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Posted: 13 years ago
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I don't have any problem if they show their relationship developing ... my problem infact is they have shown nothing at all except will you be my friend thing to show a development in their relationship .. what happened after that? They started living like friends? My problem is they have shown no development in their relationship at all and suddenly showed 4 weeks have passed ... mohan just saying she helped me a lot or supported me won't make sense simply because you need to see that relationship developing to actually believe that which we have not been shown
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Nothing much in the show ever used to make sense but now I dunno what to say🥱

And Kastur - Mohan, relation, God knows how they became so normal

nothing is making sense

And yes Saroj deserves to do the inauguration coz she may nt be a best MIL but she is best mother and did everything to save Mohan from Baaji's
and if at this point of time, Mohan asks Kastur to do it since he helped him alot
then screw cvs and DJ🥱
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@Lik: what is love? 😕 😆 🥱

As usual, I take a leap of faith and assume something positive has happened during each week crossed off on K's calendar...questioning why are they behaving like a married couple when we've had nothing to show for it...my bad!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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😆

Realistically, that's such a valid reason and conclusion. (It's also the reason why Saroj got all mistress like when she saw what looked like a close physical moment between the two, despite the ridiculousness.) You and I would be okay with it. I feel so relieved that I'm not the only one. Not many others would be. I would love to see a serial portraying more mature dynamics.

I always say, stop making consummation the end point, but rather within an emotional context (well it could be an emotional context mixed in with physical attraction), which then develops and furthers the storyline.

They're already married. 😕 It's not like it only happens once they're both completely and absolutely and deeply in love.

I was never expecting it to happen here. Though I did have an expectation that it might happen in an emotional context, or in a climatic way, rather than a conclusionary way
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@ Anjali: That was well put. I so wanted someone to discuss it.

I do accept everything you said its just that they never showed it happening, it was left for our imagination if they had shown the comfort level increasing in a more sensible way i wouldn't have to cringe at it now. As far as consummation part the CV's can never get it right. They have a certain notion that physicality has something to do with saying "I LOVE YOU" its not so in reality. Love happens naturally in some relationships and certainly it doesn't need an acknowledgement.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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lik my problem is not whether they have consummated or not ... you can do all other things as hubby and wife even without doing consummation ... but after mohan telling her i don't love you ... and her saying lets be friends they showed nothing at all absolutely nothing which would convince me of how they were acting yesterday

And did no one else felt yesterday that it was weird that kastur refused to wear a gift mohan brought for her because saroj will get angry but on the other hand she went to site without even informing her? No i don't have a problem with her going there, she can go any where ... but on one hand she does one thing on the other another ... does it make sense? She knows how strict the rules are in the house, she knows how its necessary to take permission of elders but yet she went without asking ... i am not objecting to her going but if she can go without informing why did she care about the gift so much? She could wear that too without informing anyone mohan brought it
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i agree wid u Nads, dat d gift refusal concerning saroj disgusted me a lot🥱!! wen she cud tak d lunch widout saroj's permission, den y can't she accept d gift??
i understand saroj is a strict lady nd harsh too, but den again just blabbing out in front of saroj about baapji's gift was a pain dat actually has no end 🤢... yaaa kaastur respects baapji nd wats 2 thikofy d things, but aftr knowing d clashes between saroj-baapji-MOHAN, it was really a foolish act 2 announce it wen narmada -saroj was just comparing MOHAN's choice of gifts...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@Nads: If you can see in my posts that the relationship thing is what i have been whining all about. They never showed it and took it for granted. Its not fair to take a leap as its important for the story line.

Kastur's character has always been contradictory. She being a mahanta and all; her not taking permission but worries about the saree doesn't make sense. And she knew that Baapji and Mohan doesn't share a warm relationship but she makes a point to bring him up with Mohan that's crazy. Her being so interested in Baapji's POV is forbidden as she never tried to know her husband's view on it.

So its pathetic that KASTUR'S character fails to be consistent.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I mean the entire concept of story is based on how their relationship developing and just showing it by her marking on calendar makes no sense ... how will viewers relate to it is beyond me
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Posted: 13 years ago
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soaps, that's what I have a problem with too. I was just commenting generally. Anj mentioned that perhaps it's due to a change in their relationship. Is it possible, yes. Absloutely. But no way in hell would a serial show that.

But as far as MohUr go, they have put themselves in a confusing hole. Okay maybe her "dosti" agreement was because she understood what Saroj said and implied. But even still, it's still a marriage. It would be one thing if she didn't acting like his wife, but she does.

Why not take it as it goes? There didn't need to be that "dost" handshake.

And they're still sleeping separately no doubt. 🤢

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