Anandi and Dadisa's double talk - Page 5

OMG😲😲 gulabjamun and paneer r my fav!😛...sach main!!

I mentioned even paneer in my BOTW thread!!

What a coincidence tinoo!!😛

Btw itni baar mera naam..guys main embarrassment k marre mari jarahi hoon!😳😳😳😳😳

@tinoo - 👍🏼 well put ! 👏

I agree with you Tinoo..Anandi should teach a lesson to jaggya..we'll be vry happy if she do so..

Well said Tinoo. We have no control over how others should behave, feel or react. What we do have is the ability to control how we behave, feel or react. It is up to us how we choose to respond to other posts. If we choose to get upset over the written word on a global platform without considering factors like ambiguity, frames of references etc then ownership of the emotion is all ours.

Anyway Anandi is a fictional character representative of women in a similar or far worse position. Why should she be exempt from any kind of criticism? Afterall her character is modeled on the human condition which is very flawed. Why should she be treated differently but it's ok to post 'taunting' comments for say Gauri. Being a victim puts a greater responsibility on a person because they have to show by example how to rise above the victim status. In my personal POV calling Anandi a victim is actually insulting to her, her abilities and her potential. Anyway what may be a taunt to one could be a compliment to another. It's very subjective.

Originally posted by: tinoo

Suchi --

1. Yes you did tell me that you would like to hear 'such and such' this way. But is that sentence in good taste? and what is the meaning of saying that you would like to hear 'such and such' this way to me? The only meaning is that you would like to me to change my ways so that I mirror or parrot back to you something that you want to hear. That is ridiculous.

It is like the three of us -- you, khusi and me all being at a wedding reception.

And khusi helps herself to paneer curry, rice and gulabjamun at the reception -- she puts it on her plate.

And I put chappati, chicken curry and then apple pie on my plate.

And then you come to me and sit next to me and start attacking my plate choices and say "khusi is eating paner, rice and gulabjamun" and i am in agreement with her choices... because I like vegetarian food, and believe that everyone should consume indian dessert, and think that wheat products are bad. It makes me feel better when I observe her plate"

Now is there any meaning to saying that to me at all ?... the obvious intent of the statement is that you want me to change my food choices, which is ridiculous. So, I am not of that ilk where I will dump the food on my plate to make you happy.

My obvious reaction in this case will be to tell you "I am eating what I like, not what Khusi likes. If observing Khusi's plate makes you feel better - and you agree with her food choices then go and sit next to her and watch her eat."

2. You say you never forced me to change my views.

I am amazed at your narcissism Suchi. Do you not think that you have some sort of inflated view of your own power in others lives?

That statement only makes sense if you were in a position to force me ... but did not force me. Then I would applaud 👏👏 your great mahaanta in not forcing me. But here YOU ARE NOT IN A POSITION TO FORCE ME TO BEGIN WITH. What authority do you have over me? None. What consequences will you be able to inflict on me if I dont do something you say? None.

Five posts ago, you said that you were giving me permission to report you. But in what way do I need your permission to report you? and is this permission anything I sought?

3. Then, suchi you say "And I did not say, tinoo, say exactly like what kushi said .. rather I said, that is a better way of saying things. "

Really suchi, Kushi's is a "better" way? Better by which yardstick? Your subjective yardstick? yours and yours alone?

Do you mean to tell me that you are so egotistical that you consider your own yardstick to be the gold-standard of all yardsticks? 😆😆

What is the indicator of a "better" yardstick? One that makes you agree to a point of view?

So then let me ask you -- who are "you" ?

Let me put my HYPOTHETICAL position forth : I consider MY way to be better than Kushi's.

So, what are you going to do now?

lol tinoo.. you are giving me wayyy too much importance and thats why I think I have the power to influence you , cause if I did not, you would actually just ignore and go on writing about what you have to write instead of , wasting your time trying to challenge and imagine stuff that I have some power over you, and trying to prove that I do not and thus actually defending that stance that , I do not lol...

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When you could have just been like " post away and done with it "

So I say dear, POST away and IGNORE my posts :)

or else it will prove i have power over you , which is why you are unable to resist what I write and feel that you have to respond back , defending yourselves..

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on a lighter note.

Chill. I have said many times, taunting Anandi upsets me and I will react a ceratin way and never do I mean any personal attack business as you have taken. Rather just a discussion.

Heated comments bring about heated discussions and when they cool down, we cool down. So Now I am chill-ed and if you felt I was offensive then I apologize ...:)


[or do you take that as a command too and will refuse to chill?and take my apology: After all I am the Mahan Mind-controller hehe]

Originally posted by: parri814

In my personal POV calling Anandi a victim is actually insulting to her, her abilities and her potential. Anyway what may be a taunt to one could be a compliment to another. It's very subjective.

@suchi -- your apology is even worse than your earlier posts.