My perspective on friday Sept 09, 2011 episode...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hi all,

Like most of you i am pretty upset and sad, didnt have the courage to look at the episode. It was only a few mins ago i did looked at it and here are my thoughts, please no chappals, lol...

Dev dreamt if he declared Rads as his wife what would happened, therefore it was clear he wanted to do that but in the circumstances he chose to do differently, he didnt want the society to malign Rads and call her names so he gripped his palm in pain and said 'Barhka' meekly with his heart shattering in a thousand pieces.


We all r saying he does not deserve to be RP bcoz he lied to society but we must remember he was under tremendous pressure from his family and the one person who he loves more than himself Radhika when one is backed into a corner we feel suffocated and cant think straight this was exactly what happened with Dev he wanted more than anything to said Radhika but all the pressure that was put on him won.

In life these things happened, i am sure we all made mistakes in the past and none of us know if put in such a situation how one would react we might think we do but we dont.

I am not saying i condone what happened in the episode, i am angry too but after looking at the episode keenly i saw it in a different light.


Friday's episode to me didnt brought Dev down but showed that he is human afterall and not god that some of us think he is.

Also the way the pooja was done its evident that pooja was done between Dev and Radhika and not Dev and Barkha because:

1) Dev remained firmed and didnt put sindoor on an unmarried woman head, Rads put it on Barkha head so this ritual had no meaning as a husband should put sindoor on his wife only and dev didnot put on Barkha bcoz she is not his wife.

2) Rads was between Dev and Barkha right through pooja, Dev didnt held Barkha hands but Rads so this part of the pooja was done between RaDev who cares what society thinks or Dev delusional family we all saw what was going on, he held her hands rite through and looked at her all the time.

BTW, these ppl r really clueless, the abbot and everyone. Barkha didnt had on Mangalsutra and Sindoor Rads had both. Dev looked at Radhika all the time and it was evident he was hesitant in performing the rituals with Barkha, all these ppl r stupid i think a 5yr old have more sense than them.

3) The best part for me was when Dev looked at Rads and gave the Vachan to his real wife. 😃

Please comment, i know u all r feeling pretty down but i suggest u look at the episode with a clearer mind and u will see it in a different light.

TO ME THIS POOJA WAS DONE BETWEEN RADEV...

Lets see how RaDev come out of this mess, monday episode will be interesteresting to see how everyone reacts mainly RaDev,the precap was sad but cute...😛😳


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Posted: 13 years ago
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ya i agree with u we all are humans and can make mistakes .. whoeevr in dev's situation will take this decision only>>> i support u ... he didint leave his pati dharm too he didi the pooja only with radhika..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: radhameera

ya i agree with u we all are humans and can make mistakes .. whoeevr in dev's situation will take this decision only>>> i support u ... he didint leave his pati dharm too he didi the pooja only with radhika..



Thanks dear, yes Dev will stand by his wife Radhika always.

He looked like someone who was in great pain seeing his wife's place being filled by someone else lets see what happens on Monday.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Sunita, I am so happy you could see some good in the episode...but for me it was very upsetting...An RP started his term on a lie...in Friday's episode they made mockery of Hinduism and God...and than of RaDEv...So what were Cvs trying to do send carrots in our way by showing raDev holding hands and Dev looking at Radhika?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Sunita: very well observation. I tried on the 9th to voice but nobody commented. I am with you. Once Dev in power of RP, he will do the right thing. At the moment, if he took Radhika by his side, he would have been thrown out too.
Here is my comment from 9/9/11.

I thought Dev performed the best RP role under the circumstances. He thought about announcing to the society about Radhika and realised this was not the time. The society would have stoned Radhika away. He held Radhika's hand tightly in the Puja making her understand I rule form now on "Sit down, hold my hand and do as I say" That was my interpretation from RP Dev's action, holding His wife's hand.

The track is going perfect. Dev RP will accomplish all well once in power..


Give time.

Beautiful work by Dev and Radhika.


Edited by Minajay - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i agree with you beautifully said think always possitive
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Sigrid, isn't there a saying in Gita, it is ok to lie, if it is to cover the wrong doing, something like that

I am trying to locate that phrase
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Sun, the problem is in the execution of the episode. After the promo, more or less everyone expected that Barkha would be the fake wife. But they really repelled the audience the way they did it.

Yes, Dev is human and he succumbed to a weakness brought by Rahdika's words and also Dada's words. It is true that he realized that he had to take RP title because no one else in his family was able to do so. Also he is at a emotionally low point after all the revelations about his parents and then on top of that, Dada died after his marriage. So his only support is Radhika who was telling him that he would lose her (emotionally) if he accepted her. So just as his cruels words drove Radhika to take that drastic action of acting as a fake wife of Rohan, so would Radhika's threat of going away from him would make desperate to lie like this. So he went with her lies to hold onto her. After all, she is his only family left.

Now if they had shown it in a different way where Dev realizes that at this point, there is no support for Radhika because of the double standards of the society that would not support a poor girl but would forgive a rich guy (Rohan) for his sins. Also that he doesn't have the influence his Dada had because only now he has been declared the heir and people haven't known his work (Mahants do but they are big time hypocrites). So the only way is to play their game and then bring in the change (afterall you can only bring the change when you are an insider).

So then they could have shown him talking to Barkha and asking her if she is willing to go this far with him where she would pretend to be his RPtain for a short time. Since Barkha has already broken society rules and is considered his wife in the society, she would have agreed to this.

So that would have been more palatable where Dev is shown to buy the time as well as make his position strong by bringing a lot of religious heads on his side so that when he brings out the truth of Radhika, they are accepted. Of course they can still go with their fake track by showing that Dev misjudged Barkha when he didn't realize that she is some sort of fanatic the way she does things. He thought of her lies as innocuous, but they weren't as they caused huge problem in Dev and Radhika's lives. So he would have trusted her but then later on she could have been shown betraying that trust. So his wrong actions would have haunted him and Radhika too.

Instead, they showed him springing this as a surprise on Barkha with Radhika praying to Kanha that Dev makes this decision. IF they had shown this as either a strategy on Dev's part or a human weakness, it would have gone better. Instead they showed Radhika and Dev justifying it in the name of dharam and Kanha. That brought down both of their characters.
Edited by why6 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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To sacrifice needs courage and Dev sacrificed his love for RP and for society so he is not weak but he is a strong person
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Posted: 13 years ago
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mostly agree with sigrid dev could have still declared rads as wife then give explanation upon explanation first the 2nd marraige with radhika instead of barkha then tell everyone why rads is not characterless why she stayed as rohans wife in the PH not going into all the details all of us viewers know that and if that did not work then tell about the childhood marraige --that day coming in 100yrs etc and also finding the pundit who witnessed this childhood wedd. at last but not least the old man dada also knew that no one can break that bond -marraige
because on what kind of a day it happenned as all this could have happenned over a month or 2 thats how a story would have moved forward and while doing all that rohan,virat and bb could have tried to bring radev down and in the end all the evil guys would loose
there would have been no need for dev to lie the faithfull vierwers like us understand the complex thinking of radev but aam janta who watch these just for fun get mad and think what the heck is going on
tell me if my 2 cents are really 2 cents or better

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