Ek Main aur Ek Tu / Jai & Bani.....Q & A - Page 3

im not sure whether its his turing point all i can say is that he has feelings but he need to realize it and express it 2 bani

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Hey MT yet another MT special question oh sorry hard ques 😉 session...

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So my questions for today are;

Do you think that yesterday's episode marks a turning point in Jai's attitude towards Bani? Please guess, that from now onwards, Jai will never lose his faith in Bani, come what may? Or do you think, that this is only a temporary incident and Jai might well be back to square one?

No not at all this incident will make Jai realise what Bani has done for his name and family and Jai will never forget now he will try to support Bani come what may! But yes if at all the question raises that Bani is in some kind of sticky situation he will atleast give her a chance to proove herself and not behave the way he did in the pregnancy issue but somewhere it was because of his changing emotions which he was going through and may be still is...but now he will try to understand what really Bani is...and not have any kind of false perception of his own about Bani.....

Do you feel that Jai was always in love with Bani, he just wanted a mental nod that Bani is the "Eternal Good Girl" that he had imagined her to be and now with this truth coming out, nothing will be able to stop him from coming out with his true emotions for Bani? Or do you think that Jai will now realize what a wonderful person Bani is and now fall in love with her?

Ya definately he had this mental image of a girl like Bani but unfortunately he chose the external looks of Pia but with changing times he will realise soon that the kind of Love and support of a life partner he had in his mind is Bani...and no one else...yes once he starts realising the fact that what he is searching it is right there with him....and has started to respect Bani and the time is nearing where he will understand the importance of Bani in his life...

Do you think that Jai as such is an extremely dominating and aggressive man in all his relationships (with his family and friends) or is this behaviour of his only meant for Bani?

The kind of situation Jai has come across was he was a stern business man and he had a valid point to have a certain kind of pride and thought love was not meant for him. But in all these years he didn't feel that way untill he met Pia, this time he meant to even surrender himself to the person he loves so if it was not for Pia's escapism he would have been standing still at what he use to think... yes he was a dominating person but he changed himself to make his would be wife (Pia) happy so this was what he had switched himself back to what he initially thought about love before Pia's incident....
bad behaviour with Bani was natural b'coz he had so much of faith in Pia and finally he thought what could be more gruelling for Pia if he makes Bani suffer...he had a valid reason to do all what he did.

What do you make out of Bani's passive attitude towards Jai? What do you think is compelling her to keep quiet and take his cruelty and his kindness in her stride? Is it because she is so hopelessly in love that she prefers Jai as he is, instead of losing him for ever, or is it because she has given up completely on him and has no energy or will to fight him back?

Bani has always taken her wifey's role seriously even when Jai was so mad at whatever happened and did not speak a word b'coz after all Pia had done the mistake but this pregnancy issue has proved comepletely that she is so nice as a person that she believes on the muhawra-{Dushman ko agar jeetna hai to pyar se... 😊 😊 😊 }she even thought of Jigyasa when she hates her. Bani staked her own name for her daughter's mistake so may be like this she will win Jai's heart...this what I feel Bani has in her mind 🤔 🤔 🤔

Please guess as to what would be Bani's attitude towards Jai from today onwards? Will she show her usual warmth and silent love towards him, or will she completely cut herself off from him, yet be her usual wifely self?

No Bani will not cut off but yes as Jai will feel sorry and apologize they will have a better communication and better understanding and yes she will continue to be as efficient wife as she has been all these days...but yes now they will come across I am talking about both Jai and Bani will understand what they feel for eachother but somewhere Jai is doubtful case but lets hope he also feels all that...

Do you think that Jai will end up confessing his love to Bani before Roshni and Jigyasa can make an entry again? And if yes, do you think that Bani will accept his love or prefer to walk out of his life this time? Do you think that Jai and Bani will consummate their marriage, before the "Mystery" is cleared up?

Oh God MT thodi saas lelo hahaha itne saare importnt ques ek saath poochliye well the first point they may have lighter moments where they convey their feelings silently and then may be he will talk to her about his feelings...ya may be before Maasi and Roshni come they confess...I hope...I know I have high hopes but atleast they shuld have this confession before the mystery unfolds...but I know the mystery is due till Roshni comes back because she is the only one who can reveal...

As per the Astrologer's prediction, will Jai's love really become Bani's pillar of strenght and protect her from all troubles and evils (Read Jiggy, Ranveer, Roshni and maybe Pia)

I think I have answered this question in previous Q&A but again I will say that they will have a strong love bonding which will remain even if they get seperated by any circumstance... Eternal love will always be in their bond... but can't say that they will be saved by all the danger lurking in the future especially-Roshni's Park road raaz...

An analytical question; Jai and Bani will be completley devoted and in love with one another for the rest of their lives, but their relationship will always be an unequal one, with Jai forever having the upper hand. Agree or disagree, please share your views!

Oh god MT this is toughest ques I think because Jai had been n such an unforgivable position and Bani never gave up with the ill-treatment she got so it is absolutely Jai who has had the control over the marriage or what you call the upper hand so untill unless Jai surrenders the marriage will be always in Jai's hands...and not in Bani's hands

I Just loved todays Q&A session 😊
as usual gr8 question especially {the upper hand of Jai}

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Do you think that yesterday's episode marks a turning point in Jai's attitude towards Bani? Please guess, that from now onwards, Jai will never lose his faith in Bani, come what may? Or do you think, that this is only a temporary incident and Jai might well be back to square one?

Ans. Y'day's episode conside to be a turning point in jai's attitude towards bani. Now its not a temporary incident. Before this too jai trust bani. His trust feelings converted with love for her. He never confessed his feelings to bani. due to this love n starting to consider bani as his wife, he lost his tempered on hearing a news of bani's pregnancy. He felt insecure for bani rather loosing bani. But after coming out of the truth, he has a feeling of security in his mind that bani will not leave him. That she will be always be with him. Which lead to him to be faithful to her for the rest of his life. He will never lose faith in her.

Do you feel that Jai was always in love with Bani, he just wanted a mental nod that Bani is the "Eternal Good Girl" that he had imagined her to be and now with this truth coming out, nothing will be able to stop him from coming out with his true emotions for Bani? Or do you think that Jai will now realize what a wonderful person Bani is and now fall in love with her?

And. This incidence was nothing but a stamp on jai's love for bani which already started from jai's part. He knew from beginning how wonderful bani was and is as a person. Her good quality already made a place in jai's heart. that's why jai like her and said that she is different from her sisters. After their marriage, there were incidence happened which lead to made a special place for bani in his heart. He slowly started to love her as he like her from the beginning. When he started to love her and before this incident took place, he never showed it openly but after that he showed his emotion of love for her in front of his family members. So as I said pregnancy issue make jai completely obedient and lovable husband of bani. Enjoy bani your happiness……

Do you think that Jai as such is an extremely dominating and aggressive man in all his relationships (with his family and friends) or is this behaviour of his only meant for Bani?

Ans. Jai is a transparent man. One can see what he is feeling at the very moment. It is his quality never to say anything behind the back. To say on the face of a person. This quality sometimes make him a very aggressive and dominating person. On only with bani, this quality of him we can see in his behaviour with his friends and relatives also. So far we have witness that whenever there arised a need to become a aggressive or dominatind in his relations with jigs, ranvir, adi and mohan, he react that way. Bani is not an exception. His and bani's relation is totally different so as their nature and situation in which both got married. Their path of journey started from friend to like to hatred to love for each other. So it is obvious that we feel that his aggressive nature meant for bani only. But it is not so.

What do you make out of Bani's passive attitude towards Jai? What do you think is compelling her to keep quiet and take his cruelty and his kindness in her stride? Is it because she is so hopelessly in love that she prefers Jai as he is, instead of losing him for ever, or is it because she has given up completely on him and has no energy or will to fight him back?

Ans. Well there is no doubt that she is hopelessly in love with jai. She understand jai and his behaviour very minutely after their marriage. She knows that basically jai is a very good hearted person but situation made him diff personality. Becoz of jai's good quality and transparent nature, bani fallen for love with jai first. She accept jai as he is. It is very natural that when you love a person, you accept his good qualities as well his weakness. So did bani. She don't want to loose jai at all. Remember when jai called lawyer for divorce from bani, she was very hurt. She didn't want to get apart from jai but she was helpless as she can't be able reveal the truth of anu. Her emotion and reaction said that she loves jai so much. With pregnancy issue she had a mix feelings in her heart. Like first she didn't tell the truth to jai so guilt on that part, jai's getting hurt and misbehaved with her so emotionally shattered and jigs totally nonsense crap words so humiliated and hurt her self respect, all made her became passive and not to react situation. But jai's openly confess tht he was upset becoz he consider her as his wife and his apology works as medicine on wound of bani. So she will not given up on jai. Are yaar abhi to dono ko dur tak jana hai… hamme entertain karna hai….

Please guess as to what would be Bani's attitude towards Jai from today onwards? Will she show her usual warmth and silent love towards him, or will she completely cut herself off from him, yet be her usual wifely self?

Ans. She will not at all cut herself off from him. It is not possible for her to do so as she loves him so much. She knew that by not telling the truth abut anu to jai, she will hurt jai. Why I wrote she knew becoz she said to jai that "main apko ye sach pehle bhi bata sakati thi". This sentence says itself what she was doing with jai. So she felt guilty for hurting jai. She was only upset with the kind of words jai used when he was fired her. But jai's realizing his mistake and apology made bani to love this man more. We can see this in her eyes when jai apologized her. Now onward there will be only love between them and she perform her wifely duty not robotically but with love so as jai.

Do you think that Jai will end up confessing his love to Bani before Roshni and Jigyasa can make an entry again?
And if yes, do you think that Bani will accept his love or prefer to walk out of his life this time? Do you think that Jai and Bani will consummate their marriage, before the "Mystery" is cleared up?

Ans. Well I m pretty much sure that jai will confess his love before two vamps can make and entry. And when jai confess, bani will also accept his hubby's confession and his love. See whatever misunderstanding created between them now resolve. Bani's place in jai's life reaches the top most place. Bani will now jai's first priority. Now jai will not let go bani out of his sight. So he confess his love for as soon as possible. Bani already forgive jai after jai's apology as she loves him and accept him as he is. Jai also very well know roshani n jigs never like her. But at the same time he don't care for their appose or reactions. Regarding cosummate marriage, both will take a time. As from the situation they passed through so far, it is obvious that they need a time. Now before mistery or after mistery, it is in ekta mai's hand. We can't predict.

As per the Astrologer's prediction, will Jai's love really become Bani's pillar of strenght and protect her from all troubles and evils (Read Jiggy, Ranveer, Roshni and maybe Pia )

And. Oh ofcourse. Astrologer's prediction will be ten percent true. Earlier when bani started to love jai but jai wasn't on the contrary at that time jai had a hatred feelings for bani, eventhough whenever jai gave a good reaction to bani's action no matter that reaction was forcefully (read masi) or naturally, bani's face filled with happiness and her confidence level boost up a little bit. If that was the position when jai was hate her, what will be her position when jai love her. Wife's strength always remain in her husband's love for her. It will become a pillar of strength in fighting against all odds of life. Here also jai's love become a pillar of strength for bani and protect her from evils of the house as well as outside. She will have a "powerful weapon called love of jai" by which she will be able to throw all the people who try to become an obstacle in her marriage life.

An analytical question; Jai and Bani will be completley devoted and in love with one another for the rest of their lives, but their relationship will always be an unequal one, with Jai forever having the upper hand. Agree or disagree, please share your views!

Ans. Jai is not a kind of a person who dominate his wife. He is a man who believe in equality. If not then jai would not have gone to bani and asked for her help and suggestion in anu's matter. He would not have open his heart and confessed his failure in uniting his family in front of bani. His ego would have stopped him to do this. Remember his action was not impulsive. He with full hearted and with true concern asked her help. Also not to forget that at that moment they r not completely devoted to each other. Ya they love to each other but that too not reach to a stage where they totally confess their feelings. On the contrary they were passing through a major ups and downs in their relationship. Eventhough jai asked for her advise. when both will be devoted to each other and love each other like anything, their relation will be most stable one with equality for their partner. Both knows each one's strength and weakness. So they will live their life by taking into consideration this strength and weakness and whenever there emerge a problem to solve, both will do it by considering and giving proper weightage to other's point of view without any ego factor to let in in their relationship.

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Hey MT - I feel like I am coming to your party after it is over - but I am trying to put in my 2 cents anyways. Better late than never..........

Do you think that yesterday's episode marks a turning point in Jai's attitude towards Bani? Please guess, that from now onwards, Jai will never lose his faith in Bani, come what may? Or do you think, that this is only a temporary incident and Jai might well be back to square one?

I have already seen the video update of the next episode so any answer I write will be biased so I am skipping this one

Do you feel that Jai was always in love with Bani, he just wanted a mental nod that Bani is the "Eternal Good Girl" that he had imagined her to be and now with this truth coming out, nothing will be able to stop him from coming out with his true emotions for Bani? Or do you think that Jai will now realize what a wonderful person Bani is and now fall in love with her?

No, I do not think he was always in love with Bani. He always trusted and respected her but never really understood what a wonderful person she is. I think he first realized it when she landed up in Goa and covered up for him but the turning point was when he realized what she had done for Anu and everything that went through to protect Anu and the family name and honor.

Do you think that Jai as such is an extremely dominating and aggressive man in all his relationships (with his family and friends) or is this behaviour of his only meant for Bani?

I think it is more with Bani only - otherwise I do not remember any incedent where he behaves with so much force and aggression. On the other hand, Bani also lets him get away with everything and thus enables this behaviour of his.

What do you make out of Bani's passive attitude towards Jai? What do you think is compelling her to keep quiet and take his cruelty and his kindness in her stride? Is it because she is so hopelessly in love that she prefers Jai as he is, instead of losing him for ever, or is it because she has given up completely on him and has no energy or will to fight him back?

I am picking up from the time of the pregnancy fiasco - from the time that Jai gets the report upto the time that the truth is out Bani has been on one major emotional roller coaster ride with this man. He demeaned her and her family in the worst possible way, called a lawyer, took her to court, half signed the divorce papers, the walked out and then his amazing apology and 180 degrees change in attitude and behaviour. She had to find her footing back in this relationship and Jai will have to help a lot in this process. I do not think she now has a need to fight him back - she just needs her balance back.

Please guess as to what would be Bani's attitude towards Jai from today onwards? Will she show her usual warmth and silent love towards him, or will she completely cut herself off from him, yet be her usual wifely self?

Again as I have seen the next episode I cannot answer this in an unbiased way.

Do you think that Jai will end up confessing his love to Bani before Roshni and Jigyasa can make an entry again? And if yes, do you think that Bani will accept his love or prefer to walk out of his life this time? Do you think that Jai and Bani will consummate their marriage, before the "Mystery" is cleared up?

I think he will confess before Roshni comes as after her arrival he will again be in a defensive mode because she holds the secret over his head. I am not sure about Jigs because I am sure she will be back soon for Anu's wedding. Someone will convince her to come back (I do not know who and how). After the pregnancy fiasco I do not know about the consummation but I hope it happens around the same time as the confession. I would like to see them remembering their wedding during Anu's wedding ceremony and consummate their marraige when they will all be dressed up in wedding outfits and all.

As per the Astrologer's prediction, will Jai's love really become Bani's pillar of strenght and protect her from all troubles and evils (Read Jiggy, Ranveer, Roshni and maybe Pia)

Jai's love will become Bani's pillar of strenght and she has this immense quality of being able to sort out problems. An in any marraige troubles will be around but with mutual trust, love and understanding they will overcome them.

An analytical question; Jai and Bani will be completley devoted and in love with one another for the rest of their lives, but their relationship will always be an unequal one, with Jai forever having the upper hand. Agree or disagree, please share your views!

Yes, they will be completely devoted and in love with one another for the rest of their lives. Their relationship will not be an unequal one. They will complement each other perfectly and one will make up for what the other lacks and will always bring out each other strengths. It will be more like maasi's relationship with her husband (she described it in Goa). Bani will have the freedom to do what she wants and he will keep a watchful and protective eye on her.

Well I hope my answers have made some sense.