Disagree With Sandhya - Page 2

Originally posted by: _mahi_

kya baaat hai jaaneman😉.. bade dhamaakedar topics bana rahi ho roj roj😉.. hehe😆

i completely agree with you dear😃.. i think the same that if a couple have the same point of view then they are just stuck with it forever😕 and there would be no one among them to bring a new perspective in the thought process.. they will be stuck to their mentality no matter how wrong or right they are😲.. thts why i agree that Opposites Attract😳 n thts why my HIM is so much unlike me haha😆.. great topic sweetness👏.. keep it up😃

Hey all, I am so glad you said something. I feel the same way. I really didn't like the part where she was in her head thinking that if she had known he was a confectioner with only 9th standard, she would have turned down the proposal immediately. Isn't this a form of discrimination? Why does she think being a judge or IPS officer is above someone who makes food?

I have never understood the snobbery of some educated people. I have two degrees, a BA in English, and a M.Ed in Education and Leadership which makes 20 years of school! My husband graduated high school, but never had the funds to attend college. His family was poor and had 10 children. He works in the service industry helping those less fortunate. He takes care of his family. He is loving, honest, funny ,tall and handsome, and loved by all. I find him so interesting. After being with intellectuals all day who compete to show their brillance, it is wonderful to come home to someone who cares about me!

Sandhyia had started to like Suraj. He was being so caring for her as if he could read her thoughts.(And he is definitely easy to look at!) As soon as she found out he was not formally educated, she decided he is not good enough for her. His family seems to be doing quite well financially. Her family really didn't have anything even though they were educated. I am with Suraj's family on this one!

@ChicagoCarole1,

Originally posted by: JustJ

JI woh tho mai har forum mein karthi hu 😳 as long as i enjoy show 😉

oh really😉.. thats so sweet of you😛.. i seriously like all your topics.. they are so unique😃

May be the dialogue was given coz she will realize later that wat she said was wrong...

Both kind of marriages can work out .What is needed is love and a desire to be together between two people .If they want to stay with each other , they will make their marriage work .It does not matter if they are similar or different .

Originally posted by: Lennie

I do think Sandhya probably meant it from her pov, how she thinks a marriage is to be

I dont think she is 100% wrong in what she thinks, but yes like you say contrasting ppl do work, but in ideal thinking that Sandhya has and most ppl have, she isnt wrong to think that as well

I wouldn't totally disagree with Sandhya. At her age one tends to idealise the world we live in. Our opinions on important aspects of life such as marriage and family are also strong. It is only when one goes through different life experiences does one's opinions get tempered.