There is nothing wrong in being Negative!

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I don't know why some of my dear friends on i-f make posts saying that "no negativity" blah blah speech?
If by means no negative, i mean yea don't makes posts about the show ending cause then there will be a big problem to us alll...but why can we not make negative posts?? Negative posts regarding how someone didn't like the episode...why can we not express our feelings about a particular episode??? I have seen MANY not like the last friday episode for various reasons...it doesn't mean that they are being negative?? I myself was not in favor of the episode and made a post...but that doesn't mean i am negative about the show!!!
why are people forgetting that people cannot always be positive??? it is even said on the Gita that u need balance...to balance the good u need evil...to balance the existense of heaven we need Hell...
to balance positivity we need a spark of negativity!!! just like how endergonic and exergonic reactions are coupled reactions...they need each other to work!
If we all were ONLY positive, then this forum would be a messed up place, just like how this world would be a pretty f'd up place!
We need balance not only in the world, but even in simple places such as our GHSP forum, our home! We can GIVE constructive critisim...for something we didn't like...we all do not have to like the same things...😳😆
"we all are different"
sure u can debate over things...it should be kept clean and fun!!! 😊 We don't need posts such as"please do not be negative" to make some us feel out of place...that is not fair to us! So please it is a request STOP!
Oh yea, after this please do not make stupid posts titling
"the show should end" "bashing the leads" ect ect...that we don't need and it is unacceptable on the forum! However, if people do not like the episode for a reason, they have the right to say it!
Sigh, now that i got that off my chest...tell me what u all feel?
OR NOT...u can ignore this, but then next time i see a post that tells me not to be negative about something i didn't like then i will certainly give this same lecture.😉🤣
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ninand thumbnail
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Posted: 13 years ago
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all Hail the voice of reason ! seriously what a relief !..

I hardly ever find enough motivation to comment seeing those titles these days ... how ridiculous and childish is it to have to say that you like everything that's being done in the name of the show ?!

' accept it graciously-every bit of crap they dole out , sit tight and nooo dont even think about critiquing the show or the Producers will get hurt and shut shop.. they are sooo sensitive and we should be honored by their charity .'

Booo. 😳 really !


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Agree, if we are not liking something then it doesnt mean we are negative...we love ghsp a lot n we can never think negative abt it...yes, a lot of things do disappoint n we do criticise, yeah criticising doesnt mean that we start bashing but that doesnt mean we cant give our opinion...
I dont understand if we criticise something how will it be fatal for our show...who from the PH will read it...??? Or even if they read so does it matter them...?? Lol

We come to the forum to discuss abt the show, epi n the actors...and we'll discuss abt what we feel...we dont have to pretend...atleast this is not the time to pretend...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@Nina, exactly i am not saying OK PEOPLE be negative cry cry cry...hate hate hate...all i am askin for to allow people to say what it was about the show that they didn't like...that they found to be negative...negativity at some levels is fine...that should not be stopped...i mean we have some people that go overboard...and i stay away from those kinds...but i at times do not like certain episodes...but at times i don't say it because i feel like i will be bashed...and i will be forced to like it!!!

oh please shut shop...be critizers...but at a limit...i will not go and say ohhh writer u suck ass...LMAo actually i have done that to be honest...when i mean to say voicing about something u didn't like...i mean stay within limits...after all it is a daily soap...there will be times when there will BE NO LOGIC...ok fine no logic...i can go with that, but sometimes it cannot be passed...small things can be passed...but BIG logic messes should be critisized for u know what i mean?
Negativity is NOT BAD...it is good...too much isn't good...but then too much positivity isn't great either...we need balance!😆 I mean everyone like the episode that is AWESOME...but there will be times when not everyone will like some things...and if they want to point them out...they should be able to...
i critisize but i try not to go overboard...sometimes there are somethings that should be said...and other times it is OKAY to let goo...
however, i couldn't let go of the BIG Aorta mistake...especially since i am a bio major🤣
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Posted: 13 years ago
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We are not saying that all the time a person has to be positive and all are episodes will be good...everyone has the right to express themselves and their views but there were posts which said to shut down Geet and also some posts even bash Gurti commited to the show
some even went to FB to say that the episode was really bad...they asked PH to shut the show as they are not doing a good job

i know we have the right to tell our views about Geet but not bash it as everything has a limit to it

and on top of that...we all have to be really careful of what we say as we all know that Geet is still not safe yet and will it or not continue on StarDesh




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Posted: 13 years ago
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i agree with you regarding...this..if we don't like a particular thing we have a right to say it...like i said i didn't like friday's episode...that does not mean i hate ghsp...
thanks for making this post...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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You have a very good point.

And I would like to also add that criticism of the show, the execution, the performances, the writing, the direction etc comes from the same place of love that blind love for it does. When you love something you do not want to see it ruined beyond all recognition and that is what criticism of the show is all about.

Also. being open with your criticism can sometimes have very real results. I can't be 100% sure that it was because of our outburst on Friday, but I could see the execution improve significantly on Monday and Tuesday, with Vikram's sleeves rolled up when he offered Geet water so there was actually a moment of doubt as to whether it might be Maan.

If we don't criticise we are only digging our own, and the show's graves because it will only get worse without some feedback to improve what is unacceptable.

Now if only our negative feedback on the circus would work. 🤔
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Yup I agree when we say something we don't like about the episode It is never a negetive one. Friday's episode did dissapoint me but I cmommented on different post what I feel exactly That's how we try to give feed backs. It our fav show,we don't want others who don't watch the show say something wrong or derogatory abt the show. so we have a full right to disect and discuss about the show without bashing charecters and actors and share our POV.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Thanks for the post.

Now, that's the very reason I don't come to the forum much or post a response in other members' threads.

Having an opinion contrary to others' tends to make one persona non grata here. So, I consider it best not pen down anything.

What surprises me is the naivete of some people here who actually live in belief that the Channel or the Ph would shut shop if negative comments abound.

If our opinions really mattered, we'd have seen Dev remain a sinner and get his just desserts and the Circus Party would have been history many moons ago. These are the two worst things that affected the show in the long run, in my opinion.

But, did we get what we wanted?

In a nutshell, negativity will not be the reason to force the end of the show. The colour of money or the lack thereof, would be the motivating factor behind the show ending.

The forum exists so that people from all walks of life can meet in this virtual world and share their opinions and hold discussions. These opinions will differ. That's the fun of it all.

Unfortunately, immaturity and lack of knowledge of basic economics tend to work against the idea and this results in the mess the forum often times becomes.

Sad!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Agree with u dear..if we didn't like the epi and tell it here it doesn't mean we don't love it anymore just want it to improve for its betterment..i wish ppl could realise that stating ur views is not a negative thing..may be once the makers will pay heed to it and improve accordingly..thanks for this post..

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