Responsibility of Children towards par

What responsibility children specially sons have towards their mother.

Children (no matter son/ daughter) should take care of parents in all possible ways and show them respect forever !
But parents should also understand that kids are going to grow up , going to become adult one day !
Treating them like kids and expecting permissions from them all the time is not going to work at all !
They also need to understand generation gap issue, things that they did in 'their' time are not going to happen today !!
'Daughter in law' and 'son in law' are delicate relations, no need to get insecured over it, every relation has different importance !
One needs to be matured enough to understand that no matter what you think, they are better halves of your son/daughter !
If the parentswant respect from bahu/ damaad, they also need to respect bahu and damaad in return !
Regarding 'bahu' issue, in laws absolutely have NO RIGHT to shout on bahu, she's daughter in law, not their daughter !

Who is Bharti to decide that Mona's business should be stopped ?

[Quote=tochukumari]"Children (no matter son/ daughter) should take care of parents in all possible ways and show them respect forever !
But parents should also understand that kids are going to grow up , going to become adult one day !
Treating them like kids and expecting permissions from them all the time is not going to work at all !
They also need to understand generation gap issue, things that they did in 'their' time are not going to happen today !!
'Daughter in law' and 'son in law' are delicate relations, no need to get insecured over it, every relation has different importance !
One needs to be matured enough to understand that no matter what you think, they are better halves of your son/daughter !
If the parentswant respect from bahu/ damaad, they also need to respect bahu and damaad in return !
Regarding 'bahu' issue, in laws absolutely have NO RIGHT to shout on bahu, she's daughter in law, not their daughter !"

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Who is Bharti to decide that Mona's business should be stopped ?

She is overstepping her authority and boundaries .

What is happening in Gandhi house is plainly a case of DIL abuse .

Anukalp has NO ego issues . He does not mind that Mona's business is flourishing , he has no problems even if she earns more than him .

Infact he rather WANTS the extra monetary help as he has a family of 9 to feed .

He is a practical chap . A sissy at times but rather practical . He had combined Diwali and Karwa chouth gift and given it to Mona .

He had even introduced wife's designs to his boss's wife .

So then why r these two narrow minded ladies making such an issue ?

Why should Mona take Ketki here and there ...if she is doing it , it is a BONUS . Its oh so NOT her responsibility ...Bharti called her , Bharti shud manage . Kalpesh too can help out or Sejal can go .

So many people r there .Why shud Anukalp leave his job and go and why shud Mona incur loss in her business and go

Why shud she incur loss in business and cancel meetings just bcoz Ketki gets LAST MINUTE WHIMS like eating Dhokla or wanting to listen to Geeta path ?

They r nothing but WHIMS . Unimportant , last minute FANCIES . She shud deal with them herself . Nobody is gonna cancel MONEY MAKING HOURS to indulge such faltoo whims .

Bahu is not a SERVANT to do things for u at last minute .

What is this stupidity of Gandhi house that Mona and Anukalp shud ASK before going ? Cannot they TELL ? They r ADULTS . Anu keeps asking ...CAN I Go ?CAn I go ? PLEASE GIVE UR PERMISSION .

What kind of autocracy is this ?

Does not Bharti have SHAME that she wants to control her son to this extent that if he wants to PEE he has to ASK her and god forbid if he DARES to Pee before she gives permission , he has to DRAW the torrent of Pee Back in an instant by understanding her GLARE ?

Bharti needs to taste what Karan did to the decent , Kind Bedis .

Today Bijal told Bharti a REALITY ...that U will BREAK the mother son Jodi .

I VOTE that happens .Twice Mona incurred FINANCIAL loss ...Imagine losing an opprtunity to be displayed ABROAD , Imagine being asked to shut down a business one built with MEHNAT .

Imagine not being able to have a simple cup of coffee with husband and thinking of EVERYTHING but romance .

This life is SAD .

Today the bahu of the house was treated disrespectfully in front of her WORKERS ...TAILORS .

They stand to LOSE their LIVING due to TWO STUPID women who have NOTHING better to do .

May the curse of GOD fall on Bharti and Ketki .

Seriously, I guess Ambaji and Ketki are so dumb or retarded that they can't understand importance of double earning in Metro cities !
If Mona is progressing in career, making money , that's also going to help 'them' (Ambaji and KAlpesh) !
Kalpesh-Ambaji at present are dependent on Anukalp-Mona, AKlpesh has lost all the money and property in business loss (that's what they showed in early episodes.).
Even though Ambaji doesn't like Mona, she should at least get selfish and keep Mona happy for her own financial needs , her own daughter' Hetal ' is not going to look after her in old age for sure, then Ambaji has no choice but keeping Mona happy !
Old age medical treatmnets are also big deal in terms of money and man power !
Ambaji and KAlpesh need both for their old age.. If they treat their daughter in law as slave, why would she care for them in their old age ?
If they stop her from making money, why should she pay their hospital bills and how ?
Gandhis also have all time guests (doing nothing) like Phui, Ketki.. who's going to take care of all the expenses needed to entertain them ?
I'm sure Ambaji is seriously mentally sick that she's not understanding importance of 'bahu' getting financially independent !

What I want to know is what if it were Hetal in Mona's place and the Bedis were trying to stop Hetal from earning money? What would Bharti and Ketki do? Probably go and fight with the bedis and bring their daughter home. These double standards between bahu and beti are very wrong and then ketki and bharti talk about SANSKAARS. this drama is just getting worse by the day. I wish Bijal would start taking Mona's side while Ketki is here. That would be worth watching.

Ketki is runing Ambaji's family life...Just like Bijal is runing Hetli's life..

So true the behaviors of both ketki and bharthi is beyond my understanding and restrict Mona from doing her buisness and all the other norms they pull
Anukalp has no issues with monas buisness and is helping with it's expansion help the family want to be close knit but in tern tearing their dreams and ruining things for no rime or reason
Aur kya dekna hai with this behaviour