter and see now wht he is doing?? Now I really want Arushi to tell truth to everyone abt tanmay suspecting her. BUt i personally dont think he can beat her bcos he is GHAR JAMAI and cant afford to leave the house plus also want to hide the truth frm family tht he is toutring her. so I think if he beat her, it can lead to the turth in front of everyone which he dosent want.

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Pooja Menon

@pooja-menon

Trailblazer

+ 7

Posted: 14 years ago

For me ...she should separate from tanmay till he realizes that he's wrong...and as it her house...she might throw him out as well..But all this will make the issue known to the family...then they might sit down and sort it out...Coz right now...this can't be ignored...Tanmay is going to be worse...

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tanu

@tanudrashti

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 14 years ago

Arushi is suffering day night bcoz of Tanmay jealousy.Arushi should divorce him.Tanmay is getting worst with each passing day.I want Arushi to unmasked Tanmay double face in front of everyone.