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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: vasuja


Kushi i understand you. My dislike for Anandi was not sudden...I could understand her even when she said she won't file the case on J. I was upset with her when she arranged money for jagya and from there their has been no direction in her life...A has been brought up in village and all but she has always been a rebel in many ways.

She has stood for justice and I remember how she argued with bhairon that Shyam's tausa needs to be punished for varun...but when it came to her own life she turned a blind eye...

Somewhere it is very similar to Gauri...Gauri stands for justice and even voices and fights against bad deeds but when it came to her she turned blind eye

Even I don't want to dislike Anandi but I can see where the story is heading too...Should Anandi set example for being a sati savitri again. I know their is an inevitable JAAN reunion. But if that is the case does A have been given any asthithva. Will she ever become something other than choti beendini of haveli and jaggu's wife. I am disappointed and seeing the track I have no hopes

i understand vasu.
financial help to j is even ok for me as it was bheek to j as i see it that way
but this mandir track is disappointing.
and yes g never stands by her words but her actions r very harmful to others too but in anandi's case it is not harmful to others...she is suffering only due her self destructive behavior!
JA reunion was a nighmare for me🤢
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Posted: 13 years ago
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After today's episode I am convinced that Anandi will never exude the kind of strength we want to see of her. 🤢
She will never stop loving Jagya, she will never stop fulfilling her duties as a beendi, she will never take any actions against Jagya and she will keep performing her patni dharm for Jagya. 🤢

Leaving alone the horrible mess the CVs have made out of Anandi's character, if I take her character as a real life woman, she portrays the worst possible case of social conditioning. No matter what happens, no matter how badly she is treated she will never be able to come out of her Sati-Savitri mode🤢. Those patriarchal, regressive ideals have been deeply engraved in her psyche and she can NEVER NEVER escape them. It's frustrating beyond imagination but then, as I have mentioned earlier also, there are REAL life people like her. I have seen our maid almost dying out of domestic abuse------severely battered and tortured by her drunkard husband-------but refusing to leave her husband or think ill of him. Such tendencies attain alarming magnitudes of masochism and women like these are frustrating to deal with, because no matter what you do or tell them, they will NOT stop worshiping their husbands.🤢 No I don't hate these women, but yes I do feel helpless and frustrated when I can't make them come out of their regressive beliefs.😡😭

Maybe the CVs are portraying such real-life women through Anandi but since this is a serial with a social mission we expected something better than what happens in reality. We expected a role model, we expected an example that can inspire real life women like these to be different. What is the point of making a serial that just reflects the reality and does nothing to change it? Shame on the BV creative team that makes a joke out of serious social issues and serves the most regressive, patriarchal ideas nicely spread out on a platter. 🤢
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: woman11


Maybe the CVs are portraying such real-life women through Anandi but since this is a serial with a social mission we expected something better than what happens in reality. We expected a role model, we expected an example that can inspire real life women like these to be different. What is the point of making a serial that just reflects the reality and does nothing to change it? Shame on the BV creative team that makes a joke out of serious social issues and serves the most regressive, patriarchal ideas nicely spread out on a platter. 🤢
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exactly what i am thinking...showing reality is enough now...show the moving on!!
kya kya hota hai...yeh dikhana hai toh social mgs q??
social mgs toh tab hoga naa jab anandi will move out from darkness and become an example to others...and a inspiration!
what is showing these days is general victim child bride
where is the inspiration??
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I dnt get one thing wat makes ul think dat g is becoming negative.i know her reply to ds was nt required but she was very hurt by ds words,we al know dat when g is upset or angry she always haue to say something ,n wat she said she wil do her best to make him happy so wat is there negative.i know break up track is coming soon n j wil go to haveli .bt it is nt required her to be negative.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: vasuja

today was complete annoying crap...

kushi: Even If jagya and Singh family had kicked out Anandi she would have done the pooja becoz she lubs him and is a mahaan aatma. I lost my respect for Anandi today Kushi...She likes to be tortured. She gets pleasure being tortured and facing troubles.



Vasu yaar... that is true.
They like to hear crap

:( such women do exist. they like to take abuse. They like to be shown down and take it. Its not because they are mahan its just cause they have very low self esteem.

And Anandi when it comes to Jagya has very very very low self esteem.



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I have seen it happen in front of my eyes.

my aunt is one of them.
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And this precisely why I cannot HATE Anandi no matter what or ever find fault in her. cause , that sthe harsh reality of such women's state of mind.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: tanvismile

I dnt get one thing wat makes ul think dat g is becoming negative.i know her reply to ds was nt required but she was very hurt by ds words,we al know dat when g is upset or angry she always haue to say something ,n wat she said she wil do her best to make him happy so wat is there negative.i know break up track is coming soon n j wil go to haveli .bt it is nt required her to be negative.



Tanvi as of now G is not negative. My only worry is that if they want to redeem Jaggu make him realise without getting punished then the easy way is to make G negative... If G becomes negative it is easy to realise na...I feel J is more guilty than G any day. But I don't trust CVs. JAAN reunion keliye kuch bhi karenge.

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