Kinjal's behaviour is all Koki's doing - Page 2

I agree Yuks i feel that koki is to be blamed for kinjals behaviour no matter how wrong your child is u just dont give up on them if you do then you failed your child. She should have explained to kinjal what happen with urmang then she would have seen the bigger picture but instead of telling kinjal she married her off to dhawal (i think dhawal is a sweetheart) if it had been just dhawal n kinjal things may have worked out but instead she as wicked witch of rajpal nagar making her life difficult.
in a previous posting i did say that i dont blame kinjal because aham n kokila washed their hands off her as soon as she got married, the post was about how disgusting kinjal is but is it her fault i dont think so. the credit card was it her fault no it was urmila one hand she is leeching from jigar n the other dhawal.
i also feel urmilla has added fuel on fire so she also is to be blamed for kinjal behaviour

Originally posted by: nigo123

I think kinjal could change dhaval or adapt to his situation if urmila was not there but as long as she is there kinjal cannot live in peace. And the problem is that kokila knows how urmila is but did she once think of the mental abuse her daughter is going through. And abt gopi she had no right to suggest kinjal and dhaval's marriage because she herself does not know how to make her marriage work or understand basic things in life like not washing electronics anybody would know that. Did she ever see urmila washing the tv? But when first kinjal was rude to gopi it was because of ahem and kokila again. First she sees her mom being mean to gopi so naturally she thinks hey why should i care i will do it too since my mom is doing it. second gopi was the reason her relationhsip with umang and her best friend anita's life was ruined. And who brought poor gopi into all this the great kokila. Maybe umang's love was not strong for kinjal but then ahem's love was not strong for anita either. So how come we are not blaming ahem and why do we still like him just because he is the lead. He ruined another girl's life for his mommy what is the guarantee that he wont do that to gopi? (but that is another whole topic). I agree that kinjal should not have said about pregnancy but how is she supposed to think of everyone as family when her mother always distances herself from that family during problems. Kinjal does not think of hetal or her hubby as parent figures. And kokila does not think of jigar as her son. Technically they are a family just for the name. And kinjal of course blamed her mom and bro and to teach them a lesson she lied. Kokila forcefully got both her kids married to people she liked and not once cared about their future. She deserves everything bad she gets from her kids. I have no idea what ahem respects and admires her for. I will never forget what she did to anita or gopi in the beginning. the way she made sure gopi never got close to ahem and when she punished her by locking her in the storage room angry like she is not a 2 year old (shouldn't even do that to a kid). she is a grown woman.No matter how many nice things she does her sins will never be cleaned.

I do not mean to bash you😊, i am just saying my opinion so hope you do not get upset..😛 your POV also makes sense especially more if hetal was the mom lol...

Oh Nooo!! dont worry I get it.. Thts just your POV and I totally respect it and I get it as well. I just dont like blaming Koki for the whole thing but yes she is definately at fault.. If she gave teh right upbringing.. But I guess its Karma for all the pain she gave Gopi.. anyways I totally understand your POV and Im definately not upset.. I mean thats the whole point of this forum isnt it..to have a healthy discussion😃