I'm very hurt but still trying to convey my feelings.Yesterday when i came on the forum i saw one post in which someone was bashing DD.I was very angry but i controlled my anger then i saw one post in which someone was bashing GC even at that time i breathe slowly and tried to calm myself.When i opened FB,same thing was going on there people are bashing GC or DD.Maybe many people here going through the same thing everyday even i tried to ignore as much as i can but now i'm really fed up with these bashings.The worst thing is that either DD fans are bashing GC or GC fans are bashing DD.What the hell is that??I have seen many shows and visited many forums.I have never seen any actor/actress is bashed as much Gurti are being bashed.
I know there are many fans who like Gurti together but love one of them more.For example i loveee Gurti together but i started to like GC more but that doesnot mean that i started to bash DD.You can't make ur heart started to love someone more like there are many fans who love DD.No one is telling u to love someone.But by bashing do u think that GC or DD is getting any benefit?One of the fan group when bashed the other celebrity do u think GC/DD will get happy by reading those comments??U know what they will feel embrassed that what are their fans are doing?May be they will feel stressed.At this time when the show needed us to get united.We are fighting with eachother.We think that GC/DD will come in another show with other actress/actor and they will create the same magic because their acting is too good.I agree with u that Gurti are best actor/actress but do u know that the other actor/actress will be as good as them?U can't create the magic if ur co star is not good.U know that half of the viewers do not come on the forums.Half of the people don't know the name of the actor/actress then how come they will know abt their personal lives.
You know what,The people who have divided us into many groups are no longer in this forum but they have changed our thinkings.I know each of them but i'm not telling their names because they are not in the forum and i don't want to do backbiting.Once this forum was very peaceful.People come here for getting fun.But now many of them left the forum even i'm afraid coming to the forum because i don't have strength fighting with those bashers.
If we will do three things,we can make atleast this forum peaceful.
1:If u don't like one of the Gurti then plzz don't go to their appreciation posts and started bashing them instead u can open ur fav's post!
2:Don't try to force others to like ur fav celebrity!
3:Please try to keep the personal lives topics away from the forum!
I know u have freedom of speech but try tro use ur right in a nice way instead of hurting someone else.
I'm really sorry if i hurt someone's feelingš.I never meant to hurt anyone's feeling.I know many of the people will ignore the post.Many of the members will be making faces that here we go again another advicing post.Maybe few of the people will agree with me.Maybe many of them will misunderstood me.
But i hope atleast 0.000000001 percentage of the bashers will stop bashing because many Gurti fans are getting hurt.One more thing if u want to bash any of the Gurti then please don't comment here because this post is not for bashing GC/DD.
Plzz don't dicuss their personal lives.
Thanxx for reading this long post!
Love,
Fatima
Edited by pickachu - 14 years ago
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