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Posted: 14 years ago
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Tanvismile brought up an interesting question - which i dont have the answer to.

want to restate it, since the thread was somewhere last week, i cant find it.

When they left for Mumbai, Gauri was under the impression that bhairon is giving the money to jagat. She didnt know about this business of anandi depositing every month.

Consequently, she must have assumed that all was now kinda-sorta well between Jagat and Bhairon, and that Jagat must have been forgiven. (to some extent ... and it was sort of the silent treatment).

So, she must have had hopes of an eventual reconciliation...

after all, why would bhairon continue sending money for expenses if he was not atleast a little inclined towards jagat?

This is a fair argument.

What would be the counter argument to this? 😆 . I think this is a fair point.


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Posted: 14 years ago
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Tinoo, my answer is Madam Gauri hs desease of assumption, which she sd be treated😆😆 She assume a lot of things and whn her assumprion prove wrong, she start blaming others😡. she assume tht there were no relation between A&J and didnt cross chked, she assumed tht Haweli people will waiting her with Garland😆 she assumed tht hearing the news of parpota, everybody will start doing Dandia😆, she assumed tht Anandi is behind all her problem and she is a big planner😆 and so on. if she was under impression tht everything hs been sort out thn did she talk abt this with J. NO. she continued blaming and doing shikayat for haweli people. did she asked J tht if they r sending money thn why they r not even asking their hal chal or even J is not having any contact with thm except money. was she satisfied with money flow from thei side and she hd no any question in her mind for anyother things. chalo pisa to aa raha hai, baki sab jaye bhad me😆😆 and even after knowing the truth tht the money is from A as bhikh, why not any question to J😆 it prove tht for her most important things was getting money anyhow and humiliate Anandi any how. thts why she didnt bother anyother things till she was getting money but know any connection and whn she got SMS, she took it as opportunity to humiliate A, but again whn she came to know tht it was J, who begged, again she hd no problem in getting money from A and trying to find other reason to bash her till she is there😆😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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hi ankit -- yes you are right. she should have asked how come there is money flow...but no relationship.

how come there is money flow ...but nobody calls to wish you on your birthday.

it does seem a bit odd...actually not a bit but perhaps a lot.

That being said, she may have assumed that bhairon is sort of fulfilling some concept of fatherly duty towards Jagat maybe. (but that too is again an assumption 😆😆) .. and that he likes jagat, but hates gauri. so semi-forgiven if not fully forgiven.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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actually she always assumes abt oder ppl & their feelings & take them 4 granted how much she misbehaves wid them and its also a fact & even she also knows that her assumption r always turn out 2 b false but still she starts having new set of assumption as per her convenience in the hope that oder ppl"ll accept her & reject A.
sum ppl r saying that she also proves 2 b gud beendani if once A is out of the haveli!! though even if she proves 2 b gud beendani then does it make her right?? but i've serious doubt abt it. once shes accepted she"ll again start blaming A & her screaming & screeching sessions also start each & every day. bcoz she has serious psychological problem of prooving herself greater than A thaswhy she always keep saying 2 A that shes doing drama of greatness & that she(G) isn't great like A. and she also wants oder ppl 2 say that G is better than A in terms of educn, habits, nature & oder things!!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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1. A wife should have clear information about her husband's finances, especially when her own subsistence and future is dependent on it. Granted Jagya lied to her about Bhairon sending money------but Gauri could have cross checked Jagya, especially since Jagya has a long history of lying. She could have grilled Jagya whether Bhairon gives the money as a stipend or a loan, or more simply, she could have secretly asked the bank as to how is the money deposited. I can't believe Gauri blindly trusted Jagya after all his lying feats and after knowing about Bhairon's stand regarding Jagya. Leave alone Anandi sending the money---maybe that possibility did not come to her mind---but shouldn't she try to know whether Jagya gets the money from any illegal activity or not? Shouldn't she inquire and have a clear picture of the truth?

2. Even if we consider Gauri's ignorance, her shouting at Anandi has no excuse. If there is a sudden sms that comes to your husband's phone informing him of the money transfer---with no introduction, no context, no explaining-----any person with some common sense will understand there must have been a past context to the sms. The best thing is to ask your own husband. But Gauri never questions Jagya. She never questioned Jagya why he ran after Anandi's jeep and then lied about it, she never questioned why Jagya needed to go the cowshed in teh middle of the night, she never questioned him why on earth would he call Anandi on his birthday, nor did she question him why such a weird sms from Anandi would come to his phone, or whether eh knows anything about it. Instead she just makes assumptions---------as I said she lives in a fantasy world where she and Jagya are the happily married couple, Anandi is the scheming evil vamp trying to snatch away Jagya and the haveli people are evil villains trying to separate them too. If only once she would wake up and smell the coffee, things would be very different.

Edited by woman11 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: woman11

If only once she would wake up and smell the coffee, things would be very different.

She wakes up and smells it but the problem is next day she again forgets ...! Don't u know her bhoolne ki bimari ? Super brain wipers which I think RedApple had found a very probable explanantion for 😉😆
Edited by hooked - 14 years ago

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