Falling for Soham... - Page 3

Originally posted by: white rose

lets just concentrate on the lady in his life, Reeva...

personally speaking and also v honestly, at first he really is not the kind of guy i would find myself falling for..however this whole maple leaf scene made me ponder...he seems to be a dreamer...something i find v attractive and can relate to..😳

Errrm sorry di, i posted my thoughts before reading this 😆

I agree and truthfully speaking he is not the ideal man a women would go for as i was a turned off by his apparent lack of compassion and respect for others, but the maple leave scene showed that he is not as emotionally detached as i first thought.

Wow desi 👏 👏 👏
I agree that Reeva is trying to be the woman who will change Soham into a guy every girl wants....she hasnt succeeded but I admire her for trying 😆

Reeva could still win over Soham coz she has that '6 year' advantage that Anjali doesnt have...if Reeva really tried to understand what he wants then maybe he could fall for her...but it's obvious that she doesnt want to accept the truth and make any changes since she believes he loves her 😭

😳Hehe thx for agreeing wiv me jaan
I feel bad for Reeva as she's does have good intentions and she is strong to keep trying to make her relationship work. I like her optimistic spirit 😊

Yet she is still being too naive for assuming tht jus coz he has accepted to make her his wife tht her jus ordering him to change will do the trick 😆

Originally posted by: pardesi-mem

Very interesting viewpoint Rida 😃 😊
Its true that Soham's past is still hazy to us and if and wen it is revealed we may be able to better understand his personality.
He is quite reserved about his feelings..i guess Reeva was there at the right time during the leaf scene 😳
Also, one thing is for sure..u wudnt get bored being in a relationship with Soham as he is such a puzzle and soo mysterious! 😳 😃

So true😉😆😆

i like him his personality is really chilled and cool, but sumtimes i might feel like reeva

Originally posted by: Supergirl7

ye....kavya had alot of flaws too but all that didnt matter to Anjali coz Kavya loved her more than anything....

yup...👏😳 They made a cute jodi 2!😳

Excellent cooments by everyone - my 2 cents worth view point; Soham's portrayal of being an insensitive, strong hearted person is a facade. Crack the front & he is full of emotion & overpowering love, one just needs to penetrate enough to find the fun loving Soham, it is there & Anjali will be the one to reach into it.He is insensitive to family values 'cos he was sent to boarding school @ the age of 5 - a time that a child needs his parents. So it tells you right here that he grew up seeing life with a different view point. Reeva on the other hand is very submissive to Soham, she can't see past her love for him, therefore takes in everything without any qualms, his words, actions (disappearance to boot) due to her insecurity in losing him to someone else. With 6 yrs banked in her relationship with him one would think she has the reins in her hands but no. She should take it as a challenge & work with it, I'd would. One has to have confidence in themselves to make a relationship work, you can't accept it at face value, dig into it & plug the loop holes.

Sorry if I went overboard here.

Very well written beautifulbc 👏 👏 😃
I agree Soham's got many layers which still need to be explored, but Reeva's fear of losing him, prevents her from looking deeper into his soul to know the true Soham. Yep the boarding school at such a young age was bound to have a long-term affect, but Kavya also was sent off to bording school for all his educational life, yet still turned out more sensitive to family values 😳