silence is not always acceptable-bani - Page 2

I agreed with my buddies that bani keep silence for the sake of her family but again I believe that if she has decided to give back a tight answer to jigs and ranvir that her silence justify but if she keep mum just to save family pride by covering anu's mistake (as of now we assume that its anu who is pregnant n not bani) then she is making a mistake by tolerating all the nonsense which jig and ranvir utter at the cost of her self-respect. Family pride is different thing and self respect is diff and what evil duo utter for her, the kind of words they used, no woman will be able bare it.

I firmly believe that before anyone else inform jai abt the issue, she should be the first one who let jai know abt it. By doing this there bonding will become more strong. That increase the trust level for each other.

I firmly believe that before anyone else inform jai abt the issue, she should be the first one who let jai know abt it. By doing this there bonding will become more strong. That increase the trust level for each other.

Totally agree with kiah - does'nt matter if she is pregnant of Anu - she must inform Jai and keep his confidence before Jigs does it. If she is indeed pregnant and Jai gets the news from Jigs then it will be harder for Bani to make Jai understand anything. She know him so well - she should protect herself.

Bani did retalliate and even lifted her hand on Ranveer. But she was stopped by Jigs. That itself shows that she will not take insults on her character very lightly. She had retalliated when Jai commented on her character. (And here, the big mouth Jigs was not closing her mouth at all and the cameraman was rotating the camera so much that Bani, who was already sick, could not react).

Even if she told about Anu's preg (probably there is a kasam involved here), Jigs would have yelled at Bani and would have insulted her sisters Pia and Rano's characters also along with Bani's. She will take anything but not anything for her sisters.

If she told something to Jai now, he would have become tougher on Bani bcos he is highly egoistic and puts the "izzat" ahead of anything else, and here, it will be directly on his family member - Anu. Moreover, the tenderness towards Bani is not very aged that it does not take a small reason for him to become tough on her again.

Everybody would need the proof that Anu is preg, and nobody will believe her words so easily. If the Dr. report is made in the name of Bani Walia, what proof does she have that Anu is preg, and so, she will be blamed for trying to spoil the reputation of the family member - Anu.

Also, Bani is anyway leaving the house. So, probably she has thought, the time is best to tell everything and the very people will put their head down in shame.

Somehow, I felt that Bani had sort of decided about her action when she was looking at the conversation between Jigs and Jai. She will do something, definitely. She is also bound by the kasam that she has given mausi and that is why she did not walk out of the house like she did last time.

even i agree with kiah...she should be the one to tell Jai first...that'll build a relationship of trust, which is very important...

and i said this before also - Bani's protacting the family's izzat would make more sense if she kept her mouth shut in front of outsiders, i.e., the delegates...ghar ke logon ko bata dene se izzat jane ki jagah bachayi bhi to ja sakti hai na...since now that jigs is so hell bent on insulting Bani at the party, if Anu really is the one who's pregnant, then Jigs will end up shattering the khandan's izzat herself! so then what's the point of being silent? if Jigs knew that Anu is pregnant, she would never create a scene, and the whole thing could be covered up much easier...oh well, these are all hypothetical theories yaar...

but then again, maybe Bani does have something in mind...let's just wait and watch... 😊

I have feeling that when jai finds out at party tomorrow he will say yes she is pregnant to save the family's honur. but after he going yell at her and I don't think she will leave home becuz they haven't shown the rano and sahil track yet.