Originally posted by: _Sanjana23_
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@Bold: It was Kastur's idea to start the relationship from a fresh and build a foundation from friendship, she did say in the 'mujshe dosti karoge' episode that the relationship would be so that the two could start newly without any kind expectations or anything and I don't think either of them have gone beyond being friends really.</font>
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<font color="#ff0099">onsummating their marriage will come when both Kastur and Mohan are comfortable to one another and LOVE each other. Its all well that Kastur loves Mohan but if they consummate now what is the meaning of it? For Mohan, it will mean nothing more than sleeping with a woman who happens to be his wife, and even Kastur wouldn't want that. Mohan needs to learn to respect Kastur and earn respect for himself.</font>
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<font color="#ff0099">I would be happy with them building their relationship and consummating when both genuinely are prepared, not because MohUr's hormones are running wild. :)</font>
I respect your point of view. I didn't say anything about their hormones; in fact, I wasn't even thinking on those terms...My post was not about them being impulsive & consummating their marriage!
Based on the interactions & the importance Mohan is giving Kastur per the last two episodes, I do think that he is 'falling in love' with her & yes, learning to respect her as he gets to know her. Thats why I said the 'I don't love you is looking in dire straits.' In Kastur's case, she is already in love with Mohan...she is ready to take it to the next level. Coming back to Mohan, 'love' has many manifestations: it's not just the physical attraction; its caring, doing, affection, mutual understanding, even getting each other's sense of humor, a smile when you read a sweet reminder from your wife. Ultimately, forming a connection..Mohan and Kastur are at this stage per what the CVs are showing us...
The pt. abt consummation is based on what the CVs have not shown thus far. What happened in those 3-4 weeks? Didn't their relationship grow? Just because it hasn't been discussed are we assuming that the feelings haven't begun to surface? Are we starting from square one just because Mohan has not explicitly said I love you & Kastur wanted to start as friends? It takes a lifetime to really be in love. Ultimately, 'I love you' are just three words...and the significance for each person is different. Furthermore, 'love' doesn't happen in a vacuum...as much as the movies & serials try to tell us otherwise...In reality, if there is already a level of comfort in a marriage, according to me, that would support them coming together & yes, consummation wouldn't seem out of the question.
As far as this show goes, I think the next track should address the relationship & yes, move to consummation (again, I am prefacing this statement based on what has been shown/implied thus far.) In my opinion, the CVs need a reality check on what exactly they mean to show to the audience...
Edited by Nandalala - 13 years ago
