Personally, I think if anandi does not leave haveli voluntarily, then dadisa will throw her out eventually.
If at every nook and turn of her journey anandi is going to pick fights with people (regardless of how valid they are) and create upheaval for dadisa's family and hundreds of people who are now vengeful towards the singh family -- which causes danger to nandu etc. I dont think that she will encourage anandi.
In dadisa's place, I certainly would not tolerate one new incident after the other every day. And all in the name of this 'student recruitment program' for her "iskool". It is one thing if anandi stays quietly and does not jeopardize anything in a negative manner. It is completely another thing if anandi has a whole host of incidents one after the other like this, day after day, month after month, year after year.
Maybe that will be the push anandi needs to move on with her life.