Am I a coward?

I have gone through this in my mind over and over again, and come to the conclusion that I would not prosecute sadhu if i were in asha's place.

if everyone start foloowing this view thn no complain sd be made for any crime. suppose if anyone murdered, thn why to complain, u cant return dead person, but u will be harassed in court cases and other complication, thn why to complain. just leave t and move on, anyway u cant change anything. as concern to the she went to Sadhu herself, so she sd not complain, thn all dhongi baba sd be allowed to do whtever they want in their Asharam, they dont go to anywhere but people come to their ashram, so they get license to do everything with thm. if innocent fall in the trap of cheater, he sd be silent, becoz its her own fault. if we will start keeping silent only becoz openng our mouth can create problem to our family thn whnever u go agaisnt wrong it might create problem to ur near dear, so we sd bear all injustice silently. Asha is not forcing anyone to fight for her, but why she sd be silent, only becoz she live on the mercy of others?? if her near dear r helping her, thn instead of appreciating thm , is it ok to criticise thm? i simply cant understand this logic.

Thanks ankit. But I dont agree with any of your statements.

Originally posted by: tinoo

Thanks ankit. But I dont agree with any of your statements.

So then, my question must be in some framework of individual good vs. social good.

And I cast my weight in 'individual good' ... not social good,

which is what anandi does the opposite of. 😆😆. No wonder i have so many issues with her character.

Originally posted by: ankit111

, such trend wil be dangerous even for selfish POV, becoz after such accident, a person cant live with pride, if she will not do anything. if not think abt society , but for individua its not acceptable for me. i dont think its good for individua too. it will curb invidual personaity and will haunt u whole ur life. this is my personal view😆

I hve not posted anything in this forum for a long long time...I was silently reading the topics and the comments. But this topic, and the comments provoked me to write ...

Originally posted by: tinoo

Fantastic response 👏👏👏. No I did not mean you were forcing your POV on me, because I invited all points of view. I just meant that I did not agree with your POV.

Okay, so I want to take this forward.

Yes, good reply that it will curb an individual's personality... which then brings up the topic of

'self-respect'.

What is 'self-respect' -- is it inflicting punishment on someone ... or is it focusing on your own life and moving forward without punishment? Meaning is the broader form of self-respect to move on with your own life and push yourself to higher levels?

i work with one ngo who support girls with such past ... molestation n rape ... n trust me , their life is hell... mental damage is far more den dere physical pain ... n it cld have been better only if dey had complained on first incident instead of tolerating the pain over n over again ... n yes wat u described is wat dey say too ... but dis thought led dem being molested again n again... as it gives confidence to the criminal dat the victim is too weak n he can take advantage wtout ny fear , dey repeat dere sins again... n also make dem overconfident to play wt other girls ...

If Asha remains silent after such an accident on her personality (not on her physical body),she would be taken 4 granted n blackmailed by Guruji n then his chelas (Guruji allows this to escape himself n establish that she is a prost) etc., etc.,till she finally becomes a wreck at the hands of all in the society.

It is not only how better we drive that decides our safe reaching home but rather how better the others drive to allow us reach home safe. Hence society first then we next.

All the reformers,leaders,avatars,prophets are the outcome of such innumerable accidents that push 2 a jeopardizing limit to put humanity at stake.

We shall always be prepared to train our children WHY of the values that keep us happy those can also be got 4m the other elders n sacred books!