Whom To Blame

The grave situation Radhika is now, who do we blame?.'' we blame Mansaram who got the wrong information that Rohan is Rd's KK! We blame Purohit family for spoiling Rohan for whom Dev refused to accept Rd as his wife even though Rd did whatever was possible to convince Dev that they are already married while they were chidren twelve yrs ago''we blame Rohan for making her life hell . We blame the society norms bec of that Dev thought will not accept their child marriage'.and now after their marriage everybody is blaming her for everything'from dada's death to this fear of loosing everything to trust''..nobody is blaming Barkha who is the root of this havoc in Dev-Rd life'.the family still wants Dev to marry Bk...we blame Barkha for unknowingly putting down Rd's prestige under the eyes of PF '.Padma still is blaming Rd for tarnishing her name'..but she does not blame her son for her present situation'Daima blames her to be selfish...but was she not the witness to dada's recovery by hands of Rd..Is dada not the main culprit to be blamed! ...PF only sees all that name & prestige slipping out of their hand , they think bec of Radhika'.Is not Rd the silent witness to all this misfortune thrown at her? ..Rd knows that if Dev is going to fight for her rights, he will be separated from his family, & he will be blamed for loosing their name, prestige, property'...& his family will hate him as they are hating her now'so for eternal love for her husband she is doing what she thinks is best for him 'But in the end Kanha is going to set everything right for his devotee'..Kanha says " I didn't make any rules & regulations of dharma, you the people have, to fit the norms of society? I judge the people for their pure heart, & selfless approach towards the humanbeing, I certainly won't blame Rd for her present situation bec I blame you all for pushing her into that ???

Originally posted by: chalhov

maryamavina a very thought provoking thread as whatever you have said is correct as all and the circumstances are forcing Radhika is do now what she is doing.She has been pushed her self esteem and confidence at the lowest and all who are pointing a finger to her have their own four fingers pointing towards themselves. Radhika is doing what she thinks is best for Dev and to protect him.

Dev has this tough task of setting everything right for his wife and get back his fighting confident Radhika back and making her socially accepted. get back her prestige and making her the good RPtine. All my sympathies are for Radhika as she has no one to fall back on or guide her and at present thinks whatever Dev says is because he loves her.

Originally posted by: Naina007

It all goes back to when Dev decided he'll sacrifice his love for Rohan.

And of course, not believing the childhood marriage.

From then on, the unfold of events tumbled down like dominoes.

Originally posted by: nikki1591

i dont blame barka. bc radhika is the root of the problems. y would pple blame barka into decieiving a husband to remarry his wife?? how could radhika expect her friend to marry her husband? thats a ridiculous notion. radhika wants to talk about barka deception. well didnt radhika decieve everyone by telling people she was rohans wife. in fact shes kind of a brat. everytime things dont go her way, she will tell lies to get her way. case and point

1) trying to convince dev marriage is real- no one believed her so she went into the house as rohans wife

2)she wants barka to be devs wife -so she tricks them

3) she doesnt want dev to announce her as rajpurohitian- so she guilts him.

in fact this would have been solved if she had told her father that rohan had told her that dev was her kissankanha at the fair not rohan. her father didnt believe bc it was a feeling rather than actual evidence

barka is a true friend.one will go out of the way to make sure that her friend is happy. shes doing this for radhika well being. she wants radev to be together not apart, so y would pple hate her. shes the one person in this series besides mansaram who wants them to be together. and if were talking about radhika saying dont make decisions for my life, then how can radhika make a decision for barka and devs life. how can she decide that dev will marry another girl for sake of society and barkha will give up her life to be a rajpurohitian??? and radhika thinks shes doing a duty????im sorry but isnt not committing a sin more important then duty. who is more important?? the god that has united radhika and dev and wants them to be together or daddaji a human being who has committed his own sins. shes sick and twisted and at this point dev deserves barka bc at least he has a wife who is not so messed up in the brain