Like most of you i am pretty upset and sad, didnt have the courage to look at the episode. It was only a few mins ago i did looked at it and here are my thoughts, please no chappals, lol...
Dev dreamt if he declared Rads as his wife what would happened, therefore it was clear he wanted to do that but in the circumstances he chose to do differently, he didnt want the society to malign Rads and call her names so he gripped his palm in pain and said 'Barhka' meekly with his heart shattering in a thousand pieces.
We all r saying he does not deserve to be RP bcoz he lied to society but we must remember he was under tremendous pressure from his family and the one person who he loves more than himself Radhika when one is backed into a corner we feel suffocated and cant think straight this was exactly what happened with Dev he wanted more than anything to said Radhika but all the pressure that was put on him won.
In life these things happened, i am sure we all made mistakes in the past and none of us know if put in such a situation how one would react we might think we do but we dont.
I am not saying i condone what happened in the episode, i am angry too but after looking at the episode keenly i saw it in a different light.
Friday's episode to me didnt brought Dev down but showed that he is human afterall and not god that some of us think he is.
Also the way the pooja was done its evident that pooja was done between Dev and Radhika and not Dev and Barkha because:
1) Dev remained firmed and didnt put sindoor on an unmarried woman head, Rads put it on Barkha head so this ritual had no meaning as a husband should put sindoor on his wife only and dev didnot put on Barkha bcoz she is not his wife.
2) Rads was between Dev and Barkha right through pooja, Dev didnt held Barkha hands but Rads so this part of the pooja was done between RaDev who cares what society thinks or Dev delusional family we all saw what was going on, he held her hands rite through and looked at her all the time.
BTW, these ppl r really clueless, the abbot and everyone. Barkha didnt had on Mangalsutra and Sindoor Rads had both. Dev looked at Radhika all the time and it was evident he was hesitant in performing the rituals with Barkha, all these ppl r stupid i think a 5yr old have more sense than them.
3) The best part for me was when Dev looked at Rads and gave the Vachan to his real wife. 😃
Please comment, i know u all r feeling pretty down but i suggest u look at the episode with a clearer mind and u will see it in a different light.
TO ME THIS POOJA WAS DONE BETWEEN RADEV...
Lets see how RaDev come out of this mess, monday episode will be interesteresting to see how everyone reacts mainly RaDev,the precap was sad but cute...😛😳