the use of word aap

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crazygul

@crazygul

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Posted: 14 years ago

eveyone in the serial uses word aap for calling another whether it is maa saheb shivba and saibai. generally as i have seen husbands say tum and wives say aap to each other. but here shivba uses aap for saibai. many people dont like it. they say it is better to use tum as it looks more real and lovely. what you think ?

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...PARiNA...

@...PARiNA...

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Posted: 14 years ago

aap is just not used for elders .. its also used to give respect
thats what Shivaji is doing

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Khushi Grover

@Amor.

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Posted: 14 years ago

its f9 if hubby using word aap for thr wives

" give respect n take respect" n shivba knows how to take respect

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bhoomi

@frozen.devil

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Posted: 14 years ago

ya, all of dem r frm the royal family n so r taught 2 give respect2 every1 ( use d word aap) since childhood.

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Intrepida

@Intrepida

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Posted: 14 years ago

Yea in royal families you say aap to everyone in the family, i think its pretty cool that they use aap for each other!

even normal families especially in MP, the parents will use aap for their kids,

now its just more of how you want to do it, some people say aap for everyone, some one call their mom as tum (which to me is appalling!!!)

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IntrovertedDame

@IntrovertedDame

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Posted: 14 years ago

I think it's lovely that Shivaji reciprocates the respect shown towards him by Saibai. Very rarely do husbands address their wives as such. It's so sweet!

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...PARiNA...

@...PARiNA...

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: ratilal22192
Yea in royal families you say aap to everyone in the family, i think its pretty cool that they use aap for each other!

even normal families especially in MP, the parents will use aap for their kids,

now its just more of how you want to do it, some people say aap for everyone, some one call their mom as tum (which to me is appalling!!!)

me too .. i prefer calling even aap even if person is younger to me
infact my nephew is 4 yrs old i call him aap :)
its all about love and respect :)

these days even in social shows .. like yeh rishta n all .. they use aap for their wives

Edited by ...PARiNA... - 14 years ago

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LiveHappy

@LiveHappy

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: ratilal22192
Yea in royal families you say aap to everyone in the family, i think its pretty cool that they use aap for each other!

even normal families especially in MP, the parents will use aap for their kids,

now its just more of how you want to do it, some people say aap for everyone, some one call their mom as tum (which to me is appalling!!!)

I don't feel calling your own mom as tum is appalling...It depends on perspective..I prefer calling my mom as Tu(in marathi) because she is so close to me and calling aap seems a formal addressal and creates a barrier while cracking/sharing any jokes with her..though I call Tumhi while addressing my dad as I am more closer to my mom than dad. Same thing applies to other relations..depending on how close you are u prefer to call that person in that manner.

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Bhargavi

@Historylover

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Posted: 14 years ago

Ya ...in olden times all the kings addressed their wives as aap...most of the times...royal etiquettes you know😉

I agree with LiveHappy...such things depend on perspectives as well as the surroundings...in some of the krishna bhajans ...krishna addresses Yashoda maiya as 'Tu'...so it totally depends

Tu kitni bholi hai

Tu kitni pyari hai

o maa meri maa (i know it's not a krishna bhajan..but a film song)

main kabhi batlata nahi

teri parwah karta hun main maa...(again its teri)

okay ...i guess my post is getting off-topic ...and becum an antakshari😆 ...so i m running😛