Originally posted by: beautifulbc
Excellent cooments by everyone - my 2 cents worth view point; Soham's portrayal of being an insensitive, strong hearted person is a facade. Crack the front & he is full of emotion & overpowering love, one just needs to penetrate enough to find the fun loving Soham, it is there & Anjali will be the one to reach into it.He is insensitive to family values 'cos he was sent to boarding school @ the age of 5 - a time that a child needs his parents. So it tells you right here that he grew up seeing life with a different view point. Reeva on the other hand is very submissive to Soham, she can't see past her love for him, therefore takes in everything without any qualms, his words, actions (disappearance to boot) due to her insecurity in losing him to someone else. With 6 yrs banked in her relationship with him one would think she has the reins in her hands but no. She should take it as a challenge & work with it, I'd would. One has to have confidence in themselves to make a relationship work, you can't accept it at face value, dig into it & plug the loop holes.
Sorry if I went overboard here.
guys thanks alot for all your comments all great! and interesting to read... and i deliberately decided to play devil's advocate...wanted to know everyone's views on soham..
beautifiulbc i i totally agree with each and every word of yours! you certainly did not go overboard.. i cant wait to watch Soham's character unravel. I especially agree about the whole family value's thing, at such a young age one needs a solid foundation one which it seems he never recieved.. personally speaking i think that Reeva for him is a compromise..she is a 'safe' option, she wont make him happy and he will never truly make her happy..because all the while she will be wanting to change him.. and if any change needs to be made it can only come from the person themselves..i feel reeva is trying to mould soham to her concept of what her 'husband' should be, rather then realising who he is as a person...