why do bedsi family ignore karal?

i dont get this,dere are 3 couples who recently got married and dere is rmj contest,every1 knows who will be the winner ie monalp,but no 1 including mona took pain to ask karal for it,hetal did ishara to karan but still he ignored it,,den bedis family expect hetal to behave well and except dem as a family,from the time sweety has miscarriage,hetal has behaved herself and we cld see a positive chnge after she came from vaccations,these small tings creates hatered between the family again

I agree. Hetal has changed but now they don't even listen to her. I understand that everyone is sad about sweety... Ok fine..but Karan being her husband should at least consider what she is telling him. Now, if Hetal goes back to her old ways they will wonder why. SMH

@Sweety, that happens. Lot of families have this thing of 1st fav., 2nd or 3rd when you have more than one young couple. Aesa hota hai...life is like that. Also I know you do not like Mona and your favourite is Hetal and Ambaji...so I can understand that.

Its not d matter of favouritism,its d matter hw much u care,wen hetal came wid tea,satnam tld gud u came,i thought he wil tel her to participate too,but he was mch interestd in tea wat she got.i thought mona wont tke part to win,so she dint askd karal for it,but even she is so excitd for cruise.i dint get any logic here,bedis were so very excitd to send monalp for honeymoon but dint even bther for karal,goldie an outsider send dem,hw can dey expect hetal to tke dem as family,nw karan add salt by tlkng abt givng d baby,just want hetal to shut him

Originally posted by: beetaurus

@Sweety, that happens. Lot of families have this thing of 1st fav., 2nd or 3rd when you have more than one young couple. Aesa hota hai...life is like that. Also I know you do not like Mona and your favourite is Hetal and Ambaji...so I can understand that.

Hetal could have changed that but she went in the opposite direction till now. I am happy Hetal has changed but Karan also needs to come closer to her and be more assertive(in a sensible way)in the family...things will change hopefully. At the same time you know the leads are Monalp and so they will be the eventual winners.

Why is Mona still kissing up to Sweetie by asking her to take part in RMJ..

They are not purposely ignoring Karan and Hetal. They are just too preoccupied with Sweetie. Even Mona main focus is on Sweetie.

No Hetal does not need permission from her mother...She is married..Her husband's buy into it and may be permission from ILs as they are joint family...She should consider and respect her mother's wishes too but it is not required..

You are right...

Since Chaiji left Hetal has been working all the day..but nobody cares..Bedis just ignore Karal in good times..but when anything bad happens they question Karal.. even Mona is not approaching karal to participate in the contest..as if they don't exist..