silence is not always acceptable-bani

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Silence is not always acceptable-bani

I don't understand bani.😕 Why she was listening silently all the craps jigs and ranvir😡 utter about her. She should have oppose by saying that pregnancy report is false. If a woman is pregnant or not, woman herself is the first one who know about it. So bani must have told both the jerk at the very moment that she is not pregnant and report is false. As I said silence is not always acceptable. People take you in a wrong way. When jai accused her for juggling of money and said a bad words, at that time she gave the answer back to jai and left the house. So what is wrong with her this time. What is in her mind. In my opinion she should have told jai everything when jai asked her the reason of crying. Now both understand each other. Know the feelings for each other. Jai will definetly understand her.😊 But no she didn't say anything…….damm bani. Don't behave like this.

Or other reason of her silence is that she is upto something. Bani would not be as dumb as we thought.😛 Remember when jigs tried to trap her with cooking when jai's foreign delegates came for a dinner, Initially she behaved as if she was very scared and didn't know how to manage everything. But very smartly she managed everything without giving hint to jigs about her planning and took admiration from jai and his friends. So this time it is possible that she already clarify with doctor about the truth ness of the report but prefer to keep quiet and then throw a atum bomb on jigs in the party and diffuse her evil planning.👏

I am confused about jai's reaction. But I have a gut feelings that being everything control by ekta mai, it is her habit to drag the topic as far as possible. Also ekta mai is expert in converting good people to bad people.😭 So here also she will drag it bit far by jai misunderstand bani, accuse her, then bani will leave the house and masi will be back after yatra and not finding her bahu in the house and then same old story repeat………I think script writes knows that people are interested in jai-bani's togetherness. If they show everything going smoothly between them, there will nothing left more to show except "raaz" issue. So their planning is to first show tension between them, then show soft feelings for each other, again tension, then love and so on………kya kare 1 sal me thodi khatam karni hai serial….. isko to abhi 5-6 sal tak chalana hai……….😉

Lets see what Monday episode says.

have wonderful weekend for all India forum pals….

Love

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Posted: 19 years ago
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I like ur analysis Kiah...but to me, it seems dat bani did a rite thing by maintaining silence. She knows as a matter of fact that even if she defends herself, stubborn persons lyk jigyasa n ranveer care a damn about it and wont believe a single word of her. Moreover, assuming dat anu is da person who is actually pregnant, even if bani discloses dis truth to jigyasa, all she will get is a big thapad from jigs. Hence, she prefers to maintain silence. Moreover, its also a matter of Jai's reputation for which jai has worked hard enuf to maintain. Thus, these two possibilities can b da two reasons for bani's silence. Way to go bani 👏 ...

As dey say, silence is golden 😛
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Posted: 19 years ago
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I like your post Kiah and I also agree with Riya but I feel Bani should have cleared herself from this messy situation may be she is waiting for the right time hope she knows the real culprit and discloses the entire issue in the party sometimes I feel this siuation is also linked to the raaz where she wants Jai to open his mouth about the secret has Roshini wants to disclose something after she comes back this a confusing situation lets just wait for Monday. 😊
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Posted: 19 years ago
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i agree with both the views, actually...sometimes, silence is the best policy too...and like riya said, it is possible that Bani is keeping her mouth shut just to save the reputation of the family - if Anu is pregnant...but here also, i don't see what's the use of being silent when it's only the family she's facing...i would have understood the silence much better if this question was asked to her in front of the delegates...aakhir problem to family ki hi hai na, to phir unhi se chhupana kya sahi hai??? but then again, maybe Bani has something in mind...

i guess we can just wait and watch...since jigs promised a showdown in the party, something or the other will definitely happen...
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Bani prefers to keep silent in front of jugz bcos she knows dat even thou bani herself tell da truth to jigyasa n ranveer, both mother-son duo wont believe her. Dats y she prefers to keep quite. Seriously, even after bani reveals da truth about her (bani) not being pregnant with any bachcha, its obvious dat jigs wont believe her for da same.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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in this case..i think bani did the right thing by staying quiet, if Anu is pregnant, then bani is saving the family "izzat"

And also...it was the mum-son duo againts Bani..two against one..

Silence in this case is the best thing..and also..if it is Anu who is pregnant...then jigz and ranveer would feel more guilty.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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hmm...well i guess she did do a good thign by staying quiet - this time anyway...but there are times when i wish she would speak up and shut Jigs up...like in yesterdays UK epi where Jigs was just taking the mick and orderign ehr aroudn liek a servant! it was so horrible to see and poor Bani didn't once open her mouth!
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Analysis hun!!! I know bani should of cleared things up…but then again maybe she did do the right thing…u never know… I really want the truth to come out…coz bani's silence will only create further confusions!
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Ekta kapoor really has an intelligent mind i must say...in order to drag her serials, its best to keep da mouth of da main lead character shut 😆 as dats da only way to increase da viewer's interest n maintain curiosity...ekta mai ki jai ho!! 😆 😆
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Posted: 19 years ago
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I agreed with my buddies that bani keep silence for the sake of her family but again I believe that if she has decided to give back a tight answer to jigs and ranvir that her silence justify but if she keep mum just to save family pride by covering anu's mistake (as of now we assume that its anu who is pregnant n not bani) then she is making a mistake by tolerating all the nonsense which jig and ranvir utter at the cost of her self-respect. Family pride is different thing and self respect is diff and what evil duo utter for her, the kind of words they used, no woman will be able bare it.

I firmly believe that before anyone else inform jai abt the issue, she should be the first one who let jai know abt it. By doing this there bonding will become more strong. That increase the trust level for each other.

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