Ek Main aur Ek Tu / Jai & Bani.....Q & A

mistletoe

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Posted: 19 years ago

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Jai not only gave one mental slap to Jigyasa by telling her that she is a failed Mother, but also told Jigyasa and everyone present that from now onwards, he doesn't want to hear one word against Bani.....and this time he really meant it! Now, Bani can get away with Murder and Jai will close his eyes to it!😆 Sometimes, I really find Jai to be so guillble.....as I said before, Jai always reacts to situations and incidents rather than to people! For him, Bani is good as long as he can see her doing something good.....I don't think Jai understands Bani at all as a person, he only sees her in respect to himself, which is both a good and a bad thing! Good because, he sees Bani as a part of himself and hence this obessiveness with all that she does and bad because, he is so unpredictable towards her all the time.

But after yesterday's episode, I think that Jai will never doubt Bani again, come what may! Jai has always had an implicit trust in Bani, a sort of a hope against hope that Bani is the "Good Person" he has always imagined her to be and despite everything, he forced his mind to always believe that Bani is there in the House for him and only him.....and now with the whole Pregnancy Drama coming to an end, Jai has at last found the missing trust back and this time, he won't let it get away from him, at any cost! Falling in love with Bani, will only be a mere formality now....Jai wanted to open his heart to her a long time back, but there were too many road-blocks and too much of past between them for him to let his emotions flow uninterrupted, but now with the Trio of Evil disapperaing, namely, Pia, Roshni and now Jigyasa.....I think that God himself has blessed these two to come together, no one can stop Jai from completely and devotedly falling in love with Bani, for life!

Coming back to Bani, I understand that a lot of you are frustrated by her lack of voice and spirit and the demeaning way in which she puts up with everything that Jai throws her way! Surprising as it may sound, there are innumerous relationships which are far worse than Jai and Bani's marriage and they still flourish and survive decades of marriage! Love is a very unreasonable thing, it kind of submerges our logic, our thinking, our rationality, our responsibilities, our sense of self, our relationships and sometimes even our self-respect, as in the case of Bani! But that doesn't make us a weaker or a lesser person, it just proves what God had originally meant for us to learn.....That nothing in the world is higher than the feeling of Love we have for someone! And all those here, who have loved atleast once in their lives, will vouch for this!

I think it is this deep, unfathomable love that Bani has developed for Jai that makes her oblivous to all his faults and failings.....I am sure the day Jai realizes his love for Bani, he will be equally blind towards her and as I said before, Bani can get away with Muder then!😉

So my questions for today are;

Do you think that yesterday's episode marks a turning point in Jai's attitude towards Bani? Please guess, that from now onwards, Jai will never lose his faith in Bani, come what may? Or do you think, that this is only a temporary incident and Jai might well be back to square one?

Do you feel that Jai was always in love with Bani, he just wanted a mental nod that Bani is the "Eternal Good Girl" that he had imagined her to be and now with this truth coming out, nothing will be able to stop him from coming out with his true emotions for Bani? Or do you think that Jai will now realize what a wonderful person Bani is and now fall in love with her?

Do you think that Jai as such is an extremely dominating and aggressive man in all his relationships (with his family and friends) or is this behaviour of his only meant for Bani?

What do you make out of Bani's passive attitude towards Jai? What do you think is compelling her to keep quiet and take his cruelty and his kindness in her stride? Is it because she is so hopelessly in love that she prefers Jai as he is, instead of losing him for ever, or is it because she has given up completely on him and has no energy or will to fight him back?

Please guess as to what would be Bani's attitude towards Jai from today onwards? Will she show her usual warmth and silent love towards him, or will she completely cut herself off from him, yet be her usual wifely self?

Do you think that Jai will end up confessing his love to Bani before Roshni and Jigyasa can make an entry again? And if yes, do you think that Bani will accept his love or prefer to walk out of his life this time? Do you think that Jai and Bani will consummate their marriage, before the "Mystery" is cleared up?

As per the Astrologer's prediction, will Jai's love really become Bani's pillar of strenght and protect her from all troubles and evils (Read Jiggy, Ranveer, Roshni and maybe Pia)

An analytical question; Jai and Bani will be completley devoted and in love with one another for the rest of their lives, but their relationship will always be an unequal one, with Jai forever having the upper hand. Agree or disagree, please share your views!

Happy answering guys....would be awaiting your responses!

Cheers,

MT

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Divya Harji

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Posted: 19 years ago

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once again dame good written MT😳

so heres ur answers

Do you think that yesterday's episode marks a turning point in Jai's attitude towards Bani? Do you think that from now onwards, Jai will never lose his faith in Bani, come what may? Or do you think, that this is only a temporary incident and Jai might well be back to square one?

well from now onwards jai's faith and trust for bani will never ever go, he will trust her even more now😃

Do you feel that Jai was always in love with Bani, he just wanted a mental nod that Bani is the "Eternal Good Girl" that he had imagined her to be and now with this truth coming out, nothing will be able to stop him from coming out with his true emotions for Bani? Or do you think that Jai will now realize what a wonderful person Bani is and now fall in love with her?

hmm he actually had some feelings for bani long time back but we cant say whether it was love, respect or???

Do you think that Jai as such is an extremely dominating and aggressive man in all his relationships (with his family and friends) or is this behaviour of his only meant for Bani?

😕may be with all

What do you make out of Bani's passive attitude towards Jai? What do you think is compelling her to keep quiet and take his cruelty and his kindness in her stride? Is it because she is so hopelessly in love that she prefers Jai as he is, instead of losing him for ever, or is it because she has given up completely on him and has no energy or will to fight him back?

hmm may be she has just given up completely😕

Please guess as to what would be Bani's attitude towards Jai from today onwards? Will she show her usual warmth and silent love towards him, or will she completely cut herself off from him, yet be her usual wifely self?

hmm i think some difference will definetely occur in their relationship but dont know wether it will be good difference or bad

Do you think that Jai will end up confessing his love to Bani before Roshni and Jigyasa can make an entry again? And if yes, do you think that Bani will accept his love or prefer to walk out of his life this time? Do you think that Jai and Bani will consummate their marriage, before the "Mystery" is cleared up?

hmm may be he will confess his love to bani and i think she might ask for time some time or might be confused as what to do😕and about consumating if bani would accept his love then they might😉

An analytical question; Jai and Bani will be completley devoted and in love with one another for the rest of their lives, but their relationship will always be an unequal one, with Jai forever having the upper hand. Agree or disagree, please share your views!

hmm if jai would truly be in love with bani and completely hand himself to bani then in that case ill disagree with it

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Krishna

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Posted: 19 years ago

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😉Do you think that yesterday's episode marks a turning point in Jai's attitude towards Bani? Please guess, that from now onwards, Jai will never lose his faith in Bani, come what may? Or do you think, that this is only a temporary incident and Jai might well be back to square one?

No, I really think that yesterdays episode marked the turning point in Jai & Banis relationship for the better.The pandits predictions are going to come true atlast.😆 Until and unless Ekta mai begs to differ and does to them that she does to her every lead couple.😉

Do you feel that Jai was always in love with Bani, he just wanted a mental nod that Bani is the "Eternal Good Girl" that he had imagined her to be and now with this truth coming out, nothing will be able to stop him from coming out with his true emotions for Bani? Or do you think that Jai will now realize what a wonderful person Bani is and now fall in love with her?

I think he always respected her more then her sisters, but Jai fell in love with Pia for her looks and nothing else. Livivng with Bani he has come to realize that she is a wonderful person and he likes her and cares for her but being a pigheaded person😆 that he is, has not come to realize that what he feels for her is love.😳But hopefully in the coming episode we do get to hear his confession of love for Bani.😉

Do you think that Jai as such is an extremely dominating and aggressive man in all his relationships (with his family and friends) or is this behaviour of his only meant for Bani?

He seems to reserve this behaviour only for Bani.😡 Bad boy!! He is so loving and caring with dadi, mausi,Adi even with Pushkar before he betrayed him. Men do behave in such style when they have fallen in love and havent realized it yet. If he didinot love or care for her he would not behave in such a way.

What do you make out of Bani's passive attitude towards Jai? What do you think is compelling her to keep quiet and take his cruelty and his kindness in her stride? Is it because she is so hopelessly in love that she prefers Jai as he is, instead of losing him for ever, or is it because she has given up completely on him and has no energy or will to fight him back?

Humm.....interesting question. 😉She has definitely fallen in love with Jai and she does consider him her husband, you can guess all this from her reactions 😃when he keeps harping about the divorce. She has shown her spunk against Jai many a times but because of her sickness maybe she is just to tired to fight back and get through to his thick head, and make him see reason and trust her. Another reason is that she belives that this is one way of repenting for what Pia & Pushkar did, (prashtit kar na).

Please guess as to what would be Bani's attitude towards Jai from today onwards? Will she show her usual warmth and silent love towards him, or will she completely cut herself off from him, yet be her usual wifely self?

Am wishing that Bani does show some attitude to Jai to make him repent on his degrading and disgusting behaviour towards her,😉 but Bani being Bani will be her ususal wifely self with her warmth and silent love towards him. She really is too forgiving.😊

Do you think that Jai will end up confessing his love to Bani before Roshni and Jigyasa can make an entry again? And if yes, do you think that Bani will accept his love or prefer to walk out of his life this time? Do you think that Jai and Bani will consummate their marriage, before the "Mystery" is cleared up?

Hopefully, yes he definitely will end up confessiong his love for her before the two witches show up again and consumating their marrige might just be the way they do it😳😳 She will accept is love as she loves him too and no she wont walk away from him. The "mystery " will come out when they are living happily and comfortably with each other. Ekta always likes creating problems when everything is going smoothly and calmly.😡

As per the Astrologer's prediction, will Jai's love really become Bani's pillar of strenght and protect her from all troubles and evils (Read Jiggy, Ranveer, Roshni and maybe Pia)

Yes, definitely. 😆We got to see some of it when after finding out the truth he stood by Bani and took her side. 😃Thats the beginning of him being the pillar of strength and love to protect her😳 from evils such as Jigs, Ranveer, Roshni, etc.😆

An analytical question; Jai and Bani will be completley devoted and in love with one another for the rest of their lives, but their relationship will always be an unequal one, with Jai forever having the upper hand. Agree or disagree, please share your views!

Yes, they definitely will be completely devoted and loving couple, 😃hopefully for the rest of their lives on an equal footing. I dont think after everything he put her through he will have the upper hand. They might have a difference of opinions but they will work through them togehter.😊

Hope you loved my answers MT.

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Swathi

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Posted: 19 years ago

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My views...

Do you think that yesterday's episode marks a turning point in Jai's attitude towards Bani? Please guess, that from now onwards, Jai will never lose his faith in Bani, come what may? Or do you think, that this is only a temporary incident and Jai might well be back to square one?
I think that Jai's inherent trust in Bani has proven to be right now. If that money appropriation incident truth also comes out in the open then I think it is like 'sone pe suhaaga'. After the party when Aditya tries to speak with Jai Jai just said that don't talk with me as I just don't understand Bani. What I felt he meant was that he thought that Bani is Ms goody two shoes and he is dejected/shocked that she herself said that she is pregnant. So he just cannot understand her. and yes yesterday's incident is a turning point in Jai's attitude towards Bani. and I don't think that Jai will ever lose his trust on her (but u never know the TRP dynamics).

Do you feel that Jai was always in love with Bani, he just wanted a mental nod that Bani is the "Eternal Good Girl" that he had imagined her to be and now with this truth coming out, nothing will be able to stop him from coming out with his true emotions for Bani? Or do you think that Jai will now realize what a wonderful person Bani is and now fall in love with her?
I don't think that Jai was always in love with Bani. In case of Jai and Bani it is not a case of love at first sight like Pushkar. For them it has been a slow and steady process. Jai noticed and liked a few qualities in Bani as they started staying together. Maasi did one good thing by creating situations wherein Bani and Jai were thrown together for a considerable amount of time. I always think that for any relationship to work you need to spend some time with each other. You tend to understand the opposite person and start appreciating their virtues and adjust with their vices. Same case happened with Jai and Bani as well. They have started to understand each other. Jai was already in the process of falling in love when this pregnancy fiasco occured. With that cleared things should gain more momentum now.

Do you think that Jai as such is an extremely dominating and aggressive man in all his relationships (with his family and friends) or is this behaviour of his only meant for Bani?
Jai is extremely dominating and aggressive but he has some amount self control when it comes to his family members. If that was the case for a family person like Jai I don't think that he would have allowed Aditya and Jigs to split. It is just that with Bani unknowingly Jai feels that he has a bond which kind of makes him be the natural self and express whatever in his mind freely. So at present based on the circumstances he comes across as a very dominating and aggressive person.

What do you make out of Bani's passive attitude towards Jai? What do you think is compelling her to keep quiet and take his cruelty and his kindness in her stride? Is it because she is so hopelessly in love that she prefers Jai as he is, instead of losing him for ever, or is it because she has given up completely on him and has no energy or will to fight him back?
I cannot think of any other reason except possibly 'love'. She is so hopelessly in love that she is just not able to take any of Jai's words in any other way. Earlier she was ready to give it back to Jai as and when needed. But in the recent past she has come to understand Jai and his mental frame of mind and hence takes all his cruely, kindness in her stride.

Please guess as to what would be Bani's attitude towards Jai from today onwards? Will she show her usual warmth and silent love towards him, or will she completely cut herself off from him, yet be her usual wifely self?
Difficult question. I feel that Bani will try to cut off from Jai and yet be her usual wifely self. In fact I think that Jai will not be able to take her ignorance so easily and this is what will make Jai desperate to come closer to Bani and think of ways in which he can normalize their relationship. In fact nothing works better than ignoring the opposite person. It worked wonders in Saahi and Rano's case.

Do you think that Jai will end up confessing his love to Bani before Roshni and Jigyasa can make an entry again? And if yes, do you think that Bani will accept his love or prefer to walk out of his life this time? Do you think that Jai and Bani will consummate their marriage, before the "Mystery" is cleared up?
I think Jai will confess his love to Bani before Jigs can make an entry. But Roshni might come back before that. In fact in a way Roshini might be instrumental in getting Jai to confess his love. See for example he might see Roshni trying to create some sort of problems between himself and Bani and he might realize that all this is coz of the unspoken words between them and hence disclose.
Once again difficult to answer. I give 50:50 chance to Bani. Given how unpredictable Jai is and as she knows that she might just refuse Jai. But once again as Bani loves Jai she might accept. So can't answer.
I feel that Jai and Bani might consummate their marriage before mystery is cleared up. See that way they can stretch the saga of Jai not telling the truth to Bani for some more time...

As per the Astrologer's prediction, will Jai's love really become Bani's pillar of strenght and protect her from all troubles and evils (Read Jiggy, Ranveer, Roshni and maybe Pia)
yes. I don't think that Jai is every going to distrust Bani again and hence will be her pillair of strength in Walia house.

An analytical question; Jai and Bani will be completley devoted and in love with one another for the rest of their lives, but their relationship will always be an unequal one, with Jai forever having the upper hand. Agree or disagree, please share your views!
On the contrary I don't think that Jai will have the upper hand. I feel it will be Bani. surprised...then my reasons....Guys are usually this macho types and who all are dominating like Jai. But once they feel that they have found the right partner for themselves and someone whom they can trust completely they usually start relaxing and allow the partner to come to forefront. So in Jai Bani also I expect the same thing. A few episodes down the lane (after both of them have expressed) I expect Jai to mellow down and allow Bani to take the center stage at least in home affairs.

My views continued...
I feel that Jai will forget to withdraw the divorce application from the court. So they might once again get summons from the court and that is when cuddles might say something. that is another 25 days to go. I guess these 25 days will be enough to show some flirty/conciliation/staring scenes b/w Jai-Bani, Anu's marriage deal, Saahil eloping with Rano and Jai supporting to Bani...
Or else as MT says, Seema's bro might turn out to be Jai's friend who might kind of takes an instant liking to Bani which Jai might dislike. and hence prompt a quickie confession from his side...what say ?

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mayona

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Posted: 19 years ago

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Do you think that yesterday's episode marks a turning point in Jai's attitude towards Bani? Please guess, that from now onwards, Jai will never lose his faith in Bani, come what may? Or do you think, that this is only a temporary incident and Jai might well be back to square one?
I think yesterday episode was a turning point in Jai and Banis relationship and from now on Jai will start trusting Ban come what may because he cannot make himself embarrassed once again and I am sure he will become her pillar of strength by the fact yesterday the way he defended Bani against his own sister Jigs proves that fact. 😃

Do you feel that Jai was always in love with Bani, he just wanted a mental nod that Bani is the "Eternal Good Girl" that he had imagined her to be and now with this truth coming out, nothing will be able to stop him from coming out with his true emotions for Bani? Or do you think that Jai will now realize what a wonderful person Bani is and now fall in love with her?
I think Jai will realize that Bani is kind hearted and selfless soul who doesnt expect any thing in return but she can no matter sacrifice anything for the sake of others and this fact will make him realise that she is his ultimate soul mate and he can no longer deny himself from falling in love with her. 😳

Do you think that Jai as such is an extremely dominating and aggressive man in all his relationships (with his family and friends) or is this behaviour of his only meant for Bani?
I feel he is only agressive and dominating when it comes to poor Bani 😭 I feel he considered himself has her boss her mentor her guardian or benefactor these facts made him overlook the reality that Bani was actually his wife and she needed to be treated has companion 😳 not as an employee 😡

What do you make out of Bani's passive attitude towards Jai? What do you think is compelling her to keep quiet and take his cruelty and his kindness in her stride? Is it because she is so hopelessly in love that she prefers Jai as he is, instead of losing him for ever, or is it because she has given up completely on him and has no energy or will to fight him back?
I feel she still wants to repent for the mistakes committed by Pia and Pushky 🤢and but now she has started to consider Jai has her husband and being a traditional girl she does not want offend her husband by back answering him and she still has hope that one fine day his atitude will change and may be then he will realise her love for him. 😃

Please guess as to what would be Bani's attitude towards Jai from today onwards? Will she show her usual warmth and silent love towards him, or will she completely cut herself off from him, yet be her usual wifely self?
I feel she will always silently love him and she will continue her wifely duties. 😉

Do you think that Jai will end up confessing his love to Bani before Roshni and Jigyasa can make an entry again? And if yes, do you think that Bani will accept his love or prefer to walk out of his life this time? Do you think that Jai and Bani will consummate their marriage, before the "Mystery" is cleared up?
I think once Jai confesses his love for Bani then she will surely accept him has she too has fallen in love with him ❤️ and then may be consummating their marriage will be just another step towards strengthening their relationship 😉

As per the Astrologer's prediction, will Jai's love really become Bani's pillar of strenght and protect her from all troubles and evils (Read Jiggy, Ranveer, Roshni and maybe Pia)
I feel Jai will become Banis pillar of strength and no matter who ever try to become a road blocks in their relation whether its Pia Jiggy Ranveer Roshini 🤢will not matter what will matter that he loves Bani and come what may he cannot live without her presence in his life. 😃

An analytical question; Jai and Bani will be completley devoted and in love with one another for the rest of their lives, but their relationship will always be an unequal one, with Jai forever having the upper hand. Agree or disagree, please share your views!
I feel once they both fall in love it will not matter who has the upper hand because in a relationship what really matters is understanding and love and there is no bias in love😳 but I still hope Bani becomes a more stronger individual in future so she can face problems easily also she can express her feelings in much better manner rather than being submissive to others 😛

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Sangita

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On with the answers. 😉

Do you think that yesterday's episode marks a turning point in Jai's attitude towards Bani? Please guess, that from now onwards, Jai will never lose his faith in Bani, come what may? Or do you think, that this is only a temporary incident and Jai might well be back to square one?

The episode definitely marks a turning point in Jai and Bani's relations though some time will definitely be needed for the relation to turn into a positive equal one from both sides.
Jai's faith on Bani will stay unwavering for the coming days, until and unless there is some major lack of communication between the two. SO the trick for the relation to sustain is to maintain a proper communication channel.

Do you feel that Jai was always in love with Bani, he just wanted a mental nod that Bani is the "Eternal Good Girl" that he had imagined her to be and now with this truth coming out, nothing will be able to stop him from coming out with his true emotions for Bani? Or do you think that Jai will now realize what a wonderful person Bani is and now fall in love with her?

Jai has always felt strongly for Bani, maybe he has not always loved her the way as he does now. I am absolutely upset with Jai's behaviour with Bani in the last few days (although Bani is definitely to be blamed to some extent), but one thing has always been clear – Jai has behaved so violently b'cos he is in love with his wife. He could not believe that once again he has been betrayed by somebody whom he loved.
It will take some time for both of them to accept each other completely into their lives, without any misunderstandings or ill feelins or anything. God, I just wanna see them together.

Do you think that Jai as such is an extremely dominating and aggressive man in all his relationships (with his family and friends) or is this behaviour of his only meant for Bani?

Jai is absolutely dominating in his relations and more than aggressiveness, I think he is passionate in every dime and quarter of his life, whether at work place or family life. But, he definitely needs to tone down his body language and be a little patience in understanding others.

What do you make out of Bani's passive attitude towards Jai? What do you think is compelling her to keep quiet and take his cruelty and his kindness in her stride? Is it because she is so hopelessly in love that she prefers Jai as he is, instead of losing him for ever, or is it because she has given up completely on him and has no energy or will to fight him back?

This girl is definitely in love with her husband but she's completely unsure as to where she stands in respect of his life, love, family and everything else. All the recent happenings have shown her that Jai will behave properly with her when everythings hunky-dory. But when there is a problem, he will once again adopt a caveman approach and start mistrusting her. Lack of trust for her has actually caused Bani to adopt a passive approach.
Maybe she needs time to get back into groove and start feeling like a human once again. In this, Jai will have to take a major step and help her get through this ordeal.

Please guess as to what would be Bani's attitude towards Jai from today onwards? Will she show her usual warmth and silent love towards him, or will she completely cut herself off from him, yet be her usual wifely self?

I think she will become more monotonous and robotic as far as her duties are concerned, but she may be a little stand offish regarding her interaction with Jai. After all, the one thing that will haunt her for the coming days is that he didn't trust her enough to believe her.

Do you think that Jai will end up confessing his love to Bani before Roshni and Jigyasa can make an entry again? And if yes, do you think that Bani will accept his love or prefer to walk out of his life this time? Do you think that Jai and Bani will consummate their marriage, before the "Mystery" is cleared up?

I do think Jai will confess his love for Bani within a few days. This guy has gone completely bonkers over his wife. Just witness the look on Jai's face when Anu acknowledges her pregnancy and absolves Bani from the guilt.

Bani will accept his love but will take some time to consider the trust issue. She is a person for whom trust comes implicitly along with the person whom she likes or loves. But in this case, things are on a sour patch so the poor girl will have some serious thinking to do.

If and when they both end us trusting each other with their lives, they will think of consummating their marriage – the final eternal bond. But none of them should rush. This may turn Bani more into passivity and that's something we wouldn't want our hunnybun to turn into.

An analytical question; Jai and Bani will be completely devoted and in love with one another for the rest of their lives, but their relationship will always be an unequal one, with Jai forever having the upper hand. Agree or disagree, please share your views!

A very apt but very difficult question. It seems u r right MT. I don't think that their relation will ever be that of a complete equal one. Jai will keep on taking the upper hand in their marriage and the effects may be positive or negative. This may be due to the age factor and also Jai's basic dominating nature, while on the other hand, Bani is as soft as a feather (of course, she does have a mind of her own). But it remains to be seen whether she will use it or not.

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LiSa

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wow!!!! once again......u have done it MT....absolutely fabulous analyzation....briliant😳.......luv it how u do it😳.......👏.........n i agree w/ ya 100%........yipeee..jai trust bani so much tht she cud even get away w/ a murder😉......lol😆

So my questions for today are;

Do you think that yesterday's episode marks a turning point in Jai's attitude towards Bani? Please guess, that from now onwards, Jai will never lose his faith in Bani, come what may? Or do you think, that this is only a temporary incident and Jai might well be back to square one?

yup.......definitely i do think yesterday's episode marks a turning point in jai's attitude toward bani.....before the rpegnancy issue....we saw tht he was getting softer towrd bani....n developing feeling toward her....but the pregnancy issue broke his heart....as he started to fall her her.....n made him more like beast like...(hehe.....but i still adored him😳😳).........n now tht the truth is out....n he found out tht she did all this for him n the family's honor.......his respect n trust for her increased tremendously.......(yes!!! he will soon fall in luv as well😳😛)......n it will rake a lot for his trust on bani to b broken........awww......finally he wud actually care for her....n show his affection toward her......(or atleast i hope so😉).......n i hope this faith he has for bani never break....n i hope tht wat the pandit said bout their marriage bing just luvly......cums tru w/ no probz in their relationship........but then again noeing ekta.....ne thing is possible.....n with tht a lot of ups n downs as well😭............(but i m still hoping for the best......n keeping mi fingers crossed😳😊)

Do you feel that Jai was always in love with Bani, he just wanted a mental nod that Bani is the "Eternal Good Girl" that he had imagined her to be and now with this truth coming out, nothing will be able to stop him from coming out with his true emotions for Bani? Or do you think that Jai will now realize what a wonderful person Bani is and now fall in love with her?

i think he always respected her.......n hoped for the best from her......n now tht the truth is out n he realized wat a huge sacrifice she was doing for him n his family's honor........he wud realize tht wat bani really meant to him.....n fall in luv w/ her........awww.......CAN'T WAIT😳😛

Do you think that Jai as such is an extremely dominating and aggressive man in all his relationships (with his family and friends) or is this behaviour of his only meant for Bani?

hmmmm........no matter wat he is........i just luv him........but yes he is unpredictable.......can't really tell wat he will do next......always w/ sumthing new in his pocket.......but 1 thing for sure.......his feeling toward bani will change n becum really strong.AS HE WUD LUV HER YAY!!!!!😃

i m so sry MT...i cudn't finish answering ur questions.........cuz i have to go to skool.........but as soon as i cum bak from skool........i will definitely finish.....hope u rn't mad........loadz n loadz of luv.......take care.......

lisa😳😳😳

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anushka_5

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Posted: 19 years ago

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Hi MT!

Do you think that yesterday's episode marks a turning point in Jai's attitude towards Bani? Please guess, that from now onwards, Jai will never lose his faith in Bani, come what may? Or do you think, that this is only a temporary incident and Jai might well be back to square one?
Yes, it is THE Turning point… as u said Jai is going to have blind faith in her from now… but that wont stop him from flying off the hanger time and again. U need to be unconditional and trusting in Love, but not blindly… It is UNHEALTHY! I am not saying Jai-Bani will cheat eachother, but the world might use it to their advantage!!! Jai didn't even want to talk to her about what happened? He looked in a hurry to bury the episode and get done with it. Where is this kind of a relationship heading? Jai approved of Bani's idea of save his family pride… only on the ground that her intensions were good! Does Jai have any idea about the relationships that were at stake because of Bani's selfless act? Jai-Bani could have lost eachother, I am sure Jai has lost his sister and Anu her mother. As much as I respect Bani's intentions, I am dead against her way to solve it.
To be frank I am feeling a bit uneasy with Jai's behaviour yday. I really cant put words to what I am feeling… but the absolute, drastic change that we saw in Jai yday(For Good) is making me question how balanced he is? It is so easy to influence this guy… where has his basic trust and instincts gone? The one thing that struck me about Jai from the beginning was how sure he was about what he is doing…and the confidence and trust he had on his judgment. That was the strength of Jai Walia. I don't see that Jai anymore. He has begun to trust the outer world more than himself… be it Bani, Jigyasa, Anu, Roshini or anyone else for that matter!!! Wasn't he the same guy who with Jigyasa a minute ago tarnishing Bani's character? And then Anu spoke up and everything changed on its head as it were… OK now I am writing crap. I am just trying to find words to express my uneasiness… but I am not able to. I better stop blabbering!!!

Do you feel that Jai was always in love with Bani, he just wanted a mental nod that Bani is the "Eternal Good Girl" that he had imagined her to be and now with this truth coming out, nothing will be able to stop him from coming out with his true emotions for Bani? Or do you think that Jai will now realize what a wonderful person Bani is and now fall in love with her?

Jai is in Love with Bani for a long time now. If there is any doubt in the minds of the audience it is coz Jai is in doubt himself. That guy has lost his capacity to trust his emotions & his judgment… he has been let down by far too many people a lot many times!!! I don't blame him for it, but I hope to see him trusting himself more. If he had stuck to what his gut feeling was saying, he would have challenged Bani when she admitted she was pregnant. And that would be Jai Walia I would have been proud off.. I sure was proud of Aditya for the conviction he had in his belief over Bani even though Bani herself admitted to the report.

Do you think that Jai as such is an extremely dominating and aggressive man in all his relationships (with his family and friends) or is this behaviour of his only meant for Bani?

No. I don't think he is dominating… it is just that he is such a kid, that people are always fussing around him… pampering him, spoiling him, protecting him. From Massi to Bani, everyone is forever occupied with thoughts about Munna to Mr. Walia… be it Munna's favourite Besan Ladu to Mr. Walia's BP Tablets!!! I wont call him aggressive, he has a loud voice and a horrible temper which makes him look like a monster at times… but he is very soft and subtle gives the necessary freedom and space required in a relationship. He never stops Bani from doing whatever she wants to do… I bet Jai didn't decide the fact she should stay back at home instead of working. He never questions where Bani goes and comes back from… Bani has all the freedom she can ask for in that house, it is another question if Bani wants to use it or not!!! Once he has accepted a relationship… he surrenders to that person and will turn so blind, that they can take him for a royal ride to ho la la land!!! Do I have to say another name but for Pushkar? He lets Bani literally run his life.. one day bani isnt around he cant pick himself a night dress… Massi can get him to do anything, including hugging his enemy!!!
Another thing about Jai that works in all his relationships is that they are ONE and the ONLY one of its kind in his life… A person in Jai's life cant be replaced by anyone else. That makes the people around him feel special about themselves and think they have a right on him.
He may be unpredictable but he is very trustworthy and dependable. Even after whatever happened in the past which is for sure unpleasant The Dixits trusted him with the lives of their daughters even though they haven't seen him for ages and there was a possibility Jai would have changed.
With respect to Bani, it might look as if Jai is aggressive, but the truth is Bani is far too submissive… she needs a wake up call… I am tired of seeing her passive face for days now. I want to see the fire in her eyes that reflected the strength in her. Cant blame Jai for Bani's 'Sati Savitri, mera Pati Parmeshwar' act. Jai has always seen Bani as an equal… infact he sees everyone his equal… only then will he even consider to have them as a part of his life!!! Jai doesn't give respect… people need to command it from him.

What do you make out of Bani's passive attitude towards Jai? What do you think is compelling her to keep quiet and take his cruelty and his kindness in her stride? Is it because she is so hopelessly in love that she prefers Jai as he is, instead of losing him for ever, or is it because she has given up completely on him and has no energy or will to fight him back?

All I can say it, the moment she see Jai or hears him she goes into a trance… she hears nothing what Jai is talking!!! I cant explain it otherwise… If she tells me she is in Love with him and so she will forgive everything he does… I will lose respect for her that very moment!!! I believe in Unconditional Love and that doesn't mean being Blind!!!
You give up urself in Love, for that u need to maintain self respect and dignity for urself… only then will u be worth something to give ur self up in love. What is the use demeaning urself and surrendering urself to another person? If that person is worth so much that he becomes the prime focus of ur life, then YOU should be worth that much to give him urself!!!
If I think I know the kind of man Jai is… then even he wont appreciate it!!!

Please guess as to what would be Bani's attitude towards Jai from today onwards? Will she show her usual warmth and silent love towards him, or will she completely cut herself off from him, yet be her usual wifely self?

I don't see any drastic change in Bani… if all this turmoil didn't change her… nothing else will. I am hoping for Jai's past to re-ignite the fire in Bani again…I am done with her submissive act now. I am so fed up that I cant appreciate it any longer… it has become a habit of Bani and u left feeling it is nothing special!!!

Do you think that Jai will end up confessing his love to Bani before Roshni and Jigyasa can make an entry again? And if yes, do you think that Bani will accept his love or prefer to walk out of his life this time? Do you think that Jai and Bani will consummate their marriage, before the "Mystery" is cleared up?

Well that depends on when Rakshanda and Ashwini are free from their prior commitments and come back to the show. But I wonder why will Jigyasa go away? Will she really leave or Jai will stop her and may be apologize to her for HIS rudeness and not for his stand? Or will Massi turn up just in time. I am sure Bani is going to try her bit in stoping Jigyasa only to be insulted again. This girl wont learn… will she?
If Jai confesses his Love, Bani wont or should I say CANT overlook that… she will just run into his arms. Bani is going nowhere from Jai's life. She will remain in the center of it… well I am not sure about she staying in the House/marriage though after the so called 'RAAZ' is out.
Yes, they sure will consummate their marriage before the raaz is out… only then will there be extra drama in the show. Ekta wont miss an opportunity to spice up her shows even if that means it becomes inedible!!!

As per the Astrologer's prediction, will Jai's love really become Bani's pillar of strenght and protect her from all troubles and evils (Read Jiggy, Ranveer, Roshni and maybe Pia )

He will be her guardian angle for life now. Even if eventually they have to separate, she will never be out of Jai's protective ring.

An analytical question; Jai and Bani will be completley devoted and in love with one another for the rest of their lives, but their relationship will always be an unequal one, with Jai forever having the upper hand. Agree or disagree, please share your views!

I disagree. Atleast I hope not! I have always felt Jai treats Bani his equal may be not in terms of status and power but on a very basic human level. There are bound to be short comings in both… only together will they be able to complete eachother. If one of them have an upper hand, then the entire balance is spoilt. I do agree upfront Jai has an upper hand… but deep inside he needs Bani for his emotional stability. I don't care about what they portray themselves to the outside world(that is basically the audience) but I want them to know they are incomplete without the other by their side.

That's it from me. I realize I am being hard on Jai-Bani from yday… I don't know why? But these two are freaking me out lot more than I can handle… and worst I cant seem to lay my hands on the reason for my uneasiness.

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Anu.

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Neha

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Posted: 19 years ago

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Originally posted by: mistletoe

Do you think that yesterday's episode marks a turning point in Jai's attitude towards Bani? Please guess, that from now onwards, Jai will never lose his faith in Bani, come what may? Or do you think, that this is only a temporary incident and Jai might well be back to square one?

Definatly!!! Jai will see Bani as an angel from now onwards!!! He will see that whatever happens he should never again suspect Bani!! They will be more awkward with each other because he has fallen in her esteem and he doesn't know how to face her!!! In this sense they will be back to square one!! But they will be mentally closer than ever!!! he wont be able to stop thinking about her now!!!

Do you feel that Jai was always in love with Bani, he just wanted a mental nod that Bani is the "Eternal Good Girl" that he had imagined her to be and now with this truth coming out, nothing will be able to stop him from coming out with his true emotions for Bani? Or do you think that Jai will now realize what a wonderful person Bani is and now fall in love with her?

He wasnt in love with her before he just saw her as his wife and a good person!!! This incident has strengthened his trust in her!!! He is now either already in love with her, or going to fall in love with her!!!😆

Do you think that Jai as such is an extremely dominating and aggressive man in all his relationships (with his family and friends) or is this behaviour of his only meant for Bani?

I think that he is dominating because of his wealth, he is more so with Bani because he is scraed of falling in love with her and wants to seem hard!! We know hes all mushy though! 😳

What do you make out of Bani's passive attitude towards Jai? What do you think is compelling her to keep quiet and take his cruelty and his kindness in her stride? Is it because she is so hopelessly in love that she prefers Jai as he is, instead of losing him for ever, or is it because she has given up completely on him and has no energy or will to fight him back?

I think that she is going for the whole sacrafice thingy!!! She loves him so much but she cannot tell him and is scared of rejection so she is trying her best to stay away form him!! She is also trying to find out what is in his heart!! 😆 But she doesn't know!!! Her love is so stong!!!

Please guess as to what would be Bani's attitude towards Jai from today onwards? Will she show her usual warmth and silent love towards him, or will she completely cut herself off from him, yet be her usual wifely self?

She will talk to him less!! She will be her usual wify self at the same time!!! She stil silently loves him!!!

Do you think that Jai will end up confessing his love to Bani before Roshni and Jigyasa can make an entry again? And if yes, do you think that Bani will accept his love or prefer to walk out of his life this time? Do you think that Jai and Bani will consummate their marriage, before the "Mystery" is cleared up?

Either:

1. Jai will tell Bani he loves her before Roshni returns and they may consummate their marriage and Roshni will return and get angry and reveal the secret and Bani will leave the house OR

2. Jai will slowly fall for her and when Roshni returns the secret will be revealed and BAni will leave the house making Jai even surer of his love for her and he will find her and apologise and confess his unfaltering love for her!!

As per the Astrologer's prediction, will Jai's love really become Bani's pillar of strenght and protect her from all troubles and evils (Read Jiggy, Ranveer, Roshni and maybe Pia)

Of course the Astrologer never lies!!!!

An analytical question; Jai and Bani will be completley devoted and in love with one another for the rest of their lives, but their relationship will always be an unequal one, with Jai forever having the upper hand. Agree or disagree, please share your views!

Jai wont have the upper hand they will have a mutual understanding!!! She will be his stength and he will be hers!!!

Happy answering guys....would be awaiting your responses!

Cheers,

MT

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Renu

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Posted: 19 years ago

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Do you think that yesterday's episode marks a turning point in Jai's attitude towards Bani? Please guess, that from now onwards, Jai will never lose his faith in Bani, come what may? Or do you think, that this is only a temporary incident and Jai might well be back to square one?

The relationship has certainly taken a 'U' turn and Bani has proved her worth to Jai and the family and this surely is the turning point. Infact Jai will now know that no matter what Bani will always sacrifice for Walia Family!!!!

Do you feel that Jai was always in love with Bani, he just wanted a mental nod that Bani is the "Eternal Good Girl" that he had imagined her to be and now with this truth coming out, nothing will be able to stop him from coming out with his true emotions for Bani? Or do you think that Jai will now realize what a wonderful person Bani is and now fall in love with her?

Jai always did have a soft corner for Bani, with Pia it was infatuation(!) and he has always known that Bani is a very compassionate person and i think he too does not know when he fell in love with her. Now after this whole episode, Jai's love for Bani would be stronger. I dont think Jai will be able to hid his emotions for too long.

Do you think that Jai as such is an extremely dominating and aggressive man in all his relationships (with his family and friends) or is this behaviour of his only meant for Bani?

I think he was compelled to act the way he did. After all Jigyasa was always there to poison him!!!!

What do you make out of Bani's passive attitude towards Jai? What do you think is compelling her to keep quiet and take his cruelty and his kindness in her stride? Is it because she is so hopelessly in love that she prefers Jai as he is, instead of losing him for ever, or is it because she has given up completely on him and has no energy or will to fight him back?

I think she is hopelessly in love with Jai and cannot think straight!!!!and when you are in love nothing really matters.

Please guess as to what would be Bani's attitude towards Jai from today onwards? Will she show her usual warmth and silent love towards him, or will she completely cut herself off from him, yet be her usual wifely self?

I think she will be more confident now knowing that Jai is on her side.

Do you think that Jai will end up confessing his love to Bani before Roshni and Jigyasa can make an entry again? And if yes, do you think that Bani will accept his love or prefer to walk out of his life this time? Do you think that Jai and Bani will consummate their marriage, before the "Mystery" is cleared up?

Jai will not be able to hid his feelings for Bani for too long, and will definitely consummate their marriage soon. The fact that Jigyasa and Roshni are not in the picture this will be another plus point.

As per the Astrologer's prediction, will Jai's love really become Bani's pillar of strength and protect her from all troubles and evils (Read Jiggy, Ranveer, Roshni and maybe Pia)

Yes their love will be very strong. I think Bani was the kind of a girl Jai always wanted loving, caring!!!!

An analytical question; Jai and Bani will be completely devoted and in love with one another for the rest of their lives, but their relationship will always be an unequal one, with Jai forever having the upper hand. Agree or disagree, please share your views!

Jai and Bani will be really devoted to one another and Jai will have the upper hand but Bani would not mind it after all love makes everyone go round!!!!!!! 'Honto pe hamesha hasi ho, aankho me khushi aur gham ka kahi naam na ho'

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